We act like we hate each other, but yet were attracted to each other. Anyone else experience this?

[Anonymous]

A guy and are always at each others throats, yet I know he likes me and I really like him. I really don't understand psychologically what is going on and was wondering if anyone had a good answer? thanks

[Ugliness]

You're acting like children.

Sorry to say this but: grow up.

Life is short. If you are attracted to each other, stop fighting, throw your arms around each other in a loving embrace, lock lips and pronounce your bizarre and almost secret love for one another.

Or maybe he really does hate you and you're fooling yourself.

But as John Lennon said, life is very short and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=eN-Ee7uXKYo

[Anonymous]

Yeah I'm currently going through this too with a girl, we constantly make fun of the other. We have had friends say things like 'do I need to sit between you two' or looked shocked at some things. I definitely take it as a sign of flirting though as we tease each other we both smile the whole time

[Asker]

yeah, I thinkk deep down we both know were really not serious but boy we sure do exasperate the other. Since you're a guy may I ask why you think you do that? are you in love with her, like her or what? thanks

[Opinion Owner]

I do like her, people seem to think were dating (were not) despite our fighting.

Why I do it though? hard to say its like were in 6th grade again. I think it has something to do with us being friends. I think the teasing comes in when the 2 people don't know how to express it in any other way. I'm not sure if the teasing would be considered sexual tension or what but it draws you in.

[Asker]

wow exactly how we are- are you sure you're not him? ;)anyway thanks for your answer, glad to see I'm not alone.

[Opinion Owner]

no problem and lol yeah it's a strange coincidence. I am leaning to the teasing being sexual tension now that I think about it. Even though the teasing seems so mean spirited I am tempted to just lean in and kiss her. not that I would or anything but you get the idea.

[Asker]

you should, and get it over with. ask her out on a date while you're at it. :)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

i used to do this in middle school. on my part, I kind of liked the guy deep down even if he did get on my nerves (in a fun/cute way, not seriously). but I did not want to admit it because I was partly afraid of rejection. he probably feels this way too, one of you needs to make a move like start passionately kissing in the middle of an argument lol

[Anonymous]

Teasing and fighting is considered flirting, you know ;) Yes, I had that happen with a guy I liked. It's like to people we looked like we hate each other but we know we had such great chemistry going on. I really adored him :)

[Anonymous]

You're both dramatic and immature. He will leave and find a girl who's not so stressfully hostile. Girls like that are a pain in the a*ss and they usually end up lonely.