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He treats me like we're seeing each other but then says we're just good friends

I'm so confused. I really like this guy who was a casual friend before I realized I had feelings for him. He treats me like we're seeing each other, flirts with me and does things he doesn't do with his other close...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GUYS-if the guy doesn't pay, does that mean it wasn't a date/bad sign?

I hung out with this guy for the first time one-on-one, and the first thing we did was go to a hookah bar. It was my idea, so all along in my head I knew I wasn't gonna let him pay for me if he offered, but when we were...

swedishchica05

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

When a guy says "talk to you soon" does it really mean it's over?

I've dated a new guy for a couple of weeks. He seemed really into me then all of a sudden his last text said, "talk to you soon" and that was a couple of days ago.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Feel threatened by another man?

Do men ever get jealous or feel threatened by another man? Honestly, have you ever been in a situation where you felt threatened by another man? Maybe because your girlfriend had a super hot guy friend she always hung...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are Guys okay with girls with a little bit of a mustache?

Are guys okay with girls with like a slight mustache. Like my friend has this mustache that she's really sensitive about and she won't listen to me when I tell her that guys are okay with that kinda thing. From farther...

MayaStarr

Xper 5 Age: 36

Poking?

Here's a question that I just thought of. Why do guys like to poke girls in their sides? Like I just met this guy yesterday and he's like a really funny person - everybody likes him. And like I said I JUST met...

Love-Iz-Hard

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guy wants me to come to his house?

I'll try to make this short- I have hung out ONCE one-on-one with the guy I like. He said he had a really good time. I don't think it was a date but at times it felt like one, the way he was trying to get to know me...

swedishchica05

Xper 5 Age: 39

Making the first move without looking desperate...

There's a guy who likes me, and I'm starting to like him back, but I think he's too shy/scared to make the first move. I really want to let him know I like him so he might ask me out, or start something. I'm worried I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys get jealous even if they don't like you like that?

Ex. My friend Jessica and me went to shop at Wal Mart, during my crush's shift. He saw me, and though he really only talked to ME, he still introduced himself to Jessica. However, the next time I went there with my best...

LoveMaeRae

Xper 5 Age: 37

Don't fall in love with me...

I'm sorta going out with this guy, I like the sex and I like the guy. However, I am not in love with him. And I kinda feel as if he really likes me a lot. So yesterday before he dropped him off, I looked at him in his...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I've caught my boss looking at me what does this mean?

I've got a new boss. I've caught him looking at me and felt Butterflies from his looks. What does this mean? This has happened twice. Is he interested in me? He has also come over and touched me on the shoulder....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

What's the best boob size?

I've got absolutely nothing down there and for my 19th birthday I'm getting a boob job, what are your thoughts guys?

danalane

Xper 5 Age: 35

Freshman in college dating a junior in highschool...?

i like this guy and everything is in place for him to like me too(very few people think he doesn't like me). nothing has happened that would make me think otherwise. he is staying near his hometown to go to college this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my boyfriend not telling family we are together?

Me & my boyfriend have been together 3 1/2 years & we own a house together, we recently separated for 2 weeks because he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. Anyway I don't understand why he won't tell his family...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Average relationship timeline?

I know every couple is different, but I'm wondering how it works for other couples, especially with a guy that likes to take things super slow. Some guys I"ve dated never say I Love You, while others say it within two...

amber10-79

Xper 5 Age: 46

Guys, what do you do around the girls you like that you wouldn't do to your girl friends?

I've been friends with this guy for several months, and I really like him. Before we met, I didn't have a lot of guy friends, so our relationship developed kind of fast and randomly. Our whole class LITERALLY OUR WHOLE...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Continue to ignore her or tell her to stop contacting me?

My previous question that I had asked everyone to provide an opinion on was supporting my concept to continue ignoring my ex girlfriend.a short run down for you is this.my girl and I broke up about 4 months ago, basically...

GoBucks1

Xper 5 Age: 44

I'm in love with my best friend

Over the last two years or so, I've been great friends with this girl. We have so much in common, and we always make each other laugh. She's very touchy feely with everyone, especially me, and it kind of gets a bit...

Sam-Thorpe

Xper 5 Age: 36

Virgin at 27- weird?

Hello everyone. I don't know how to write what I want to without sounding like a complete loser. lol. Well, the thing is that till date, I have had only short-term relationships, the longest of which was perhaps 4...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, why would you ever pretend to punch a girl?

like not play fighting. where the punch does touch the girl but it's not actually hard. more like a touch?

hafasa

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

Is it wrong to let your boyfriend dance with other girls in a party?

dancing I mean like booty-dancing, my friends and his friend tell me that there ain't nothin wrong wit it cause its juss a party and they are just having fun, but I do get jealous and mad when I see him dancing with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when guys call me shawty, and little ma, and ma and stuff?

this is a dumb question.but like iv always wondered because I get call this ALL the time.

lilmama4

Xper 5 Age: 35

I want you so bad right now

What does it mean when a guy says I want you so bad right now through a text message. What is he feeling?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask him to go to my friend's wedding with me?

I have a wedding to attend and I just started dating this guy a month ago. Obviously I want to ask him to go to my good friend's wedding but I don't know if that will freak him out. I also know that he typically works on...

Julia-gulia

Xper 5 Age: 43

Family & Friends

Isn't it unusual that a guy doesn't talk about his girlfriend a lot?

I've talked to a lot of guys in my lifetime, and been around ones who are taken and usually they mention their girlfriend at least one time during our conversation, or in passing (ex. while telling a story or something...

Wisegirl47

Xper 3 Age: 37

Why are men so hard headed?

Why is it when hardheaded men have there mind made up, it's hard to even suggest anything new and possibly better.

Lady101

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why do men get turned on by strippers?

The question really interested me so I decided to ask - why do men get turned on by watching strippers dance? It's not like she's giving you a lap dance - I mean all she's doing is just dancing around so you could give...

Belleza

Explorer Age: 38

Make Out techniques?

Any techniques or anything that I can add to make a make out session more exciting or fun. Any ways to make him more into it or make it more stimulating for him? Pretty much any make out tips you can think of.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What can I say to my boob loving boyfriend?

My boyfriend is in love with boobs, he's always staring at other womens boobs and telling me 'not to worry' cos he loves me but he loves boobs also. This really gets 2 me as it makes me feel not good enough. I dunno what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Marriage & Weddings

Why do men pretend to be into you, when it's not really the case?

They full your head up with this and that ( I love you,I want to be with you lets do this lets go here and there, I promise this and that what's with all the bullshit?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls have to shave their legs?

do I have to find some earthy crunchy hippie boyfriend just because I don't shave my legs? why should i? you don't shave your legs guys, and trust me, mine is softer, shorter, and way light. would this absolutely stop...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Bitchy Cousin

Ok, so I have a cousin that I use to talk to when ever we went to msn, and lately, she has had nothing to do with me, like, when I said "Heyy" to her, (and she was online) she said nothing, zip, nata, and she's been doing...

Camran

Xper 5 Age: 35

Does he like me or is he just drunk?

So this guy and I flirt none stop when we're together but that's really only when we're drunk. He gets all touchy feely and close but when the alcohol is taken away he still flirts but not as openly. But the main...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Showing your thong?

These days I see a lot of girls whose thong is very obvious when she bends over or squats down. While I love this, because I love knowing what panties your wearing, I am wondering if this is done on purpose or its more of...

p-guy

Xper 6 Age: 64

FWB relationship but he seems jealous

I don't know if I'm reading the signs right, but I think my FWB guy is getting jealous over me having dinner with friends. He & I never date, hell he does not even want to be seen with me in public, but the other week I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)