All Questions

Do guys like deep conversations and do they only have them with certain people?

me and this guy have been friends for years, lately we've gotten closer and we have been talking besides when we see each other, like over text and stuff. We had a really deep conversation and it was a side I've never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Man says I own you-after sex?

In a fairly new exclusive relationship with a man. He is a good man, does a lot for me and always has my back. We are in our mid 40's, so not young. Last night after having sex he said "I own you:. I asked him.. what? So...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

Girls, what kind of boots look good on men?

The question says it all.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do guys feel about girls with self harm scars? How would you feel if you saw these on your girlfriend? Would you leave her or think she's psycho?

Scars like this

Anonymous

(25-29)

She likes me but doesn't text me?

I like this shy girl and she said she likes me too. We've hung out a few times and everything seems fine. Even though we are a bit shy and nervous around each other, we can talk in person without any problem and sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy touches your hip?

He was playing basketball on the court. I was just standing there. Then all of a sudden from behind me I felt my hip being touched. what does it mean when a guy touches your hip?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did my boyfriend say he's scared of me?

Okay so he tells me he's scared of me but i didn't do anything? i dont threaten him like he does to me eg (if you leave me ill kill myself or if you leave me ill smash you and kill your new bf) but i dont get it why he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do obese women on OKcupid and POF list their body types as "curvy" and "average"?

I recently started this whole online dating thing and noticed a few things. (1.) There are many, many obese women on these online dating sites. Not overweight, but obese. They seem to make up a majority of the population...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Nudity at home?

This topic usually gets very strong opinions and surprisingly, the most conservative opinions usually come from the younger people. How do you feel about nudity in the home when there are children present? Obviously,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Marriage & Weddings

What color tux looks best on the groom? Bowtie or tie? Vest or no vest?

I feel like black tuxedos are too classic. I'm really feeling the khaki/tan color... Maybe even gray. Even navy looks nice. I also prefer a tie over a bowtie. In my opinion, bowties read "frat boy". Yea James Bond pulled...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you find your soulmate at 16? Is it better to marry early or later?

I am 18 but I met him at 16. We really do care about each other. No he doesn't want me for sex. Yes I am sure. TWO QUESTIONS AT ONCE! But they are not related. I dont want to marry him until I am like 25.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay that my boyfriend saves half naked snapchats of other girls?

My boyfriend was asleep and his phone went off and it was a notification that some girl on Skype was trying to get ahold of him. So that prompted me to look through his phone, which is bad, I know, but then I found he has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does the fire emoji stand for when sexting?

Sexting my boyfriend and told him to meet me somewhere for a quickie and he sent me the fire emoji? What's that mean? 🔥

Anonymous

(30-35)

My brother's girlfriend looks just like me?

Today I met my brother's new girlfriend. He was telling me how great she is and how we will get along. She has the same interests as me so I was excited to meet plus, my brother is happy with her so I'm happy. When she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal to see someone who looks exactly like your ex?

is it normal to see someone who looks exactly like your ex? i wondered if its normal or concidence. whenever i see a guy who exactly looks like my ex i get super nervous and look away because i think its him and don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you believe in this stupid "Alpha male" and "Beta Male" concept?

I was just reading this picture, realizing how fucking retarded the labeling is. The "Beta Males" sound more like paranoid males with poor life experience so I won't totally judge those with some of the problems...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how do I throw him off his game?

I like this guy, a friend of mine. We flirt a lot. I've known him about a year. At first, he did nothing for me physically, but it's that dang personality! I told him that I liked him and he said he was too busy getting...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, Why are boys always mean to me?

Every time I get near someone they always have this attitude

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Little bumps inside vaginal opening?

So I just noticed that I have these little bumps inside my vaginal opening.. Is this normal? Do any of you girls have it? I'm seriously scared now because I don't know if this is normal or not? *** also I haven't gotten...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do women treat me like I'm a second class citizen?

When I go to cash register, or a restaurant, anywhere there's a reasonably attractive woman, they don't make eye contact, and when they do they look away with a roll of their eyes, complete indifference. Occasionally I'll...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it rude to be barefoot at a friends house?

Some friends and I got together, we were all wearing heels and other types of open shoes. After a while we all took off our shoes and were barefoot. The host didn't take them off, we were all having fun, after some hours,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

How hard are layers to manage?

So I'm thinking of getting layers. I have long hair now (all one length) and was thinking of getting long layers. Does anyone have them? How hard are they to manage/style? I'm not someone who wants to spend a ton of time...

Daretodream13

Xper 5 Age: 28

Why do I always attract crazy women?

I see myself as a pretty average guy, looks and mentality. But for some reason, I always end up with women that are either outright dangerous or batshit crazy. I'm a normal, nice guy.. What the hell am I doing wrong?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what would you do if your boyfriend later told you this about himself?

What would you do if your boyfriend told you very late in your relationship that he was traumatized as a child (up to this very day) from witnessing a woman being r@ped and a man being castrated (while conscious)? I ask...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Are volleyball socks supposed to stink after a game?

hypermotard

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guys, do you like girls in floral dresses of this style and cut?

skullly

Yoda Age: 40

Society & Politics

What is your Meyers Brigg personality type?

/Mine is ENFP. Apparently i'm friendly and creative. What does it really mean?

smahala1991

Editor Age: 35

Do y'all have any first kiss scenarios or an idea of what the perfect kiss should be like, first kiss stories are also welcome?

I think the perfect first kiss would be while walking on the beach with my boyfriend, holding hands, and sharing the quietness. Then we randomly stop and he kisses me right under the moonlight. (I haven't had my first...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He saved my dirty snapchat?

I've been talking to this absolutely STUNNING guy on this app and he's leaving town in a week so it's obvious that were trying to hook up. He asked to see full body pics and I sent him 2 cute ones but I also sent him one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did he actually try to ask me if I want Ferrero? Or was he trying to give me a last name? Or did he compare me to a Ferrero, which is round and yummy?

He's Italian. I'm a foreign national. I've been here for a few months only so I still find it hard to have quite long conversations. There's one time I remember a guy said "Judy ferrero..." I'm a hundred percent sure he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, I have a couple of questions for the bisexual and lesbian ladies here?

1. When did you realize you were attracted to other ladies? 2. Does scissoring work or does it feel good? 3. How do you have sex?

slavekimmy

Xper 6 Age: 32

My boyfriend spends his birthday with his family instead of me?

My boyfriend is spending his birthday with his family. He told me I could see him on the day after. Is this a bad thing? He said his family usually takes him out to lunch and a dinner. I asked him why can't I join, he...

kkagome23

Xper 5 Age: 30

Is it inappropriate for my boyfriend to touch another woman like this?

Is my boyfriend being inappropriate with this woman? I ve gone to my boyfriend s job a few times and I notice him touching this girl he works with in a way that I don t know how to take. Like If She s Standing In Front Of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

The #BellyButtonChallenge, what do you think?

So apperantly there is this new trend, the "belly button challenge" where you in order to be thin enough, have to prove you can touch your belly button with your arm around your back. What do you think of this? Is it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do guys put thier arm around a girls waist?

What does it mean when a guys puts his arm around your waist and calls you mami in a flirty way what's the meaning to this how does it makes you guys feel by puting your arms on a girls waist..

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like "open when..." letters? Do girls?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, is this the most attractive/beautiful guy in the world?

Anonymous

(25-29)