How to end things with a fuck buddy?

[Anonymous]

I got myself into a friends with benefits kinda relationship for 4 months & I see him every weekend primarily to have sex & hang out. He barely even clls the next day or anyday to have a simple convo he only calls when he wants to meet up I was trying to read him & was under the impression that maybe his feeings for me changed & he wanted to get more serious i also made excuses of why he did the things he does. But im tired im being his jump off. I want someone that will treat me bettter so this has to end. But i already fell in love & leaving him would break my heart even more. How can I get him out of my life & peacefully move on

[MollyD]

i totally understand your feeling when u said u even made excuse why he did the thing he did. You must really fall for him. I used to fall for a fuckbuddy and i had the same syndroms like u do, lol. But to be honest that's just one side of a story, girls tend to make excuse for the guy they like or that's how you want things to be. And it's literally not the truth. i struggled with my mind for a while to come to the decision to tell him the truth that i wanted more than just some quickies. After my confession i disappeared and he literally understood that we couldnt go further so he didn't contact neither. You got to love yourself first so if someone treats you bad, you're here to treat yourself better because u deserve better than that. Someone will finally come and you'll get over that lovestruck soon enough :) dear!

[Anonymous]

I think you should just tell him that you cannot continue being his friends with benefits because you want a relationship. I know how you feel because I had a friends with benefits with a guy and I really liked him and every time I had sex with him he would leave right after and I wouldn't hear from him for a while and it would leave me feeling empty and used even though I knew we were only friends with benefits so I just let him go by not contacting him anymore.

[sexysarahh]

As always communication is the key to success. Speak your mind, then ghost. Time heals most things in that time be good to yourself like you deserve.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you want someone that will treat you better? you should have never had a fuck buddy to begin with then, someone who will treat you better is a boyfriend. its a fuck buddy, just tell him you're over it.

[Asker]

So just tell him I'm done or just disappear

[BertMacklinFBI]

you can do any of the 3 options.

[BertMacklinFBI]

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[manslut9569]

By the looks of it you're acting bi polar, you either, A- continue being sex buddy's. Accepting you won't get anything else from it. Or B- end things with him and find someone worth your time.

[abw121290]

This is a possible problem with friends with benefits . The purpose of a friends with benefits is for no-strings attached sex. Falling for a friends with benefits is common, but dangerous.

[Klaatu51]

just tell him "we have 2 stop being friends with benefits basically"

i guess he'd take it lightly, since u r not officially dating each ither

[Asker]

We never really called it that to each other but deep down i know that what it is. It hurts so much to know i meant nothing to him & he doesn't care of he loses me. Thats why im so afraid to end it because then it would actually be over. My heart just hurts so much right now :(