All Questions

What makes guys better cut for videogames?

So i just can't figure out what in men's heads can make them better at videogames, than us women. Of course, there are good female players. But i talk about that, the average boy player would be better than the average...

AvaOneLasTime

Xper 6 Age: 22

How soon after a first date should you make plans for a second?

Is there a time frame? If you wait a few days does that mean you’re not interested or just playing it cool?

Blonde401

Guru Age: 36

Do you think their will always be good and evil?

Do you think that maybe one day Good will win over evil or the opposite? Do you think people will become smarter in their choices and aim for the better good for everyone or will everyone start thinking its every person...

jasco

Guru Age: 23

Guys is it a deal breaker if a girl doesn't drive in her 20s?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I (25F) tell him I never kissed?

I’m 25 and never kissed. Not for a lack of opportunity or any fantasy of waiting for “the one”, but because of a big social anxiety problem that led me to always stay in my comfort zone and focus only on my studies....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you ever want to fight this beast?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you seriously find girls with curly hair (photos below) unattractive?

Here are some pictures, I put the hair type for each. Can you maybe say what you think about each one? And Is it really too big, messy, and not "feminine" enough? Do you think it's "too much"? Do you find it cool...

Jana_banana

Xper 2 Age: 25

Why don't men like women who love money?

If you like women who don't like money, then why would you want a beautiful woman for free? Diamonds have value. It is as precious as a ruby in a woman. There is a saying from Nasreddin Hodja. who pays the money plays...

SecretGardenBlood65

Explorer Age: 34

Is the wrong for me to ask?

A guy and have been messing around for 3 months about 1 time a week… he hit me with let’s just go with the flow and what ever happens is gonna happen! Should I ask him to do me a huge favor, to let me go when he finds a...

tootles303

Xper 5 Age: 42

Why are American politics so toxic?

Is it the lefts fault? Is it the rights fault? Is it everyone's fault?

Cringe

Xper 6 Age: 25

What should a woman to bring to the table?

Open to ambiguity.🌹Realistically, what should a women contribute/offer to a man (we assume that the man brings his share)? We hear some men complain about shallow women who bring only their “bodies & looks,” but in...

gracekkim

Xper 2 Age: 24

Is it considered trashy to hook up on the first date?

We’ve known each other for years it’s honestly not the first time we hung out alone together but we went on a date and we hooked up yesterday. We’re still talking normally like we always do. We’re doing something next...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Food & Beverage

What do you want on your pizza?

Mine is pepperoni, bacon, sausage and mushroom

MrtoddsWildRide

Xper 6 Age: 54

Should I ask to meet my crush in person?

So there’s this guy I really like he does not live in my town but he will be in town for 1 night and we have never met before, we have been in contact on social media. He seemed interested when texting me. Now he’s in...

cleo21360

Xper 5 Age: 30

Do you prefer blonds, brunettes, or redheads?

Brunette Blond

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my love life hasn't gotten better at all still single and already annoyed about a lot of things about dating?

i Know that users are going to that i am still very yong and still has some time to find the right guy but that not what i am was like to hear. i starting having some strugging with finding a date then the date got...

Lovesims3plumbob

Xper 4 Age: 27

Have you ever been judged for your dating preferences?

Cherry234

Guru Age: 28

Would you date if you were happy single?

I don’t think my life can get any better than what it is so I think if I try to change it, I don’t see anything added to my life, only things taken away, like having kids might mean sleep deprivation or exhausting...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Health & Fitness

Do you smoke, and what's your opinion about it?

I do not smoke and I wouldn't tell someone who is already an adult to stop doing that, not my business. It's bad for your health, especially for your lungs. It's actually up to you if you wanna inhale it or not. Sure...

Anоnymоus

Xper 1 Age: 24

Have you ever felt underappreciated in a relationship?

What did the person do or didn't do to make you feel that way? Did you break up with them?

moonpie89

Master Age: 32

Entertainment & Arts

“Instrumental music with no lyrics is just ‘noise’.” Do you agree or disagree?

I listen to a lot of video game music and most of it has no lyrics at all, just purely instrumental. I also like classical compositions and movie soundtracks. A few people have told me its all boring and basically im just...

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

Why do men follow Dan Bilzerian?

Why do so many men that I know follow or admire Dan Bilzerian? He looks like an asshole in his instagram although I have no idea what he’s actually famous for. Also, girls do you consider it a red flag if a guy you’re...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

How do I solve my learning problems?

I have good comprehension skills when I read something I understand it well but the problem is that my mind doesn't memorize it because I'm always tired. The other day I applied some techniques to improve the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does the weekend mean to you? do you love her?

romantic6655

Xper 3 Age: 42

Travel

Have you ever been to an island?

I've only been to Catalina for a school trip in sixth grade. I didn't even want to go, so instead of just enjoying myself, I made myself miserable the whole time and tried to get out of doing certain activities. 🙄🤦‍♀️...

beebella

Master Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

A woman got mad at me for holding a door open for her?

I know that most woman are just normal people who wouldn't have responded this way. I see woman on the internet complain about "benevolent sexism" and other dumb thing like manspreading. I never thought I'd actually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I know if my male coworker likes me or is attracted to me?

How do I know if my male co worker likes me or is attracted to me? Please men and women name things that guys do that show there’s an attraction there I am so confused. I feel like we have chemistry but that’s always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I chated on my husband is it my husbands fault?

My husband doesn't compliment me anymore and I have a co worker who just had a baby and whos wife is not giving attention to him. He always compliments me and saying how beautiful and sexy I was and I'm going out with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How soon after a date would you text someone?

If you had a successful date, how long would you wait and why? Please give your reasoning, interested to hear from both genders

Blonde401

Guru Age: 36

Family & Friends

Scale of 1-10, how loyal have you been to the person/people you're most loyal to throughout your lifetime (10 means you've never failed to be loyal)?

10 means you have been loyal all throughout your life regardless of anything the person/people have done wrong.

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

Health & Fitness

Ladies. Please be honest; When you attempt to lose weight, what are the real reasons that you do it?

Being attractive and getting attention? Your overall health and fitness? Or to have a partner or man and be able to be intimate? ( I’m thinking about loosing some weight to maybe enter the Police Academy, or Military...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do You Think Alpha/Aggressive Men Have It Better In Life?

I have an attractive girlfriend that's looking for a man with who she feels safe and protects her. She found such a man. He is 6' tall with a 6 pack. He is aggressive. I've seen him shove guys to the side. I've seen him...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do men “hit the wall”?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Friend groups with girls?

I’m in a friend group of 7 girls and none of them snap me on Snapchat but the rest of them snap eachother I feel left out

mollyxxx801

Xper 3 Age: 24

Why do some guys get so offended about people neutering their pets?

This was initially going to be a question just for girls but I figured screw it, include men as well. Over the years I've heard multiple men get really offended by the notion of neutering their pets (usually a dog, I've...

StephBelsten

Xper 3 Age: 26

Shopping & Gifts

What is the best birthday/Christmas gift you’ve ever received from a woman?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you like your friend or boyfriend to be attracted to this style?

Usually guys consider more attractive girls who wear heels, sandals, dressed in elegant clothing. There are also guys who instead feel more attractive girls who wear sneakers, with various style clothing, casual and...

johred

Xper 3 Age: 32

Girls, Is this a sign of Attraction and love?

I'm in a Close relationship with someone and she defends me when someone yells at me for no reason and she says she doesn't like other men yet she likes me and she does hug me tightly and she always takes showers when...

Damianschmidt19999

Xper 2 Age: 26

Any general advice (dos and don'ts) for a 31 year old virgin with no dating experience?

I'm a 31 year old virgin who dedicated my last 13 years to my career. I surpassed my monetary life goals but now I'm a complete idiot at pretty much everything else especially self-confidence and social interactions....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would a guy I work with suddenly try to avoid eye contact with me?

Why would a guy I work with suddenly try to avoid eye contact with me, he’s done it once before when we were passing each other in the hallway, which I guess we were doing again today when he avoided eye contact, he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why didn't he want to say goodbye?

We never had a relationship, but we - and everyone else - knew that there was something going on between us. We both had feelings at some point, I know for a fact that I had feelings until the very end - I had to move...

medanne

Xper 5 Age: 28