Do guys find innocence sexy?

[Anonymous]

if so why? would a guy hang out with a girl for a few months just because he wanted to get it or probably not that long?

[Quadrophonic84]

I once found this girl sexy but necessarily because she was innocent. I thought it was refreshing that she was since I'm in Arizona where everyone's been f*cked by 98712 guys by age 15 here. I respected her so I waited the two months until she wanted to do oral, and then another 3 months before she wanted sex. That's not why I wanted to stick around though, she was a cool person and very sweet to me in general. . I really thought she was going to wait a lot longer but she was really into me and like I said, I gave her lots of room without pressure. I think most guys that would wait around just for sex and nothing else are the kind of guys who don't think they could get any anywhere else.

[taster]

I am not sure what you are getting at...yes, I think that innocence is sexy...as long as it isn't rigid rules type of stuff...yes, imo I think that most guys will hang with a female they like JUST because they like her "it" you mean sex? Some guys will and some guys won't...same as girls...some of them will ..and some of them won't...u are Anonymous but your age group says 18 to 24...what are you REALLY asking? I will try to help you if you REALLY tell me...

[Asker]

yea I'm 19. so anyway yea I've never been with anyone sexually before but a few mos ago I met this guy, he asked me out. we never actually "went out" but I always go over his place and we just end up hanging out cuddling until we eventually end up doing sexual stuff, not actually sexsex but like that has definately come up a lot. he knows I'm a virgin and I get kinda nervous doing stuff with him because he's the first so I'm just wondering if he's doing it all just as a game to see if we have sex

[Asker]

... like basically I don't know if he's playing me or if he actually has feelings for me because he is always the one to ask if I want to have sex, I just don't know if he has feelings for me or if it's just the thrill of getting with a virgin

[taster]

Thanx for the clarification...This is an uncertain world...and we Never Say Never...not if we have a few brains anyway...a few months? Most f***monsters are not going to be anywhere NEAR that patient...don't you get the sense that he likes you for who you r?

[Asker]

well I like talking to him in stuff but all we EVER do is go over his place. once we went for a walk but that's it. 3, mos, and having a walk and blockbuster be the only two public places we've gone together... I feel like he's not interested in dating me

[taster]

I responded B 4 I saw the 2nd half...does he say he loves u..does he act like he loves u?

[Asker]

he says hey love or calls me babe or hun, doesn't mean he likes me though

[taster]

Well you didn't say whether you are giving him sexual release and we have to wink when we say that males are "willing to wait" because there is a 95% chance that they are relieving themselves. But something is bugging u...u are not convinced that he is genuine somehow...and if you have been seeing him for few months it seems to me that he should have convinced u...why do you doubt it?

[Asker]

no... I guess I havnt been giving him release so I guess he does that on his own. and yea you're right I don't trust him 100%, I know his best friend and she's a girl, and they used to have a thing. he says its over and done but I think he deep down wants her. theyre super close, I guess its a little jealousy. and when id only been hanging out with him for a few weeks he asked me if I was a virgin, I feel like that's too soon to be talking about that.

[taster]

I am not sure how to help u...Do you trust your intincts? are they usually on track? I guess I would tend to trust your instincts. Do you two go out on dates? Some gal asked me awhile back about being more than a "f***buddy" and I told her: If you go out and eat, go to concerts, take trips, sporting events..then that is called Living Your Life and you are not just a "f***buddy...

[Malcom_Reynolds]

Kind of, as mentioned by someone below, not necessarily sexy, but appealing in some manner. At the same time, a bad girl can be as well. I find girls who at least come off as being innocent, very cute.

[Cartiphilus]

It's not a turn off for me but to mess around with all that innocence would be like breaking painted glass window. No, I would not find it sexy.

[Rayjack]

It has some appeal for sure, but really depends on a lot of other things with girl. I don't know about waiting a couple of months just on the off chance of getting it..

[Killfest400]

I don't find it necessarily sexy or appealing, but it isn't a turn off.

[dudeman]

it has its appeal I'm not sure if its sexy in and of itself but it has it appeal

[mattygfromtheMD]

Depends...