Hi girls could you help me out here?
After my ex broke up (lost attraction) I gave her a 3,5 weeks No Contact. She tried to reach out several times in this period. "How are you doing" ect.
Now the NC is over and we meet and later talked over text and snapchat. She was really impressed with me. "You look good", "you look like you are doing great" ect. She was also very very interrested in all the new things that is going on in my life (I made many changes in No Contact). She also agreed to go for coffee with me... So there must still me some sort of interrest there (Either romatic or friendly)
But now a few days later she constantly sends me messages on snapchat. Just random "Got a new dress", "Going to the gym" and such. I keep complimenting her every time, and teling her: "You look good", "is that a new dress" ect. But no reply anymore? I can see she sends all these snaps to at least 20 other people...
Is she just hungering for attention?
Or why would you girls play these games?
At least it must mean she misses the attention I once gave her...
Most Helpful Girl
If these messages were to you and only you, I would say that she is interested. But since she is sending them out to her network of friends, I would say that she only wants to be a friend. (She is just hanging onto you to make herself feel good). You can stop this by being direct with her. Ask her on a date, if she says no, than count it as her lost ( she sounds really immature to be playing these games anyway), and go you own way.0