All Questions

If you disappear completely. Will that make him miss me or will I lose him completely?

I haven't been able to get over my three year relationship after beeing dumped. We are staying friends but I just wanna disappear to avoid anymore pain. Will this make me lose him for good? Or should I stay his friend?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I really need some advice on how to attract the ladies... I'm not totally sure what I'm doing wrong...

I'm 19 years old, I'm a little shy but I'm very friendly, I talk to girls and stuff and sometimes at college people will kinda start some small talk a little bit in line with me. I dress a little nicer. I try to keep a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men: can you please explain "too much drama"?

Directed at men but ladies feel free to answer. I've been seeing a lot of posts on here and have heard often that a guy will not go for a girl if she's too high maintenance and has too much drama..but what does that even...

just926

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do guys touch a girl to get her to like him?

My friend told me she heard that guys will touch a girl, whether she is their friend or not in order to unconsciously get a girl to start liking them. If a guy likes a girl and finds ways to touch her and she is ok with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Characteristics for "You look like a bitch"

I get that a lot. Well people don't come out and say I look like a bitch but people I get to know always tell me after they know me better that when they first met me they thought I was mean or a bitch. Guys tell me I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy tells you to call him....? need guy advice

When a guy always puts the ball in your court and says stuff like feel free to call me if you want to get together or let me know when your available...as in he always puts the ball in your court does that mean he's not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Cuddle with guy on third date?

What do you think about cuddling with a guy on the third date. I know that by the third date you usually go to either his place or your place to hang out after dinner/movie etc. So what do you think about that? I'm not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How does your boyfriend react when you talk to other guys?

kay so my boyfriend and I've been dating for about 10 months..we used to argue a lot and even took a break, but then we got back together. in either august or september, one of my really good guy friends John started...

lorelei93

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

Why can't he just tell me to leave him alone if that's what he really wants?

Almost 2 years ago I met this guy through a friend. He and my friends boyfriend at the time were simply meant to take us to birmingham for clothes show live but we couldn't make it, therefore we all spent the day chillin...

mianicbrn

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

If a guy treats you different than other girls, who is he actually flirting with?

There's a guy in a class of mine. He always acts flirty and sexual with most other girls I see him with, but he teases me all the time. He even asks other girls out, but hasn't made a move with me. He also seems like he's...

kdizzleforizzle91

Guru Age: 34

Dating

How to deal with a taurus man - out of my element

I've been dating a guy for nearly a year and since day one the ball has been in his court. I've *never* had trouble with men - and certainly never had to chase one, or bent over backwards, but this guy has caused me no...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Ladies, what makes "nice guys" so unattractive?

Women always seem to be repelled by the "nice guy". At best the nice guy just ends up as a friend, but nothing more. Women just don not want to get on a sexual or romantic level with these types of guys. Even if the guy...

Mr_is_fine

Xper 5 Age: 43

Relationships

Married women, why do you stop being a freak for your husband?

I hear men complaining all the time that their wife's have stopped having sex as much as they used to. They beg, plead and even try to bribe you with gifts. Just wondering what happens that makes you suppress it and how...

ty-lady

Xper 6 Age: 54

How many of you have been admired but not chased ?

i have noticed guy admiring me from a distance...sometimes...but they hardly ever chase me.. I mean today they will look at me,... the next day or after a couple days they hardly look at me... i mean what is the...

TessAshwin

Xper 6 Age: 38

How to deal with the feelings one has about a married woman?

I am developing deep feeling for this married woman I know. Which is bad, 'cause she confides in me problems she is having with her husband. At first I denied my feeling as just my empathetic nature creating feelings...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anybody else LOVE cracking their bones?

I absolutely love the feeling of cracking my bones. I know its bad but I still can't help it. it feels sooo good. does anybody else feel this way? I recently found a new way to crack the inside of my foot and I have been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why hasn't my ex boyfriend tried to get me back?

We used to really like each other and I feel like I can just tell he still has feelings for me but he never does anything about it! wtf. Since we've been back at school I usually say hi every time I see him and act like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why does it feel like I'm the man in the relationship?

I'm a 19yr old female dating a 34yr old man. We have been going out for a little over 2 months and it feels like I'm the man and he's the woman. When I say that I mean he has a lot of what I think are feminine needs, i.e:...

Saphyre

Xper 5 Age: 35

Will men let their pride stop them from coming back, even if they really want you back?

My boyfriend broke up with me after a healthy three year relationship. There was never really anything wrong with us besides the fact that the past three months we haven't been able to get along, due to our own personal...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think about guys who wear gold chain necklaces?

are they cocky?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he still contact me even though I ignore him?

I broke up with my ex months ago and we worked on being friends and kinda more than that, but I met someone else and he kept trying to talk to me so I just ignored him and cut off contact and now my ex keeps texting me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How to handle a coworker after we hooked up

A co-worker and I had an brief affair. We both knew it was wrong but there was so much sexual tension between us that we tried hooking up. We have hooked but never got to the point of having sex but was close to it....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

I've been with my girlfriend 3 months, and I kissed another girl.

we've been together 3 month and last night I ended up in a friends house who happened to be an ex, and we kissed, should I tell my girlfriend ? or keep it from her to avoid hurting her as she's never going to find out

jamiemilne

Xper 5 Age: 34

He misses me but still doesn't love me anymore?

So, my ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. He doesn't love me anymore. He said so, and has shown it. But the last night he contacted me. He wanted to know how I was doing and if it was getting easier for me. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he really confused.. or does he know exactly what he wants?

My ex dumped me about a month ago. There are a lot of details and I am well aware I did a lot of stupid things to try and win him back.. I guess I am just looking for any opinions on what is going on in his mind and if I...

polkaroo123

Xper 5 Age: 40

Do you guys get grossed out if a girl has stretch marks on her stomach?

I have some on the front of my tummy but they are really light but you can still see them. And do you know if I get really toned will they be less visible?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what does a seductive stare look like?

when you want to give a girl a seductive look, what are the criteria?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

We just started dating and he wants a baby

we just started dating like 2 weeks ago and he wants to have a baby... like he wants me to move in and everything else but yet he quit his job because he bored with it ...i made him get it back so he could pay rent but...

lostandconfused89

Xper 5 Age: 37

If a girl initiates conversation with a guy

And tries to keep the conversation going when the guy stops talking, is it safe to say that she's interested? or is she just being nice?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls love to tease and lead guys on so much, play mind games with them, I really hate it a lot.

Seriously, why do girls like to do that to guys all the time? why do they like to give guys mixed signals, tease them or lead them on, and play mind games? Do you think girls do that to guys a lot more often than guys do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guys: do you ever reminisce on a girl's kiss?

guys, do you ever recall how a girl kissed, or how she made you laugh, or even the sparks that flew when you met her? I'm talking about an acquaintance, someone you dated, obviously not a girlfriend (cause I'm guessing...

Anonymous

(36-45)