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Should you ever give a second chance to a cheater? (Page 2)
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Once a cheater always a cheater... that's my opinion. That person made a commitment to you and to your relationship. The minute he or she cheats, he or she breaks that promise. I've seen people heart broken because of cheating, and eventually that comes up and bites you in the ass... karma works that way.
It would really hurt if someone cheated on you. You know each other inside and out and you believe he/she couldn't have ever done that, as if its impossible. If it did happen, whoever got cheated on needs to get out of that relationship right away before it gets too late and your even more hurt. I would never give someone who cheated on me a second chance. That's trust that will never be fixed and they're bound to cheat again until your just left a fool.
Nope. It's better to be a part. Even if you can see yourself together again, you need to give youself some solo time to really deal and move on.
NEVER!!!
ie: I "tried" to be monogamous once but already knew I was kidding myself, & instantly returned to form which surprised no one.
Note: People who are me just need constant excitement, new bodies and sadly continual sick validation from others.
I once had a girlfriend that was like you except that she was in denial about herself. Would have been much better for both of us had she just known herself and been upfront. Glad you understand yourself and I hope you tell the boys in your life exactly what you're after.
@Someguy17. I DO tell every man & woman that I date and have sex with EXACTLY who I am UPFRONT. Most say they are totally cool with it but sadly NONE ever are.
If you tell them upfront then it's all gravy. It's their problem if they choose to ignore you.
@Someguy17. In "theory" it SHOULD be like that but in "reality" it NEVER is.
ie: "THEIR problem" rapidly becomes MY problem, on loop.
Like, I could write entire bookS about this dude.
Peace xo
I did. Bad idea, cheater cheats cuz of a reason, and whatever that is is irrelevant. Dump n find someone worth ur time
I will never ever give a second chance to a cheater.
I think if you really love someone u can see in their eyes and you will feel if they are truly sorry. I cheated on my boyfriend once and evn if I'm young I know I'll never love a guy tht much and I'll never trust myself with someone else. But u hv a good point, in some cases the cheater is really sorry and deserves a second chance
I might give a cheater a second chance. I don't believe in what they call, "once a cheater always a cheater".
I've been watching a tv show that somewhat changed my thoughts on cheating. Now, I tolerate cheating more.
I might give my so a second chance depending on how badly I'm hurt and his intentions on how he would make me feel.
I wouldn't go so far as to say I would absolutely never give them a second chance, but it would be an extremely difficult thing for me to do and would very much depend on the circumstances and the person. I believe I would most likely not give them a second chance.
i would never trust him again. If he cheated once, he will do it again...
A cheater is going to cheat simple as that.
If you truly love somebody, you fight your temptations and you fight for them
I don't think I could give someone a second chance after learning they cheated.
I will forgive them but won't forget
There's no such thing as a fair human. Every human is a cheater.
Every human is not unfaithful to their partner. I know that to be true because I am 60 years old and I have never cheated on my partner. When you say "every human is a cheater," if you are talking about monogamy, you are wrong. If you are talking about cheating in some other, more generic sense. . . that is not what this take is about.
Excellent take!
Thanks!
second chance should always be granted to worthy.
1. Have you ever been the victim of cheating?
2. What makes a cheating partner worthy of a second chance?
I had 3 relationships in my life were the girl cheated and 2 I gave a 2nd chance and they still cheated... It takes a different type of mindset to cheat, I couldn't sleep at night if I cheat on someone I would feel so bad.
@Dessertfox Herr Rommel, I am with you. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror if I had done such a thing.