My ex says he doesn't want a relationship with me but two weeks ago he said he still loved me. A week ago he said he didn't and he wasn't interested. I have been limiting contact with him. I spoke to him online on Thursday and then he rang at 3.07 sunday morning saying what's wrong with you, you haven't phoned for three days but didn't mention anything about loving me or being together. He doesn't contact me in sober and when I speak to him always seems off with me. I begged him to get back with me for just over a month. Is he playing games or does he miss me. He's told me that he contacts his ex's in the past.
Also, I don't know whether the no contact thing is annoying him or whether he is testing me but he would always speak to me online when I spoke to him and a couple of times he has just gone offline straight away.
I know I shouldn't do but I ask him if he is ignoring me and today he said no. He said that I was too needy in our relationship and he didn't want to deal with my anxiety problems. He has put up with a lot of text message terrorism.
A couple of times last week I contacted him like 10 times on two occasions. Why does he put up with it if he doesn't love me?