I always cheat!!

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I know Cheating is NEVER okay. But for some reason I always cheat, I cheated on all of my ex's and now am engaged and I kinda cheated on my fiance we been together for 7 months... I think I have a disease called (CHEATING)

But I think I know why.

Back then when I was a little kid about 6 or 7 I saw my mom cheating on my dad, and when I grow up I cheat on every boy I been with. and the sad part is I enjoy doing it...

i never been cheated on by the way! 

i cheat  because I don't wanna be cheated on. 

do you think am SICK? do I need Help?

Cartiphilus · Accepted Answer

Children always learn things from their parents.  Boys see their fathers slap around their mothers and think this is the way to treat women.  You've noticed your mom cheating on your dad.  She taught you something that was not a good idea towards having a viable loving relationship with a boyfriend.  Sometimes lovers cheat for many reasons.  One reason is they are unhappy with the relationship although they still love the person.  Sometimes they can't get out of the relationship for important reasons so they cheat to get what they want...attention from someone.  They're must be many reasons why people cheat but in your case you don't have a valid reason other than you saw your mom cheat on your dad.  You need to realize if you want a loving trusting relationship, it's not a good idea to be the first one to break a trust.  You could possibly be cheated on as perhaps all lovers have suffered.  I've heard some girls purposely f*** their boyfriends so much if they guy cheats it isn't because she denied him in bed.  Your mom inadvertently taught you the wrong lesson..

Nacelunk · Accepted Answer

If you enjoy doing it there is nothing wrong with it. In fact you might want to consider a career of an escort. That way you will be happy and make your clients happy and at the same time you won't be hurting any guy's feelings by cheating. I am serious. Do whatever makes you happy in life.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i used to cheat all the time. I'm not sick. I don't need help. no traumas in my childhood. I'm just not the monogomous type. I now just have casual relationships. of course they'll come a stage when I get tired of it all and just want to settle down but only the right guy will make me settle down, I mean the kind of guy who'll keep me on my toes.

you're unhappy in your relatioships. you crave excitement, the danger, the attention. don't marry this guy. he's not the one.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah, you need help. Your life is eventually going to self-destruct and you will hurt the people you love in the process. And by the way... you do realize that whole cheat so you're not cheated on thing makes no sense whatsoever, right?

Find a good therapist and fix this now before you destroy everything that means anything in your life.

KarinMcDonald · Answer

Society has always accepted the fact that men cheat. Us women are supposed to just stand by our man when that happens. I disagree with that! It sounds to me like the environment that you grew up in helped form your opinion on monogamy. I don't think there's anything "wrong" with you. It sounds like you just enjoy variety. I cheated and got caught. I thought that I was being so careful, but DNA evidence was left that my husband found. That led to a long discussion between the two of us. I know that it sounds weird, but in the long run our relationship is much stronger now than it ever had been before.

Throwawaynowknow · Answer

I think you have self image issues that make you see yourself as inferior to these guys who you are dumbfounded as to why they would choose to be in a relationship with someone like you.

Fix your self image issues and perhaps you won't see yourself as unworthy (even if you are)

Crazycanuck · Answer

I would highly advise that you see a Shrink and come clean with your Boyfriend because if it's that much of a problem you should get as much help as you can before it destroys your life...

sillyfairy474 · Answer

I think you have some things you need to work through but you’re not sick. We all have our stuff we have to deal with.

Ilittles · Answer

Yes you need help and are a bad person but not without redemption.
Cheating is not a power move, it a sign of your insecurity, and the need you have to take what ever cock you try to grab at.
You have a complex and are a slave to your vices.

pushingrope · Answer

People literally commit suicide because of people like you. Refuse to date ever again never have relationship ever again, just have fuck buddies

JPrez · Answer

Learned behavior that you adapt is difficult to break without therapy. Seek therapy or counseling of some type.

GingerKink · Answer

I would suggest not getting married, unless your fiance is into that sort of thing. There's nothing wrong with cheating if you're not married.

AlanHB · Answer

It's only wrong because it hurts the poor guy you're with. I'd break up with him and take a break from relationships for a while if I were you.

Miristheiss · Answer

Just go have one night stands and be a slut.  Quit trying to have committed, long term relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah most likely you need help. I do this also... I cheated in every single relationship I had and had so many I can't even count, now I am in one for 10 years and I am about to cheat again. by the way I also saw my mother cheatin on my father when I was in highschool she was speaking with someone else at telephone loocked in a room. I think I have a problem too and it is sad.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

You're putting yourself under wrong kind of relationships. If you want to be promiscuous, stay single and fuck around or be in an open relationship.

England4eva · Answer

You need to not be in a relationship if that’s the case

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

You need therapy & you shouldn't be in a relationship until you get this settled.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

I will like to talk more whit you if you are ok whit that

Maxnanet · Answer

Cheating is tricky cause it is so exciting... And once you start to know the feeling, its just like drugs

skyeee_ · Answer

i dont mean any offense but yes you indeed do need help

worldscolide · Answer

sounds to me like you need to stay single. No respect for a serial cheater.

Hanrej · Answer

Why? Seems like you enjoy it so I don't think YOU need help.

Shamalien · Answer

The very least you can do is be honest about your ‘illness’

I always cheat!!

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