All Questions

Ladies, what makes "nice guys" so unattractive?

Women always seem to be repelled by the "nice guy". At best the nice guy just ends up as a friend, but nothing more. Women just don not want to get on a sexual or romantic level with these types of guys. Even if the guy...

Mr_is_fine

Xper 5 Age: 43

Relationships

Married women, why do you stop being a freak for your husband?

I hear men complaining all the time that their wife's have stopped having sex as much as they used to. They beg, plead and even try to bribe you with gifts. Just wondering what happens that makes you suppress it and how...

ty-lady

Xper 6 Age: 54

How many of you have been admired but not chased ?

i have noticed guy admiring me from a distance...sometimes...but they hardly ever chase me.. I mean today they will look at me,... the next day or after a couple days they hardly look at me... i mean what is the...

TessAshwin

Xper 6 Age: 38

How to deal with the feelings one has about a married woman?

I am developing deep feeling for this married woman I know. Which is bad, 'cause she confides in me problems she is having with her husband. At first I denied my feeling as just my empathetic nature creating feelings...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Does anybody else LOVE cracking their bones?

I absolutely love the feeling of cracking my bones. I know its bad but I still can't help it. it feels sooo good. does anybody else feel this way? I recently found a new way to crack the inside of my foot and I have been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why hasn't my ex boyfriend tried to get me back?

We used to really like each other and I feel like I can just tell he still has feelings for me but he never does anything about it! wtf. Since we've been back at school I usually say hi every time I see him and act like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why does it feel like I'm the man in the relationship?

I'm a 19yr old female dating a 34yr old man. We have been going out for a little over 2 months and it feels like I'm the man and he's the woman. When I say that I mean he has a lot of what I think are feminine needs, i.e:...

Saphyre

Xper 5 Age: 35

Will men let their pride stop them from coming back, even if they really want you back?

My boyfriend broke up with me after a healthy three year relationship. There was never really anything wrong with us besides the fact that the past three months we haven't been able to get along, due to our own personal...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think about guys who wear gold chain necklaces?

are they cocky?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he still contact me even though I ignore him?

I broke up with my ex months ago and we worked on being friends and kinda more than that, but I met someone else and he kept trying to talk to me so I just ignored him and cut off contact and now my ex keeps texting me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to handle a coworker after we hooked up

A co-worker and I had an brief affair. We both knew it was wrong but there was so much sexual tension between us that we tried hooking up. We have hooked but never got to the point of having sex but was close to it....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

I've been with my girlfriend 3 months, and I kissed another girl.

we've been together 3 month and last night I ended up in a friends house who happened to be an ex, and we kissed, should I tell my girlfriend ? or keep it from her to avoid hurting her as she's never going to find out

jamiemilne

Xper 5 Age: 34

He misses me but still doesn't love me anymore?

So, my ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. He doesn't love me anymore. He said so, and has shown it. But the last night he contacted me. He wanted to know how I was doing and if it was getting easier for me. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is he really confused.. or does he know exactly what he wants?

My ex dumped me about a month ago. There are a lot of details and I am well aware I did a lot of stupid things to try and win him back.. I guess I am just looking for any opinions on what is going on in his mind and if I...

polkaroo123

Xper 5 Age: 40

Do you guys get grossed out if a girl has stretch marks on her stomach?

I have some on the front of my tummy but they are really light but you can still see them. And do you know if I get really toned will they be less visible?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what does a seductive stare look like?

when you want to give a girl a seductive look, what are the criteria?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

We just started dating and he wants a baby

we just started dating like 2 weeks ago and he wants to have a baby... like he wants me to move in and everything else but yet he quit his job because he bored with it ...i made him get it back so he could pay rent but...

lostandconfused89

Xper 5 Age: 37

If a girl initiates conversation with a guy

And tries to keep the conversation going when the guy stops talking, is it safe to say that she's interested? or is she just being nice?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why do girls love to tease and lead guys on so much, play mind games with them, I really hate it a lot.

Seriously, why do girls like to do that to guys all the time? why do they like to give guys mixed signals, tease them or lead them on, and play mind games? Do you think girls do that to guys a lot more often than guys do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guys: do you ever reminisce on a girl's kiss?

guys, do you ever recall how a girl kissed, or how she made you laugh, or even the sparks that flew when you met her? I'm talking about an acquaintance, someone you dated, obviously not a girlfriend (cause I'm guessing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We broke up...we live together..I want him back! Can you help me?

I normally wouldn't post something like this, but I really need advice and it seems like people just tell me what they think I want to hear. My ex and I have been dating for over a year. We were completely in love with...

Just-a-girl21

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do Guys Normally Ask Girls to Go Clubbing for a Date?

So I have recently started dating this guy -- for about a month or so. After hitting the chi-chi lounge scene on our last date he asks me if I would be into hitting a few night clubs with him for our next date. I said I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

What makes a girl sexy?

Honestly give me details, because people especially guys tell me I'm sexy all the time and I don't know what they see in me. I know this is weird.

socute22

Xper 3 Age: 33

Why does my husband of 53 look at pictures of girls 18-22 years old on the internet?

I am 55, pretty and in great shape and I know that my husband loves me very much. But I continue to catch him looking at girls that are 30+ years younger than me. Why and what is the self gratification? What is he...

golfladysun

Xper 5 Age: 71

When someone suddenly acts out of character, what could it be?

What are some reasons, in your opinion, why someone who was very shy and socially awkward, and yet sweet, kind and considerate could suddenly act completely trashy? The only thing I can think of is drugs. Does anyone...

MercuryKitten

Xper 4 Age: 41

Naturally black hair with whiter skin or tanned skin?

What looks hotter on a girl? Black hair with fair skin or black hair with tanned skin?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Suddenly lose interest in a girl?

How does a guy suddenly lose interest in a girl that he really liked a lot before? say the guy liked the girl a lot because he found her to be good-looking (with hot body and cute face) , and he found her to have a sweet...

pink333

Xper 3 Age: 36

My 27 year old teacher called me darling...

Once again i\m 23 and I go to an adult education center and my teacher was giving me the answers on an exam not all of them but a few because I was having a difficult time... at the ending of the exam there was 2 people...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does my face look too "feminine"?

Since it is the internet, I am only posting HALF my face. I have friends that say I look too girly? Girls don't seem to be interested at all in me, I'm a short guy about 5'7 and 125 pounds :( link

Anonymous

(36-45)

He texted me if I had a good time/ had fun

while I was on the way home from hanging out with him... I just want to confirm that he's somewhat interested? or do all guys do this out of politeness? even though it was just the 2 of us, I thought we were friends 1v1...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why won't he stop talking to his ex?

I don't know if he's cheating on me or what! I live with him, we've been together for almost 5 months now. When we got together, he had been split up with his ex fiance for about two weeks. I knew I was probably a...

Sadgrl0

Xper 5 Age: 36