My boyfriend cheated on me, so I slept with his childhood bully. Was I right?

[Anonymous]

I'm using my cousin's account and saw my boyfriend have sex with his ex. I ran into his childhood bully in a bar and we have had sex after I broke up with him. Should I boast that I slept with him and was I right?

Yes, you were right :)

NO, you were not :(

[Smmyskittles]

WHAT deranged female voted "YES"... Tell me it was a mistake and that SOMEONE out there doesn't believe it's right.

- It was wrong. They hurt you, so you tired to hurt them back. Feeling that is normal, acting on it is immature and thoughtless.

* They're going to find out. When they do and find out you did it ON PURPOSE to hurt them; they won't ever take YOU back. If you ever want them back.

[Asker]

Will it be worse since it was with his bully?

[ShaeNielson]

So she should beg her cheating bastard of a boyfriend to take her back? It's not like he accidentally fucked his ex, he knew she would be hurt. You need some self respect.

[Smmyskittles]

@ShaeNielson - . If I respond to you at this moment in time, I'm going to get extremely ugly about it.

@fearless_banana - Would you kindly put this woman in her place?

[ShaeNielson]

So you are incapable of presenting or explaining your viewpoints in a calm manner or having a civilized discussion? Good to know.

[Smmyskittles]

@ShaeNielson - When someone who doesn't know me decides to make a judgment? One of my BIGGEST pet peeves. So, yes, at the moment, I was seeing red.

Did I anywhere say their ex was right? Or what their EX did was ok? No, that was YOUR assumption.

- What I was saying is that if they EVER want to TRY to get back with their ex (not my place to judge if they do) they FUCKED up their chances.

** What their ex did was fucked up and*I* would never take them back. But to know that someone who cared so much, went out of their way to hurt you.

----- NO. Not JUST hurt you, but to go to someone who made your life HELL (the bully) and sleep with them? * That is the most immature, childish bullshit I've YET hear in my lifetime.

[ShaeNielson]

Yes CAPITALIZE every SECOND word THAT'S not ANNOYING..

You imply in your last point that the boyfriend in any way has a right to be the one to choose if they should get back together, and since she purposely cheated to hurt him then she probably isn't interested in getting that fucker back. It's the ex rather than her that should have "chances" which I hope not since he's a dick.
If he didn't want to get hurt then he maybe shouldn't have fucked his ex, not just some hot chick at a party, but his ex.

[redeyemindtricks]

@Smmyskittles @ShaeNielson @fearless_banana Lol kiddies... the emotions up in this comment thread, I swears ::wipes brow::

I mean, you know this is trolling, right?
For reasons I can't really fathom, "his bully" is a common theme in that weird-ass cuckold porn (which I also can't really fathom... just in general).

Dude is probably just a dude -- not a girl using a cousin's account... how hard is it really to sign up for this site? smh -- trying to get his rocks off by talking about this, uh, "situation". Y'all fell for it hook line and sinker.

Besides, how the fuck would someone even know who her boyfriend's "childhood bully" WAS? Let alone recognize him as an adult? And actually have the logistical chance to run into him in a fucking bar?
ahahahahh do these people live in a town with a total population of 300?

Let's get real here...

[ShaeNielson]

@redeyemindtricks Even if it is a made up scenario then my opinion is still the same.
Also maybe he told her about his childhood or they were friends back then, it's not that crazy.

[Smmyskittles]

@redeyemindtricks - A damn troll on this site finally got me... Well, fuck. 😂😂

[redeyemindtricks]

@ShaeNielson Look, the urge for revenge? Ok, I understand *that*.

On the other hand... If I were this theoretical girl... um, fucking some random dude? Uh, no thank you...

I mean, really, I've never much understood this whole idea of "revenge sex". I may have been a slutty slutty slut back in the day, but, either I'd actually *want* to fuck some guy... or I wouldn't. Pretty black and white.

If I let some random lowlife dude have MY body, and the pleasure of being MY lover? I'd end up feeling even shittier than the guy I was trying to hurt in the first place. #nope

[Fearless_banana]

TLDR. Will read when I get home

[ShaeNielson]

@redeyemindtricks Maybe she WANTED to fuck the dude, but there were other motivators than just sex. No matter what, everyone has the right to have consensual sex with whomever they'd like, she does not have some moral code she has to follow as not to hurt her cheating (probably ex) boyfriend.

[redeyemindtricks]

@ShaeNielson Maybe she wanted him, yeah... but that's not the way the question is written. (Also, the question isn't written very emotionally at all -- which is another reason to suggest that it's trolling. Someone who writes like this -- note that there are ZERO "emotion words" in the question and answer choices -- is... not the kind of woman who would react like that in real life, and, probably not a woman at all.)

In any case... I really do not intuitively understand this whole idea of having sex as a weapon, or having sex as a means of achieving emotional goals X or Y or Z. I mean... I wanna fuck because I wanna fuck, and that's really the end of the story. That may make me stupid and simple, but, it is what it is. (:

[redeyemindtricks]

Also -- Assuming this situation is real... Even if the guy was hot af, I'd actually be MUCH LESS likely to mess around with him if he had any relationship to the cheating boyfriend.
Just so that there would be NO CHANCE that **I** would look like the kind of bitch that would be jerked around into sleeping with other guys because of what some boy did. You feel me?

I mean... here's an analogy: When I meet men and let them down, I NEVER use "I'm married" as the let-down. Because I don't want to make the guy think he might have even had a *chance* with me, and that I'm just saying no because I have a husband. (: I don't know if that makes sense, but... It's the same thing here.

This is probably just a personal thing with me, but, I am VERY overly aware of when things *look* like I'm someone else's pawn or toy, and I do not EVER allow that to happen. Nope. Big fat nope.

[Asker]

@redeyemindtricks I did break up. And he told me before about his bully, and I slept with him to get back at him

[Squall17]

@ShaeNielson You#re obviously not of a sane mindset. You just seem like some hateful bitter girl that thinks like a low-life with no virtue or integrity. Sure her boyfriend was a cheating bastard but lust vs revenge is a whole different thing. That's like if it were the girlfriend who cheated so the boyfriend slept with her childhood abuser, rapist, whomever, then I don't see how that would be acceptable. You just stay in the gutter with your poor, basic form of thinking.

[Anonymous]

unfortunately too wrongs don't make a right :( he should not have cheated on you, that was the wrong thing to do. And so I understand why you would feel the need to get back at him, and I think many people would do the same thing. But I can't call that "right." I think it's understandable, but that doesn't make it "right."

[SirenDep]

That's not mature behavior. If you see your boyfriend cheat on you, or if you feel he's not worth your trust, you just break up and that's all. You don't try to get revenge, because it's not worth it. Not to you, to degrade yourself like that, not to him whom you loved some time ago.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Ask yourself this question after trying to get back at him.. "By me doing that does it actually shows that i am still hurt or am i actually still hurt in the inside?"

[dogbert444]

You just compounded the problem. You might as well call it a day with your boyfriend, as it'll never be the same again. Every time some little thing goes wrong, you'll mud-sling all this at each other.

I suggest you both split and find fresh partners.

[dogbert444]

Thanks for MHG!

[Taco615]

He cheated on you, it hurt so you wanted revenge. You slept with that guy only for revenge that's it... so do you feel better? If not then stop... you're a far way better person than that

[Vesuvius87]

Perhaps both of you deserve each other now. You just scooped down to his level. Welcome to The Cheaters Club.

[DandelionGirl]

Thats a stupid thing to do, oh my boyfriend cheated on me so Im gonna fuck his bully... who in their right mind does that? I smell immaturity.

[madhatters4]

no you shouldn't and no you weren't right to sleep with someone else and cheat as revenge

[helloitsmethere]

Oh shit... :/
What people need to realize that stooping down to someone's level in a conflict DOES NOT SOLVE ANYTHING. Congrats, you made the situation worse.

[Anonymous]

Yes , let him know how it feels to get hurt and cheated on (: he deserves it

[Asker]

@Smmyskittles here's your answer

[Smmyskittles]

This is extremely vile and immature, in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

By boasting you are showing him he is pretty important to you. You care about him enough to call his attention.
If you don't mind he'd be aware of it, then do so.

[LaFemmeFatale]

That's childish.
Being cheated by your boyfriend doesn't justify your cheating.

[LaFemmeFatale]

If you hate cheaters then you should not become one.

[Zendrya]

that's low. 2 wrongs don't make a right

[WhaChaChaKing]

He deserved it but it wasn't right. Just leave him.

[Anonymous]

I don't judge. I just wondered, are you gay? Or are you a girl?

[Asker]

I'm a girl

[Opinion Owner]

But you have a dude profile :D How?

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway if you are a girl. My point is you were right :) He cheated you and you cheated back. His childhood bully fucked your ass hours. Thats a beautiful erotic cheat. Like a movie. You did very well. :*

[LaVilaine]

No, that's what crazy people do. Congratulations.

[isjusti]

two wrongs dont make a right

[ShaeNielson]

I don't see nothing wrong with that

[ShaeNielson]

I just went double negative.. damn

Anyways what I mean is, I think you were justified in what you did.

[joseyyywhales]

You mean girlfriend right?

[orphan]

childhood bully just happens to be gay?

[ummbaby]

give him a taste of his own medicine

[Anonymous]

You should have just taken all his money

[jamesdegod]

U did the right thing i do this all the time

[Anonymous]

Yes, you were right :)

[Anonymous]

Haha yes