All Questions

I had a great date but then she stopped replying to my texts? How do I fix this? Please help?

Hi, so I'm 27 and I've been on a dry streak for a while. That being said, I'm trying really hard to play it cool and not come off desperate in any way. I work at a panera bread and this 23 year old girl asked the cashier...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Been dating a girl for about four months and she hit me during our first argument. Is that a red flag and should I walk away? Will this continue?

She went through my phone while I was sleeping and noticed that I still had photos of my ex girlfriend saved which were nudes and couple photos in my gmail photos. My phone has no lock so anybody can go through it and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does a male coworker stare in my eyes at times meanwhile goofing off (joking around) at me?

Bitch i can hold eye contact. I like seeing souls. I ain't scared of seeing a boys soul.

Warmpuzzzy

Xper 1 Age: 36

How do you know if a girl really cares about you or only craves your attention (over text)?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I feel about my "younger sister" being in a relationship with my ex?

To explain, I have a close friend, like a sister to me that recently started dating one of my exes. She is intimate with a guy who has been down on me and I have been down on. We never slept together but I'm still not...

Becky316

Yoda Age: 25

What does it mean when a guy makes intense eye contact then ignores you then starts to makes eye contact with you again and watches you?

when talking to another coworker?

Anonymous

(30-35)

He touched the small of my back, during a kiss?

I've gone on a few dates with a guy and we both had a good time, I was the one to first hold hands and kiss though. He got really cuddly the first time I held his hand but, we both agreed we're in no rush with what we're...

orosamuari22

Xper 5 Age: 29

Men, are you aware that having a great ass is a huge turn on?

So few men have firm, sculpted glutes. I saw a guy today in shorts and I was just so impressed... wow! I wish more men knew that they can lay off their arms and chests and work on their hams and glutes.

SaraSmithishere

Yoda Age: 38

Never been on a date, never been kissed, never held hands. How do people get into relationships, it feels impossible?

I’m 19 and at this point it’s embarrassing. I’ve never been on date been asked out etc etc. I’m not ugly or something it’s just never fallen into place for me. I’ve never even been in a talking stage. I don’t wanna do...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why am I getting jealous after rejecting him?

I rejected this guy but I have been interested in him for a while but he never seemed to approach me. I then ignored him for a while just to see what he would do and get my head straight and focus on other friends. I'd...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

No conversational skills, how to talk to guys?

I have bad social skills talking to guys and I tend to just get agressive because I’m always worried they’ll hate me and I’ll be the idiot if I don’t. Obviously this is just shooting my self in the foot so how can I learn...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Entertainment & Arts

How does this lake photograph make you feel when you see it?

blondfrog

Master Age: 34

Flirting

Was he flirting with me via text?

Was he flirting with me via text, lol? Im feeling better now, my eyes are just a little uncomfortable, but they should be fine by tomorrow. I was worried that my eyes would burn and then I wouldn’t get to see how...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Technology & Internet

Advice on ethical hacking?

Looking to get into cyber security mostly ethical hacking and or penetration testing. Could use a possible career path for a beginner.

TacosNCuddles

Xper 4 Age: 33

Other

Bloke vs. Broke, What's the difference?

humanearth

Master Age: 58

Girls, Why do girls start talking to a particular guy more?

I like this girl and she has started talking to me more, starting conversation with me. I've tried distancing myself more and she has still started the conversation. So i know she likes talking to me. She and I don't know...

ando90

Xper 7 Age: 31

Religion & Spirituality

If god doesn't help homeless people and murder victims, what makes you think god is going to help you?

iv seen videos of people getting beheaded and dismembered and shot multiple times so if god didn't help them then why would god help you? why would you think god exist?

ihatemylife123

Xper 5 Age: 36

Fiance' says "fuck you and fuck this, hangs up and refuses to come to my house?

I said to my fiance' "what kind of man are you" in a inquisitive tone of voice during a conversation where we were recanting a time we hung out with his friend who said that my fiance was more attracted to his girlfriend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

What was your final straw that made you realize it was time to get a divorce?

I'm currently ending a marriage that I have been in for many years. It took marriage counseling for me to wake up and realize just how unhappy I was. What was your moment that made you realize it was time?

HazyDaze63

Xper 5 Age: 63

Did you see that crazy leftist try to assassinate Rudy Giuliani?

Inconceivable!!! He barely survived!!! https://www.youtube.com/embed/ivEAGEMgBaU

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

How do you deal with lifetime-unrequited love and lust?

I didn't even have girlfriends until my 20s, but I had crushes on ones in high school but I wasn't naturally as attractive and during those years I was more awkward compared to today. I am starting a phase again where I...

KlinkyCoder

Xper 6 Age: 34

Guys, why does my cousin - 30s - always seem to attract older men. She dressed professionally, acts professionally, is well mannered, etc. ?

The funny thing is, is she rarely attracts men her age. One guy 4-5 years older (a business owner). But most are older men even 10+ years older. And usually established men (as in good careers, business owners, etc.)....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How long can grief last?

Skyros

Explorer Age: 29

Other

At what age did you get past the "trying dumb stuff just to see how it feels" phase?

DevinAM

Xper 6 Age: 25

I live in Ashburn, Virginia. My girlfriend is pregnant. Is abortion banned in Virginia state?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it always male that is the serial killer? ?

It scares me to make friends with boys, I feel like one day maybe they might kill me secretly and nobody will know. I have been emotionally manipulated when I was very young by bunch of boys for long time and I am very...

Letmewearitplease

Xper 2 Age: 22

Break Up & Divorce

Asking to hangout?

Ex girlfriend completely ended things 3.5 weeks ago, we went 2 weeks no contact (she broke the no contact) but since then, we've had a few small talks... 4th of July is next week and I wanna ask her if she'd like to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Travel

What road trip music do you take on long road trips over 200 miles and do you crank it up?

driven159

Yoda Age: 71

Family & Friends

I got laid off from the job during Covid. Since then my mom and sister are abusing and torchering me. What should I do?

shall I call the cops and register a complaint against them. What are the laws to protect men?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Next issue gay Marriage , when Supreme Court overturns that ruling will you agree or not?

Ewwwwww I hope it is sent back to states too.

888theGreat

Master Age: 57

Is it okay for little girls to go topless to the beach?

My brother’s daughter is 7 and always goes to the beach in just a bikini bottom. When I asked my brother about this, he said it’s okay because her chest in the same as little boy’s.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy rejected me months ago and now it seems he wants me?

There's this guy I fell "in love with" and I confessed my crush to him early this year in January. I did that becauseI was literally 100% sure he likes me by his actions which were very strange to me. If you want to read...

downrightcutter

Xper 3 Age: 24

Why don’t some women look at me, especially when they’re talking to me?

Let’s be honest here, are they intimidated? I’m a huge man. 6”5 and weight 250 maybe

Grubhub

Explorer Age: 36

Marriage & Weddings

Would you want to marry a guy who is not from your country and also not your religion etc?

For example, would you like to marry a chinese, japanese , African, turkish etc. Or are you one of those who only think that he have to be from my country?

corejjx

Xper 3 Age: 27

What does it mean when a guy makes intense eye contact then ignores you then starts to makes eye contact with you and watches you?

when your talking to another coworker? No rude comments please.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies does a black man having a victim mentality because of the color of his skin a turn off?

Anonymous

(18-24)

We’re we being flirty with each other even though we’re both in relationships?

There’s a nice guy at work and over time we started talking a little more. Our first convo we talked about how we’re both in college and he told me that i spoke very well so I’d be good at my major. He also told me he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, why does my cousin - 30s - always seem to attract older men. She dressed professionally, acts professionally, is well mannered, etc. ?

ADrifter

Xper 4 Age: 38

Is she trying to lesbian flirt?

Is it considered flirting if someone teased you about your height? I have a same sex crush on this girl and she told me that this teddy bear was the same size as me lol. She’s taller and bigger. Also I joked and told her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why won't Joey finish a wall that's already been paid for? The libs said it was too expensive. Joey sent more than double that amount to Ukraine. ?

It's paid for. Why won't the commander in chief finish it? It won't cost an extra dime. Is Biden the president or is Xi Jinping?

StevieNix

Xper 7 Age: 32

Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

She never calls me like before, just recently since June she has been blocking me almost every day where before we talked maybe 6hrs a day we talk like 30min now. She demands that she have access to my bank or she’ll...

JustiReno

Xper 6 Age: 36

What are your opinions on Pride Month? And WHY does Pride Month exist? HOW did the RAINBOW come to be the symbol for Pride? ! ?

I used to think it was a symbol for hope? !

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird that I hug/cuddle my pillow when I'm down or lonely?

It's really comforting and I often fall asleep so much easier when I do this. I know I should just find someone to do this with, but I haven't dated since high school and I'm still figuring things out. I'm more shy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Signs a girl is flirting?

What are different ways of a girl flirting in person or over text?

Jsbuckets21

Xper 3 Age: 22