All Questions

Why does he treat me like crap and intentionally hurt me?

Lately my boyfriend seems so distant & unattached anymore. He doesn't seem 2 notice me anymore, & whenever I ask him 4 something he will yell & complain about it. Yeah I am a sensitive person but I KNOW THIS GUY &I love...

14u2love

Xper 5 Age: 57

My boyfriend is so unintelligent, what should I do?

I don't know what to do. My boyfriend is very, very unintelligent. He cannot spell it seems past a fifth grade level...asks me things over and over until I get agitated and finally he stops...we have an online store...

Anonymous

(36-45)

It seems he is avoiding me. Why would a guy act this way?

OMG! I am so confused. Guys, hopefully you can help me out here. A guy that seems to like me (from what I could tell), had found out that I liked him...so now he knows and then the next time I saw him he went out of his...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

When someone calls and doesn't say anything, what does that mean?

I broke things off with a particular guy about two weeks ago and he still hasn't called or said anything to me. I also broke things off with another guy two months ago and he hasn't called either. So do you think it could...

bbkgirl25

Xper 5 Age: 41

Shopping & Gifts

American equivalent to ibiza?

Where abouts in the USA do most young people go to party during the holidays?

mikeuk

Xper 5 Age: 37

Fashion & Beauty

What is the most attractive type of nose?

I'd just like to know what nose you find most attractive

markp1298

Xper 3 Age: 32

Why does he say he wants to hang out and then ignore me all night?

So this guy I know he finds me attractive and he wanted to do something open and I said no. He said he doesn't like me as in dating but just fun... What does that even mean? And then we were trying to be friends. Then...

labre12

Xper 5 Age: 36

What does it feel like getting hit with a paintball?

Going paintball tomorrow and I want to know! Does it hurt?

ilovemyjose101

Xper 6 Age: 33

He just got so distant after I miscarried.

OK so we had only been dating about a month when I accidentally got pregnant. It was brutal but he was good and said he would support me in whatever I chose. I was going to keep it but, miscarried at 8 weeks. We were...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

First date jitters - anyone else get nervous EATING in front of guys initially?

I'm going on a first dinner date and as weird as this sounds, I am scared of eating on the first date cos a mess can be made, or stuff can get stuck in the teeth etc.. so, if we're going to a burger/steak place, what is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl doesn't text first, is she telling you she's not interested?

So I'm new to the whole dating scene. This is my first time texting/calling (with the aim of a relationship) a girl since I felt I wasn't mentally ready in the past. The girl in question is one that I knew in college. I'm...

bubbleboy

Xper 7 Age: 38

Are you the chaser or the chased? why?

the question is up there. I am always the chased. I wonder how chasers feel. Do you feel like you love the person more since you are doing the chase? Do you feel like you have the power since as long as you do the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Are women really attracted to guys who are the opposite complexion/hair color?

I'm an American guy of German descent. I got blondish hair and blue eyes. Typical Caucasian skin complexion. White but not pale. The vast majority of women I've dated are brunettes. They are either Hispanic or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Cheerleading=degrading/sexist?

so in my western civ. class, some feminist girl was talking about how cheerleading is sexist and degrading to girls (we were mostly talking about the high school level). Her basic argument was like this: "the guys are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend is a writer?

...and the love interests in his stories don't resemble me at all. I don't expect them to be exactly like me, and I'm not jealous of fictional characters lol But I worry, if his characters don't have any of my qualities,...

ger9a2

Xper 3 Age: 38

Girlfriend flirting and grinding with a guy in front of me!

So we were at a bar the other night and a guy comes in and sits next to my GF, I go to the bathroom and come back to see she has started a convo with him. This is fine but it turns into flirting, THEN she turns her back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my crush's friends look at me?

When I'm in a group of friends I will turn away and look for other people and I will see my crush and his friends looking right at me. And if I'm walking to my classes I will notice one of my crushes friends look back at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long should I wait to text him after a hookup?

we had sex the same day we met and he an awesome guy I'd like to get to know but I don't want to seem clingy or creepy

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do most girls dislike "handsome" guys?

From what I hear, I'm pretty handsome. I've had gay guys hit on me, and girls tell me how attractive I am. But at college girls act almost afraid to look at me or talk to me. Even the really attractive girls that you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Innocent girl turns into a party animal, can she redeem herself in your eyes?

i went from being this totally hot innocent girl to being a hardcore party girl and now I'm this booky girl working 2 jobs while focusing more on school. there's been one guy in my life through all those stages. he liked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend wants to join the Air Force.

I just have a few questions. 1. how safe is this branch? 2.how does the going away part work? I don't want him to be away from me too long. 3. where will he go? 4. he likes the benefits..so what specifically are...

justmesamiii

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does it mean when a guy says he's scared of me because I'm too sexy?

He is afraid to date me because he says, "You scare me. I don't know exactly why, but I think it's because you are too sexy." Makes no sense to me and I think it is crazy. He swears it's true. I think it's crap...plus I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

Beware of Egyptian men?!

I met this fantastic man online, absolutely perfect. He's educated & religious and left Egypt a while back. But a lot of posts online say foreign women should beware of Egyptian men: link Has any ladies had...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shy girl's body language?

I have heard that they aren't obvious with their attraction signs and are more subtle. What about pupil dilation. There is this one girl I like who is extremely shy, and mostly avoids me, until I approach her one on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I even bother asking her?

So, there's this girl in my Positive Psych. class that I really like, she's got a completely different perspective on most everything, she's Gorgeous, and very funny. I'm very timid, I've only ever asked one girl out to...

FlightAuror2

Xper 7 Age: 38

Should I have one last fling?

So, I'm engaged to a wonderful man, we're getting married in April of next year. We recently went to a friend of mines wedding and his best man is my ex, let me add that we were each others firsts for everything and we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can't I keep a relationship going more than 3 weeks?

Idk y I'm still getting this "nice guy" bullsh*t pulled on me. First of all I'm 22.. I can get a girl interested I know this..i like to flirt and tease if I do like the girl and I'm not a douchy ass kissing p**** and I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do if I saw this cute guy one time and would like to see him again?

Me and my boss went to the print and press at the College because we needed to get some posters done. When we got here, we had to talk to this guy about the designs. This guy was really cute. But I was so intimidated by...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Are same size couples awkward?

Is it awkward if you are both short. like 1-2 inches taller than her? not "if its love it doesn't matter" but is it awkward

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

Boyfriend's ugly glasses?

I've been with my current boyfriend for a few months and it's been great! He's really sweet. The only problem is that he wears these coke bottle glasses, and my friends think he really looks geeky. We went out on a date,...

AliceR89

Xper 5 Age: 37

Will my jawline get stronger as I get older?

I want a stronger jawline, if it doesn't get stronger as I get older is there anyway I can make it stronger some other way?

markp1298

Xper 3 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Should I call it quits after my girlfriend of 1 year and 6 months stood me up?

Alright my birthday was Thursday my girlfriend, she called me up the night before and told me happy b day and then text me bright and early Thursday morning "happy b day" then later that afternoon when she got off work...

Edwardo

Xper 5 Age: 40

My girlfriend thinks slow dancing with another guy is no big deal and we got in a fight. Did I overreact?

were doing a long distance and she's having her 16th birthday party at a hall and she said she sees no prob with dancing slow dancing with another guy like the kid having his hands on her hips or ass and I got mad cause...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls roll their shorts/pj pants up at the waist?

I've noticed around school a lot and at sports practices that girls wear shorts but they roll the waists down, what is the purpose of it?

matrix010

Xper 3 Age: 35

Long Distance Online Boyfriend Left Me? :(

I met a guy online over a year ago, we talked for many hours each day and enjoyed every minute of it. Well, we eventually started dating in April, but he was hesitant because the only way we could be together is if I got...

Anonymous

(30-35)