My ex and I have known each other for 16 years. dated for 81/2 yrs. He left me a year ago. I went no contact for about the whole year. I was pretty devastated. He then started to get in touch with me.
Fast forward to now. We recently slept together a few times. He has made it clear he still has feelings for me. I've been pretty casual about it because I don't want to pressure him & he's in school full time. Sunday I was at a concert by myself & he texted me asking to help him watch his dog. I told him where I was & he flipped out on me.
He said I'm doing "gay ****" all the time. that all his friends are there for him & I haven't been & that he'll never ask me for help again. I was shocked cause I'm always there. Even after everything that's happened between us."Youre clearly moving on & doing stupid ****. I'll do my thing, you do yours, whatever it is this time" he's ignored me all month. His response was he's busy with work & school & his bands.
Then he says "I'd always be there for you if you asked, you have not been. I told him I'd help him & like an idiot left the concert. he stopped answering his phone & was like "I have **** to do bye my phones dyn" so I said "thanks for making me feel like a one night stand, the nights we spent together actually meant something to me. I'm not moving on I'm in love with you asshole" haven't talked to him since.
Whats his problem? All cause I went to a concert? Any men out there that can tell me why he's so cruel. I feel like a sucker.
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Well you are a sucker. "You fell for the get back in touch then we sleep together but you gotta do what I want when I want" thing that most people fall into when you mess with an ex. Friends with benefits works the worse when it comes to exes. They get what they want (your body) without too much commitment and time allowed but with an ex they tend to act more like a relationship. I don't see why he flipped out, but you knowing this guy for 16 years and dating him for almost 9 should know it doesn't take much to set him off. Your not a fault for anything that happened, I don't know what's wrong with his dog but he is taking out his frustrations on you which is not fair, however is probably something he has always done and used to do in the pass. I know you love him but you should try to move on if he doesn't see that he was being an ass and apologize.0