All Questions

Is he using me for sex?

so...I've began to wonder if my guy(dating but not official) is using me for sex..here's what happened recently. tuesday night at like 10:40 pm ..after he got off training, he texted and said he was heading home and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I'll call you tomorrow....or the next day....

This is what my guy says when ever I get off the phone with him. For instance, we were on the phone last night and are planning to do something this Saturday and he ended the call with "I'll call you tomorrow...or the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Boyfriend wants "a couple days to clear his head" after argument. What should I expect?

My boyfriend and I had a huge fight last night. We were both out having drinks at the bar where he works and, after one too many drinks on both of our accounts, we ended up arguing in public. Basically, I'd been feeling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girl said she likes me and now acting distant?

So there's this girl I really really like, we talked a lot and about pretty much everything. She even said she liked me as more then a friend but since a couple of weeks she's been a bit distant. I always have to start...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys slow down with texting?

Why do guys slow down with texting? When we first started going out, my boyfriend and I texted like crazy, and now we rarely text at all. And its not me, its him. I'm lucky enough to get 30 texts from him, when we used to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Guys- What's your favorite part of a relationship?

What do you like most about being with a girl? Physically OR emotionally? What turns you on or just makes you most happy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Does anyone else think Lady GaGa is overrated?

I really don't understand why people like her. I like that type of music I just can't stand her. Miley Cyrus used to be my least favorite, but now Lady GaGa has easily taken the top spot. I think her fashion sense it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My Girlfriend won't kiss me.

So me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month and the first date we went on she asked, "when was your first kiss?" and I told her that I still have my first kiss, and she goes "oh, I see you kind of differently...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my crush only talk to me when we are alone?

My crush really never talks to me in class. Like with his friends or other people. When I'm alone he comes up and talks to me. I'm really confused why he does this. I want him to talk to me whenever not just alone.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she keep pulling me back in?

well, I've dated this girl for about 2 years now I'm 21, she's 18..and I feel safe saying I love her with all my heart but I'm the nice guy with the routine as a door mat, breaks my heart time and time again, uses my...

Jazes

Xper 3 Age: 38

How soon should you start holding hands?

How soon in a relationship do you want a guy to start holding your hand? Is there a difference between private and public? Is it weird to hold hands in public before you are officially a couple? Which do you prefer comes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my LONG term sex buddy catching feelings?

Long to Short... I've known this HOT guy for 3 years, met in college. We had sex (1st year) with no strings and I had no problem. Suddenly after a couple times of sex he would ask me to stay the night or watch movies or...

SoLove7

Xper 5 Age: 38

Is it too cliche to have sex on prom night?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 months. We are pretty much at the stage where the only thing in our relationship that we haven't done is have sex. Recently when we were at his house making out he...

bitsoglass

Xper 4 Age: 34

What does it mean when your ex smiles at you?

So I've only seen my boyfriend twice since we broke up and both times he kept long eye contact with me and gave me a big smile. We haven't talked since he broke up with me. Which its been less than two weeks. Do you think...

nicolerae08

Xper 5 Age: 35

Dating

First date, GREAT!! Now she is VERY distant.

I will try to make this as short and clear as possible. I asked this girl out to a convention that I am greatly interested in. She said she will think about it. Later that night, she text me saying to buy tickets online...

silkyjohnson

Xper 5 Age: 39

Haunted by my Promiscuous Past

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, after months of friendship. Right up until we started going out, I was very sexually active. He knows about ALL of my past exploits and feels that they cheapen what we...

anonanon

Xper 3 Age: 37

How many guys had to lie or conceal that they were a virgin the first time they had sex?

I think the question says it all. Basically, I realized recently that most, possibly all, guys who have ever had sex either had to lie or intentionally conceal that they were a virgin the first time they had sex. I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why am I always the FRIEND never the GIRLFRIEND?

alright well lets see, I'm 19 and single which I don't really like being. I'm having a really hard time finding someone to date, but seems like guys just want a hookup and nothing more than or they see me as just a...

WeEZEeBoO

Xper 5 Age: 36

My girlfriend ditched me for her ex boyfriend now she's my ex.. now what??

So my G/F as I've said on here before ditched me for her ex boyfriend that she had left for me a month and a half ago. I did everything I could seriously do to try and work things out. She said thanks for all the good...

alpinestars-2002795

Xper 6 Age: 42

Fashion & Beauty

What kind of girls do "hardcore" guys like?

I'm really into the hardcore kind of guys who party and go to shows and what not. But I've noticed that those guys are dating pretty preppy girls. Do they always go for preps? Are "hardcore" girls a turn off? I'm not...

fatimaaax

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do guys get shy around girls they like or also around girls they know likes them?

There's this guy, who knows I like him, and he acts really nervous around me (for example, can't make eye contact, tries but then turns to floor quickly), but I can't understand weather it's because he likes me back, or...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What if I messed up with the girl I have really heavy feelings for? Answers from girls mostly please

Okay, I won't be asking for much around here, mostly just giving advice, because I am good at that to girls, not guys, and most definitely not myself, which is why I am asking. So I met this girl a few months ago at a...

TheWraith

Xper 3 Age: 33

Do you call your girlfriend, kiddo?

Hello, guys! I have seen this men for about 6 months, we have great chemistry, everything is great and sex is even better. One thing though- he likes to call me "kiddo", as in "hey kiddo"... Sometimes he calls me...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How can I control myself around him?

It's this boy I like and I want him so bad I never wanted so bad like I want him.We email each other and I can't help but flirt with him and now he want to see me again. And I know when we see each other I might give in...

Aacaylia

Xper 3 Age: 38

Family & Friends

My brother is such a snitch...

When my brother was my age, 16, he used to go to parties where he would drink with his friends and all that stuff. He never told my parents, and I never told on him. I was 11 at the time, and I understood where he was,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when guy does a double take when he sees you?

I was at a Gala and a guy who is the founder of the organization for the gala I attended did a double take when he saw me. I'm hoping his reaction was a good thing but I do wonder what would make a guy do that when he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

Is it possible to pee while getting a blow job?

Ok I was getting down and doing what my boyfriend enjoys, but this time when I was sucking on it I tasted something kinda sour or bitter. I retracted immediately and looked to see what the hell was coming out. I didn't...

maliciousmelissa

Xper 5 Age: 43

Does "ignoring" women really work?

There's been major debate over if ignoring women makes them more attracted to men. I've heard and experienced both sides. What are the takes from the women here? And be honest! When a guy starts ignoring you or stops...

FDRunner

Xper 5 Age: 49