he used her 14 years old son who is living with her mum to put pressure on her to leave me and not marry me, last time he made the boy tell her that either she comes back or else he will go and live with her ex (who is not his father) she got a panic and she left telling me that she will sort things out, but 2 days later communication was lost.
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No. Listen to me: She is lying to you.
First, ask yourself this: is all you know about the story, he "he said/child said" coming from her mouth only? "I can't help it, my ex threatened [this]" or "I have to go because my child just said [that]." Have you ever heard her child say these things with your own ears?
And, when she tries to leave again, know this: Her ex has NO, and I mean NO rights over the child, even if he raised him, clothed him, fed him from birth. If he did not legally adopt him, he cannot make her give him the child. Under the law, that would be kidnapping, false imprisonment, etc., and he would be treated no differently than a stranger who "took" her son or "made" him live with him.
I could have made this point another way but I can actually prove her, without a doubt, a liar by using basic law. If you live in a country that does not observe laws like these (and I am certain that most established eastern/western countries DO), then I am more than happy to give my non-legal reasoning.
My conclusion will be the same, though - she is jerking you around. You deserve better than that.0
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