No. Listen to me: She is lying to you.
First, ask yourself this: is all you know about the story, he "he said/child said" coming from her mouth only? "I can't help it, my ex threatened [this]" or "I have to go because my child just said [that]." Have you ever heard her child say these things with your own ears?
And, when she tries to leave again, know this: Her ex has NO, and I mean NO rights over the child, even if he raised him, clothed him, fed him from birth. If he did not legally adopt him, he cannot make her give him the child. Under the law, that would be kidnapping, false imprisonment, etc., and he would be treated no differently than a stranger who "took" her son or "made" him live with him.
I could have made this point another way but I can actually prove her, without a doubt, a liar by using basic law. If you live in a country that does not observe laws like these (and I am certain that most established eastern/western countries DO), then I am more than happy to give my non-legal reasoning.
My conclusion will be the same, though - she is jerking you around. You deserve better than that.
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Maybe she does love him more, maybe not. Whatever the case, she's definitely playing games and more than likely just stringing you along as back-up since things aren't working out too well with him for now.
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You will never have a primary role in this sick triangle they have worked out. You need to find another playground.
Dude you need to move on. This girl is obviously not in a place where she can commit to you, so don't wait for it
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