I got myself into a friends with benefits kinda relationship for 4 months & I see him every weekend primarily to have sex & hang out. He barely even clls the next day or anyday to have a simple convo he only calls when he wants to meet up I was trying to read him & was under the impression that maybe his feeings for me changed & he wanted to get more serious i also made excuses of why he did the things he does. But im tired im being his jump off. I want someone that will treat me bettter so this has to end. But i already fell in love & leaving him would break my heart even more. How can I get him out of my life & peacefully move on
How to end things with a fuck buddy?
What Guys Said 3
just tell him "we have 2 stop being friends with benefits basically"
i guess he'd take it lightly, since u r not officially dating each ither1
This is a possible problem with friends with benefits . The purpose of a friends with benefits is for no-strings attached sex. Falling for a friends with benefits is common, but dangerous.2
By the looks of it you're acting bi polar, you either, A- continue being sex buddy's. Accepting you won't get anything else from it. Or B- end things with him and find someone worth your time.0
What Girls Said 2
As always communication is the key to success. Speak your mind, then ghost. Time heals most things in that time be good to yourself like you deserve.0
I think you should just tell him that you cannot continue being his friends with benefits because you want a relationship. I know how you feel because I had a friends with benefits with a guy and I really liked him and every time I had sex with him he would leave right after and I wouldn't hear from him for a while and it would leave me feeling empty and used even though I knew we were only friends with benefits so I just let him go by not contacting him anymore.0
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