Stop waiting for them to come back. They are gone, left you. Vanished, like a fart in the wind. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you can move on and start moving forward in your life
I know, there is a part of you that wants them to realize that you were the best that they ever had, and that they can’t live their life without you. My friend, that’s what you need to realize. Your worth is not dependant on one person. Who you are, is not who you are with that person. Don’t hope for them to reach out to you, to make amends or apologize. It’s never going to happen.
Repeat after me; they are not coming back and I need to move on with my life. If by some miracle, they do come back, you should not be sitting there waiting for them.
People come in and out of your life for a reason, and leave when that lesson is learned or that they have done everything that they were supposed to do. Things don’t always go according to plan, and sometimes you were just meant to walk on a different path than them. The world, the universe is a crazy place and we never know what it has in store for us. We can only go with the flow and keep making ourselves happy. Often the path that is filled with heartache is the path that we learn the most lessons from.
This lesson teaches you that you should not pin your happiness to a single person. That love is imperfect; people are imperfect and are prone to making mistakes. Don’t get caught up in an imaginary person, creating someone and something that can only exist in your head. Expectations can kill. You should start visualizing your own dreams, as dreams are dependent on you, and only you to make then a reality.
These lessons help make us stronger allowing us to become better versions of ourselves. In the long run, making us a better human for potential partners. If we don’t love ourselves and who we are, how can we expect anyone to love us?
So stop counting the reasons why they should be loved, and count the reasons why you are the one that is worth loving.