All Questions

What do girls intend when they invite a guy to a party?

Long story short, this one girl who was in my class this past Spring, well I saw her for the first time since last week at a bar with a couple of her friends. Talk with her and her friends and then got her number, couple...

RJINTAMPA

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Guys: Do you kiss girls that you have no feelings for?

My issue: He is a very long time friend. He has been to war we had sex twice we have kissed out of no where before So... Does he like me in your opinion?

TornApart

Xper 6 Age: 39

Guys do you get scared when a girl tells you just how much they like you?

I'm scared that if I tell my boyfriend just how much he means to me I'll scare him off. I've told him I love him and he's told me back. But my feelings are so strong for him, I'm scared of losing him. Should I tell...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long after asking a woman out and getting a "let me think about it" answer should I wait to ask her again?

After asking out a young woman from my church group, and her telling me "let me think about that", I've been wondering how long I should wait to ask her again for the clarification. I know most will say that's a polite...

sousamagic

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why do black guys find white girls so attractive?

Ok... Sooo what makes a white girl so attractive to a black guy? What's the biggest difference between us and black girls? -looks? -sex? What?

sweetpea_8893

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do guys usually come back after a breakup?

i have been told a lot recently since me and boyfriend broke up we were together a year and a half. I have been told that if I give my ex boyfriend space and act like I moved on he will come back because he wants what he...

inlovewithbob

Xper 5 Age: 38

Dating

What to do after the first kiss?

So, Saturday night I finally made out with my crush. We were sitting in her car and I leaned over and we kissed. I thought it was passionate and after we began we started pushing each other in different directions, I got...

grandmothernfire9756

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why does my ex girlfriend still wants to be friends? Advice needed! Thank you!

Basically, me and my ex were together for 3 years 8months before she broke up with me. We were experiencing a Long Distance Relationship for 9months and she came back for a month before she broke up with me. Her reasons...

bluezstarz

Xper 4 Age: 36

What does it mean you are missing out big time?

I have meet a man on a dating website... Things went cool for a little while when we where to meet in reality.. He told me he didn't like my attitude on the phone I am a "socially negative person" ( which I doubting)...

mgdln

Xper 5 Age: 61

Why do I feel like he doesn't care anymore?

We've been together for 9 years. It's been a battle since day one. He kept going to his ex for sex until we finally were a couple. he lied to me since the beginning, about himself. I asked him why he lied, he said "you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should I give up on chasing a girl that's not that interested in me, even if I'm crazy about her?

I never had a problem getting girls until now. This the 1st girl ever to have me speechless when I see her, she makes me nervous when I'm around her, and I think about her constantly day and night. We started texting and...

neworleanz9thwd

Xper 5 Age: 37

How important is a guy's body to a girl?

okay so to go further in detail, I'm 6'1 and about 180lbs(about 80KGs). I go to the gym almost religiously and I'm pretty defined and structured well. I'd say my back is my most noticeable aspect. I always do pull ups and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys like teasing girls?

honestly if you don't like the girl y lead her on?

jessieray

Xper 3 Age: 34

My boyfriend won't add pictures of him and I to facebook but adds photos of him and other girls?

okay so I have tagged photos of him and he doesn't untag them, so people can see pix of us together. but for some reason he won't upload pictures of us together himself. I don't know why...i feel like maybe it's because I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My little brother is so disrespectful and abusive. Out of control... kinda long just bare with me

my little brother is so disrespectful and abusive and controlling toward everything.. we have a dog that is retarded I think and he's kind of a pain in the but but my brother goes over board and punches the dog or smacks...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do men reject women that they actually like?

Just a general question. Would a guy reject a girl that he actually has some feelings for? Even if he has just a small crush on her? If so, why would he reject her even if she expressed interest in him? Just to keep...

Anonymous

(36-45)

FWB doesn't hold hands in public?

This has never crossed my mind until I just read a post here saying that holding hands in public is one of the boyfriend-girlfriend act that FWB wouldn't do. True? Now I think about it and found that the FWB I had before...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Middle finger in photographs?

I have a question over here about girls and guys posting their pictures while showing their stupid middle finger in the picture? Seriously what is the whole point of the picture? "go f*** yourself"? can you people be...

ionlywantyou

Xper 3 Age: 36

Relationships

Why do girls like cocky guys?

It seems like all girls love the guys who brag a lot and think their better than everyone.

mchase88

Xper 3 Age: 38

Does he still care or is he just testing the waters? What the heck does this mean?

My ex and I met right before I moved to another state. The spark was so intense though, that despite the distance we both wanted a relationship out of it. So for a while we dated. It wasn't easy, due to the distance,...

Snovak

Xper 5 Age: 39

How should I cut ties with my FWB?

I have this FWB and I don't want to have sex with him anymore. I don't know how to tell him we should stop without making things awkward or making him not want to talk to me anymore. I still want us to be friends just not...

sweet_sugga

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why is he suddenly avoiding me?

He used to talk to me a lot. Even when we were hanging out in a group, he would talk to me more than anyone else and constantly asked about my interests and general questions about me. He seemed really relaxed around me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How should I dress for a Jersey Shore themed party?

I've never watched the show, so I have nooo idea what to wear, or how to do my makeup/hair. I'm short, 5'2'', a size A cup, flat stomach, sorta chubby legs, and a big butt. I have collar bone length black hair,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She's not nervous around me anymore, is that good or bad?

For a while this girl seemed very nervous most of the time around me. It got really bad at one point. I was torn between thinking she didn't like me and that maybe she did. She'd want to chat sometimes online, despite...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I like a guy who is 5 years younger than me?

I've always gone for older guys but I recently started a band with some younger guys and I'm really into the keyboard player. I just turned 23 and he'll be 18 in November. I have never liked a younger guy and I'm almost...

EMack87

Xper 4 Age: 39

I cheated, broke his heart, he ended it, will he ever come back?

To all you guys and girls out there I need your honest advice. I'm more interested in what the guys have to say about this, although some opinions from the girls is also appreciated. I'm 19 years old, before last Friday I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think only shallow and superficial girls are into muscular guys?

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Boys what do you think of brown eyes?

What are you boys take on brown eyes?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do guys look for in a girl?

What do guys look for in their dream girl?...One guy said the perfect pair of legs but what are the perfect pair or legs? Do you like girls with long or short hair better and do you like shy or chatty girls better...etc....

pearlgirl

Xper 5 Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Would a guy care if his girlfriend models?

I have been doing small modeling shoots for the past few months and I want to take it a step further. I told my boyfriend about it and every time I talk to him about it he gets all p*ssy and doesn't want to hear me talk...

ladyinred1989

Xper 3 Age: 37

Relationships

What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn't talk to you for days?

Me and my boyfriend have been pretty serious. We got into a fight last week, and haven`t seen each other since. He tried apologizing and tried getting back with me, but I told him I wanted to make sure he was serious...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend makes a lot more money than me, and it feels like he wants me to pay half always. Help!

My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 3 1/2 years. He makes 3 times as much as I do, and I try my best to contribute and pay half when I can, but sometimes its just not feasible for me. I try to explain...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Been acting kinda crazy since our breakup is there a chance he will come back?

see me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago I still really love him but I don't know how he feels for me he says he doesn't love me like he used to that it is more friend or sisterly like but he still really cares for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my ex ask if I still love him?

Bit of a silly question but why? I asked him and he said he was just wondering. Could it be he still has feelings for me? What should I do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He listens in on my conversations with other guys! What is going on?

I like him- a lot- and we've had a rather complex past. Last year (the first time we've seen each other in years) we had this intense eye contact thing which led me to believe that he had renewed his interest in me. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like girls' bodies to be tan?

I know my body always looks better when I'm tan. It seems that when I'm not so dark (white) my body looks flabby. I'm not fat but just curious if guys think the same thing. Do you think a girls body looks tighter when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tongue piercings, classy or trashy?

OK I know what most people think tongue rings are for but I want one just cause I like the way it looks. Also there are a few risks, is it worth it?

evaaa

Xper 5 Age: 33