All Questions

Do guys like girls that smell fruity?

like scented lotions & shampoo/conditioner & perfume? i tend to go for berry scents or stuff like vanilla so sometimes I smell sweet. I also like banana scents and most fruit except citrus-y stuff. is that a turn on,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you girls like spontaneous guys?

i am one of those guys, I love doing something that is no planned out. so what do you think?

bethesda

Xper 3 Age: 35

What non sexual things make men feel close to women?

I know men need sex to feel close, but they also disconnect sex from their feelings unless the feelings are already there. What is it that makes them feel close to women in order to "turn on" their feelings?

abra_b

Guru Age: 43

Dating

Should I call him back or just let him go completely?

My ex and I were together a year before breaking up. Everything went well between us in the relationship. I saw him twice a week since he lives 45 min. away. The only problem I had was I never wanted to get too close to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Where are the non-party girls?

I'm in college right now, and not into the party scene. I don't think I'm a bad looking guy, but I've been unable to find a girlfriend. I am shy but I think if I go to the right places I would feel more comfortable. Where...

31Ross

Xper 5 Age: 35

I've never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me?

Its probably a very common question...whats wrong with me? But I seriously need some opinions here. I'm 25...pretty good looking, I've got a stable job and a masters degree...I've never had a boyfriend...plan on staying a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my EX still text me when he has a girlfriend?

My boyfriend and I broke up about 4 or 5 months ago because he held hands with another girl and wanted a break to "figure things out". I got mad at him and broke it off, a few times he tried to talk me back into getting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex has moved on but still wants me in his life? But I can't be his friend.

My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago because he didn't have the same feelings any more and was unhappy in our relationship. I was told that I was an awesome person, that he would likely kick himself and that he still...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why doesn't she text me first?

So I met this girl a few weeks back, I started talking to her first and eventually got her number. We've been talking for a bit now and one night I just decided to put my heart on my sleeve and tell her how I feel about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Great guy friend turned annoying friend? help

This guy and I have been friends for a little over a year and he has tried to get me to start a relationship with him, have sex...everything. We would go out and play pool, go to strip clubs, talk about relationships we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you want from me? What does that even mean?

I have been dating this very cool guy for almost 2 months now. Things are great we see each other all the time he says he likes me "A LOT A LOT" and so do I. I have been hurt in the past and I have told him I want to take...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How do I tell my guy that he's an embarassingly bad dancer?

My hubby loves trendy clubs, parties and music. We have lotta fun together. He's a great dresser, he's tall and handsome. Problem is that his style of dancing is not only really monotonous and awkward but it also makes...

Mizzunderstood

Xper 5 Age: 46

Possible to care too much about your boyfriend?

I've been in a relationship for almost half a year... and my craziness about him has not even moderately ceased. I'm HAPPY about this, but part of me wishes I could care about him less. I suppose one of the reasons is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

A Guy Who Doesn't Ask Questions?

I've been seeing this guy for about 4 months now. We are about 2 hours apart, different cities in the same state. Since his car isn't very reliable, I drive up to stay with him for the weekend about once every 2 weeks....

Rachel_SK

Xper 3 Age: 51

Why do guys say things to be deliberately hurtful?

Have you ever had a guy say something that was cruel and completely uncalled for? And you didn't feel that you had done anything to deserve it? Just a random remark, that kind of knocks the breath out of you? What the...

alexis4you

Xper 3 Age: 40

Why pretty girls are snobby and humble ones are nice?

why pretty girls are snobby and humble ones are nice & they rather urge you to talk to them even more and more

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is she toying with me?

So I have known this girl for about 6 months (since July). After about 2 months of knowing her I ended up starting to like her and I found out she liked me as well, but she said she didn't want a relationship. So fast...

Jontehdon

Xper 5 Age: 36

A guy I work with is always mean to me. Does this mean he likes me or hates me?

There's a guy at my work I like, but he always makes fun of me, he does it to everyone but mostly me. He is really mean all the time and will look at me when I come into work and say "I hate you!" Instead of saying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Deep feelings mean what exactly?

My friend told me that he has 'deep' feelings for me. What do guys mean when they say the word DEEP?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a man calls you by your first, middle, and last name?

I am interested in this guy who always seems hot and cold. Recently we've been spending more time together in a large group of friends and has been addressing me using my whole name, i.e.,"Hey, Jane Doe Smith!" I often go...

SJane

Xper 5 Age: 40

My boyfriend threatens to hurt me, what do I do?

just because men are stronger does it give them the right to use that strength to hurt others? whenever my boyfriend and I get into an argument he always threatens things like "well I could just knock your lights off" or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Befriending a girl who has a boyfriend?

This recently crossed my mind. Say a guy met a girl, but would rather have her as a friend than as a date, and liked being around her on a platonic level as just friends, but the girl has a boyfriend. From my point of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel my boyfriend doesn't give me enough credit. Does he think he's superior?

For a long time I've been feeling tense, agitated and unable to relax around my boyfriend. I think a lot of this goes back to the beginning of our relationship. Before our relationship and some time after it started my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How much do looks matter to women?

How much do looks as in body and face matter to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone else LOVE drunk croquet?!?!?

if you don't know what croquet is, check the link at the bottom. if you DO know what croquet is, then you'll know it's EFFING amazing. it's especially fun to play when you're p*ss ass drunk! LONG LIVE CROQUET. Warning:...

Swampwater

Xper 3 Age: 36

Family & Friends

How Do I Tell My Strict Parents About My Boyfriend? Please Help Me Please!

I'm 16 I've Been With My Boyfriend For 4 years. But It Gets Harder Everyday To Hide Us From My Parent(Strict). His Mom Already Knows About Us. He's Very Patient With Me About Telling My Parent But I'm Very Nervous Because...

amber832

Xper 5 Age: 33

Are we just FWB or are we actually going somewhere?

I met this guy a few months back and we talk just about every day. We have only hung out a few times and we had sex. He stayed the night and texted me later in the day. We never really talk about relationships but we do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Becoming a smooth talker?

I am not much of a smooth talker. I am trying to figure out what girls want to hear?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why would he delete my post on his Facebook wall?

I feel stupid analyzing this but the only reason I can think of someone doing that is because they don't want someone else to see it, right? My friend (formally with benefits but now he has a girlfriend) did this to me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do my ex boyfriends always want me back?

Hello, I am 21 years old and in college finishing out my senior year. Throughout my college history, I have dated 6 different guys. Out of those 6, 4 of them I know have been immature and honestly been more of a hookup,...

Anonymous

(36-45)