Have you ever wondered what your future soul mate is doing?

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Sometimes I sit and think about my future husband. What is he like? Does he live around me? Have we already met? I just find it weird that my future soul mate is out there somewhere and neither of us know we are meant for each other. :) <3 I love just letting my mind wonder.

Crimson_Petal · Accepted Answer

I suppose I do occasionally. It's more a sudden realisation that somewhere, the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with is out there. He's doing the things that will turn him into the guy I fall in love with. It is quite a big idea, that you don't know where or who they are but it's only a matter of time before you meet them (or if you HAVE met them- get together) and then your whole life will change.

Every time I think about it I remember this song

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=hC2nFFu-mj4

...I just have to hope he doesn't have homicidal reactions to musicals... ENJOY!

windy-rose · Accepted Answer

This idea has crossed my mind many times. What if I already know them and just have no idea?

What if for a minute they were suddenly able to see through my eyes without knowing who I am (besides future sm)? What on earth are they doing?

I think the way lives weave in and out of each other is a fascinating thing to think about.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yea I used to a lot when I was younger...but I fell in love with this guy in college and it didn't work out but I still miss him and can't forget...i guess I'm conflicted like part of me wishes we can be together forever the other part of me still wonders like who am I really supposed to be with? and what would he look like?

GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

Yes.

If we could time travel, and I could meet an older version of me, that's probably one question I'd ask. Along with... how in the heck did it happen, do I already know her, etc. I wonder if 50 year old me would still be single.

I wonder sometimes. I wonder if I've met her, or met her and things weren't right, or if I somehow turned her off to the idea of dating me. I just try to ask for wisdom for if I do ever meet her, that we'll both know it, and that it won't be too late to do the things we want (maybe have kids, travel, etc).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I pray for her from time to time.

eufc4eva · Answer

I don't believe in "soul mates". It's a beautiful thought, but I'm sure there are a couple thousand girls on this planet that I could be extremely happy with lol. I'm pretty optimistic about relationships. I've dated girls who were great and if the timing were better, I may have married. But I do respect the notion of  a "soul mate". It's a very alluring prospect.

RubyRedRox · Answer

I do :) I am writing him a diary that I will present to him on one of our anniversaries so he can see what I was feeling and thinking before I met him and during :)

slipslender · Answer

he's in arizona. in a desert. rotting. as the vultures feast upon his exposed organs.  i love just letting my mind wonder toooo :D

Ugliness · Answer

While I'm sitting here answering questions my now and forever soul mate is sleeping in the other room. She was too tired for sex so I came out to the computer.

Vermi · Answer

I do sometimes. I wonder if he's in a relationship right now or single. If it's someone in the future or the past. I'm hoping for an ironic twist to catch me off guard. :3

AllDay · Answer

Sigh all the time.  I kinda just wanna meet her but I try not to think of it because if I have a silhouette of her then I'll be too busy looking for the silhouette and not the real one

planetearth · Answer

Yes it is fun to think about. But I also think of the possibility of having multiple soul mates. I don't mean this in a polygamist way.

Jpalms56 · Answer

aha occasionally. It's fun to think about all the possible situations they could be in haha

NayaAbouzaid · Answer

Yes He's with other girls because he hasn't met me yet  and I'm JEALOUS !  lol Jk I just hope he's out there and that I won't be alone forever :D

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 18 and in college having fun and enjoying life. I always think about my soul mate and when I'm going to meet her.But I know at this point in time will be the past when I finally meet her. Plus, I have a lot more schooling left between grad school and specialist school so I have a line 11 year span to one day meet my soulmate. I've given up on relationships for now because I know that in my heart when I finally meet her, Ill know that she's the one...

curiouschica · Answer

Cute question! Yeah sometimes just randomly I'll think about that...

May31 · Answer

All the time. I think about he could be anyone around me & how happy we can be :)

sweet_18 · Answer

No I never wonder about this...lol. But I do believe there's a guy out there who's a perfect match for me.

infrea34 · Answer

I do. I write letters to him for when/if we get married. It's weird when you think about it a lot. I pray about him sometimes.

GymStatus · Answer

Nope. Only leads to disappointment... Or she messed up with me in the past... Better off single now ftw!

Lj236 · Answer

i always imagine finding the right person but I never think about what they are doing or if I have ever met them

Anonymous · Answer

She is married with kids (unhappily) -and still loves me

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

At times, yes.  Or if she even exists at all.

realmucoy94 · Answer

i think about it quite often.

Damienthedemon · Answer

nope but that is deep..

drummerdude25 · Answer

All the time...

dudeman · Answer

from time to time

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