Please leave him. I wouldn't confront him about it randomly, but rather make a plan to leave him. DO you have some hours of the day when he is not around? At work, socializing with friends, etc? You should talk to some friends who could help you make a plan to leave and reach out to legal/police services to help you. Maybe contact the police during your lunch break at work or any local organization that helps domestic violence victims and ask for help on how to get out safely. There are networks out there that can help you. You have other options. Even relocating may be a good idea, but talk to professionals who handle this and the police first. And definitely seek the restraining order.
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you don't deserve that kind of relationship. no one does and I'm not telling you what you should do but if you can MOVE TO MEXICO! CHANGE YOUR NAME TO POBLO AND RENT A MULE! that's a joke. But if you can find a good SAFE way to get out of that relationship. be careful!
You won't leave him because he will kill you but ull cheat on him
I suggest you leave him otherwise next q we see from u will be one ur writing from hospital with few broken bones and full of scars.. a guy who hits you will always hit u
Actually, you can break up with him. Cheating isn't going to solve anything. Just leave him. Even if you cheat on him you won't feel better until you find your strength and walk away.
Get the fuck out of there and go experience a real relationship. Seriously, at the point your at you need to drop him. You stay with a person like that and you will start accepting that behavior as normal and just hurt yourself psychologically. I don't know why you are in such a relationship but it certainly has nothing to do with love.
Well, tell him, and eventually leave him. If he does, After all, love you, he will be destroyed. I think you just want to make him feel Bad. About the fact that he is violent, I can only tell you gently to gtfo from him. Guys doing this are worst than everything on Earth. Fuck him. Cordially
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Dude, if he's abusive, leave. I don't get why people try to justify cheating, if you're able to cheat. You're able to leave. Cheating is NEVER acceptable. It's never okay.
It would be better to leave. If he finds out you cheat he will really kill you then. It's hard to do but the best thing to be focused on rn is your escape.
You're the worst type of person, just leave him or shut up if you know cheating is wrong then do yourself one better end the relationship and then get someone else if your not happy leave if you feel threatened then call the police and get him done for assault by showing them the marks problem solved
If he's abusive and you think of cheating on him then THAT'S A MEGGA NO, DON'T DO IT
this is the bad side of your mind to cheat on him. deal with situation by ur good side of mind and leave him.
You need to leave the relationship now! your life is in danger.. abusers always escalate. They also control you making you believe you depend on them.. don't believe it.
leave him now and get a restraining order!You're not brave. You should just have broken up with him.
Just break up. Nothing justify cheating.
Break up with him. If you cheat on him, in my opinion, you are worse than him.
You have to leave him for your own well being.
It's understandable. Sometimes you can't leave.
Get out now while you're still alive. Seriously.
Just break up with him.
None of this is true. Not a single typed word.
Get help to get out would be my advice.
cheat on him and break up with him
you deserve it
just break up.
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