Is he using me or does he actually like me?

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A couple of weeks ago this guy that I was friends with in elementary school and kind of middle school (just graduated hs) started liking my stories and then did the three post like trick on insta. I liked a couple of his stories and pics back. He slid in my dms and we started talking after only like two days he said he wanted to hangout which I agreed to. I know he told his best friends about me and the hangout because one of the girlfriend of his best friends knew and two of his best friends said something to me. A couple of days later I went to his house and we watched a movie and talked. During the movie he tried to push his hand towards his d---(I don't know if I can use cuss words lol). I immediately pulled my hand back and said no. He said ok and we continued watching the movie and then talked afterwards. It was raining so he let me borrow a jacket so I wouldn't get wet when walking to my car. Also, before leaving his room I gave him a kiss and then we kissed a little more before I left. He texted me the days after and said we needed to hangout again but never gave a specific day or time. After about 6 days after our last hangout I asked him to hangout again. He agreed and we hung out the next day. Same thing, I went to his house we watched a movie and then we started another one. At the beginning of the second movie he brought up about how I said no to doing anything physical with him last time. I told him I don't usually do physical things with guys until I get to know the guy. Later on during the second movie I decided to once again kiss him. This time it got more heated and we made out more so and he started taking my bra and shirt off which I let him. He asked for head which was not the intent when I came over but for some reason I agreed. I gave him head and then he asked to do more. I told him no and he asked why. I told him one I was on my period and two I didn't want to yet. He said he respected that and we kissed more then I left.

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I also offered to give his jacket back to which he said if I wanted to keep it I could, so I did. Looking back I can see how he may be using me for my body but I think a part of me wants it to not be true since I am catching feelings for him.
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We're going to different colleges, so it is kind of strange for him to want to start talking all of sudden. When I asked him why all of a sudden he was interested. He just said he saw me and was like wow is that --- and then he swiftly
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changed the subject.
I also told one of his friends that I'm not really looking for a relationship, however I would hangout with him and see where things go.
I also told him that I don't normally move that fast physically with a guy and he reassured me he didn't think I was a whore multiple times. If we hangout again I don't plan to go any further.

I'm just really worried he is using me and I'm going to get hurt in the end.
Is he using me or does he actually like me?
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