Caught boyfriend masturbating next to me. I feel betrayed I want to end it? (Page 2)

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I have been with my boyfriend for a whole year and it's been a long distance relationship. I only get to be with him once a month and I caught him masturbating in bed when he thinks I'm asleep. I wake up and he pretends he is asleep. I told him that if he wants to have sex he can just wake up and ask me I'm always up for it. But for some reason he chose his hand over me. I feel very betrayed and I feel that I can't give him the right pleasure because I don't make him ejaculate but when he uses his hand he ejaculates in seconds. He is very sorry and tells me I am enough for his sexual desires but the answer is clear to me. I am not irresistible as he thinks I am. I can't believe he chooses his hand over me when I travel for six hours to see him. I don't masturbate and I am very loyal. I've tried to touch myself to get aroused only to find out that it's impossible. He is the only thing I crave. If he craves his hand more than me doesn't that show he doesn't love me? He respects me so much we build a future together but I don't think I can do this anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

He should dump you instead.

iUnderachieve · Answer

So wait.. he cheated on you with is hand?

Caught boyfriend masturbating next to me. I feel betrayed I want to end it? (Page 2)

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