And what's this stupid shit about making it all about guys? Like chicks don't step out on their guys ever? You're not fooling anyone with this crap man.
Perhaps it was too much for you to read, but this began with an explanation that I have been cheated on. Yes, I know that women cheat; I know it painfully well. And later in the article, I stated, "Women are also unfaithful (as I know very well.)" Remember?
In a fairly well respected annual poll of American behaviors in marriage, approximately 12% of married men and 7% of married women admit to having been unfaithful to their partner.
Cool, that's like writing an entire novel about Subject A but as long as one paragraph on page 200 is about Subject B, then you fall back under the false guise of objectivity saying "I covered both subjects." No... you didn't.
Right, not always, but if you heard that someone had cheated and you didn't know anything else about the person. would you predict that they will do it again or would you predict that they won't? And if it's more likely than not that it will happen, why would you give that person another chance?
If it happens after you have kids together, you might want to consider the best environment for them, and it's been well demonstrated that a stable, two-parent family is hte best environment for raising kids.
I agree about considering the environment for the children. And if you can reconcile the hurt feelings and continue, that is far better for the children. But if you become nothing more than roommates who tolerate each other, that provides a horrible role model to the children for what married life should be. Deciding what to do when you have kids is much more complicated than when you are childless.
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i don't agree with the headline, i was a commit boyfriend to my now ex-girlfriend
There are exceptions to every rule, but someone who has cheated does not deserve the second chance to prove that they are the exception.
I'm a believer in once a cheater always a cheater.
Exclamation marks! Much serious!
And what's this stupid shit about making it all about guys? Like chicks don't step out on their guys ever? You're not fooling anyone with this crap man.
Perhaps it was too much for you to read, but this began with an explanation that I have been cheated on. Yes, I know that women cheat; I know it painfully well. And later in the article, I stated, "Women are also unfaithful (as I know very well.)" Remember?
In a fairly well respected annual poll of American behaviors in marriage, approximately 12% of married men and 7% of married women admit to having been unfaithful to their partner.
I am not trying to fool anyone.
Cool, that's like writing an entire novel about Subject A but as long as one paragraph on page 200 is about Subject B, then you fall back under the false guise of objectivity saying "I covered both subjects." No... you didn't.
I think we have different ways of perceiving things. That's okay.
Hahaha clearly. Hey, whatever you say man.
There are exceptions, though. Otherwise, I agree.
Yeah you're right
They always a cheater
Yeah.
Interesting
yes true
I agree
well said
well said
I agree 100%
Not always.
Right, not always, but if you heard that someone had cheated and you didn't know anything else about the person. would you predict that they will do it again or would you predict that they won't? And if it's more likely than not that it will happen, why would you give that person another chance?
If it happens after you have kids together, you might want to consider the best environment for them, and it's been well demonstrated that a stable, two-parent family is hte best environment for raising kids.
I agree about considering the environment for the children. And if you can reconcile the hurt feelings and continue, that is far better for the children. But if you become nothing more than roommates who tolerate each other, that provides a horrible role model to the children for what married life should be. Deciding what to do when you have kids is much more complicated than when you are childless.
That's right
Nice take!