I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years now. I love him very much, but there are many things that we just don't see eye to eye and I can't figure out what would make us happier. I've never argued so much with my ex boyfriends before. Here are the main problems, I think.
1.I'm much more sexual than he is.(he says that too) I've been always willing to explore different things in bed, and simply enjoying having sex. He doesn't, and often he is "not in the mood." I used to Cooley back off, saying "Okay~!", but I'm getting tired of always initiating it and not getting enough of what I want. I miss tongue kiss too!
2.He talks about politics and economy ALL THE TIME. If I don't sometimes bitch about it, he would talk about it first thing when we wake up, and when we go to bed. He begs me to watch documentary video clips about the subjects too, and as a result, I get bored and I feel like we got nothing else to talk about.
3. He's lazy to my standards. I like going out and being active. He doesn't drink AT ALL, therefore we don't' really 'go out'. We both love plants, movies, and listening to the music, but I crave for dancing the night off sometimes, and he doesn't want to join me, but indirectly shows his not liking it much. I do cooking, most of cleaning, buying groceries, and spending money on things around the house almost 90% of the time. He doesn't seem to care and if I complain, then he says I don't have to do all that.
When things are okay, we're doing great, that's only half the time. The other half, I'm stressed, frustrated, and feel lost. He things we're going to marry in a couple of years. What do you think?
1.I'm much more sexual than he is.(he says that too) I've been always willing to explore different things in bed, and simply enjoying having sex. He doesn't, and often he is "not in the mood." I used to Cooley back off, saying "Okay~!", but I'm getting tired of always initiating it and not getting enough of what I want. I miss tongue kiss too!
2.He talks about politics and economy ALL THE TIME. If I don't sometimes bitch about it, he would talk about it first thing when we wake up, and when we go to bed. He begs me to watch documentary video clips about the subjects too, and as a result, I get bored and I feel like we got nothing else to talk about.
3. He's lazy to my standards. I like going out and being active. He doesn't drink AT ALL, therefore we don't' really 'go out'. We both love plants, movies, and listening to the music, but I crave for dancing the night off sometimes, and he doesn't want to join me, but indirectly shows his not liking it much. I do cooking, most of cleaning, buying groceries, and spending money on things around the house almost 90% of the time. He doesn't seem to care and if I complain, then he says I don't have to do all that.
When things are okay, we're doing great, that's only half the time. The other half, I'm stressed, frustrated, and feel lost. He things we're going to marry in a couple of years. What do you think?
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