I wouldn't piss on my ex-wife if she was on fire she is a manipulative cunt. and has refused me access to my son for the last four years. So like I said she is a waste of piss and a work shy lazy bastard!
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Its hard to be her friend, she moved on easily. I remained single for the last 6 years , dating who ever i could trying to find someone who i wanted that wanted me back. But nothing has happened. Meanwhile she's had multiple partners. And i just smile and tell her im happy she is happy. But im really dead inside and i cry at night wishing that god could help me have happiness once again
@Poppykate thank you, i really hope it will be some day soon. I suppose i do it because she is the only girl i have ever loved. I wish life was as good to me as i is for her. she's also extremely good looking so it makes sense everyone would want her.
Yeah... it's kinda weird. I was best friends with my ex before we dated, best friends with him while we dated (like seriously, it was a super platonic thing...), then we broke up because of it and yes. Still best friends xD
my ex and I try to stay friends because of the fact that we were friends before we were ever lovers or married so yes we are friends I wouldn't say best friends in the whole world but she is one of the better friends that I have in this world
Well... he apologized and all and did explicitly state he'd like to be friends. I didn't really take him up on that offer but we're civil to each other and all so not really 'friends' but not out to fuck each other over, either. ✌️
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I have never because my ex and I just avoided talking all together. Before that I tried to talk to him to make sure there were no misunderstandings but end up failing. His friend gave me too much negativity so I just gave up. His friend and I tho are on ok terms tho there's still a lot of name calling and things between me and him. I don't talk to my ex's friends like that tho.
No, I'm not, with any of them. Personally, I think when ex's are friends, its usually because one person either wants the other back orrr still wants to be important to him/her and still wants the other party to not move on and stay attached.
One ex I'm his friend. The other I absolutely tried to be but I fell in love so I haven't messaged him. If I have an ex I usually get them out of my life because the past is the past, no point dwelling on it.
Sort of kind of. We don't hate each other or have bad feelings towards one another. But we also don't go out of our way to communicate or make sure the other is okay. I'd like to be closer, but my ex is very immature and acts dumb most of the time.
I helped many of my friends become friends with their ex's. Tbh, it was crucial that I did try to help them reconcile something, they were both my friends after all and I couldn't bare our group become divided every time a relationship broke down.
I'm friends with my most recent ex. We've been friends for almost 8 years then we dated which obviously didn't work out but we are still pretty good friends.
I wouldn't say friends, I keep in contact with one ex for a certain reason. (not romantic) we just share something and the other I don't speak to at all.
In my experience, being "just friends" with an ex doesn't work. If I can even stand to be around them after the break up it's because I'm hoping that there's a chance of getting back together.
There's only one that I properly hate. One that I'm still really good friend's with and had a house with for a while a few years after we broke up. The rest I'm on speaking terms with but i wouldn't call any of them friends.
One cheated on me... When I went on vacation with my best friend so dropped them and the other guy was cry baby and we were still friends for a while before I moved
Mine is a special case. She turned out to be gay and is like a sister now. The only way for ex's to be friends is if the breakup is mutual and neither have interest in the other romantically.
Used to be, until her new boyfriend destroyed our friendship. After she dumped him she contacted me back, but things never where the same again. It was great while we lasted.
me and my ex are actually kind of good friends. long term she gets annoying af and she can't own up to mistakes which causes a lot if other problematic byproducts. but af friend I can not give a fuck and just have fun.
I'm FB friends with some of them lol but haven't talked in years. I used to remain friends with them in school, though, but the friendship wasn't like it used to, obviously.
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I wouldn't piss on my ex-wife if she was on fire she is a manipulative cunt. and has refused me access to my son for the last four years. So like I said she is a waste of piss and a work shy lazy bastard!
Its hard to be her friend, she moved on easily. I remained single for the last 6 years , dating who ever i could trying to find someone who i wanted that wanted me back. But nothing has happened. Meanwhile she's had multiple partners. And i just smile and tell her im happy she is happy. But im really dead inside and i cry at night wishing that god could help me have happiness once again
OMG! Hugs! 🤗🤗🤗 You will be ok! No one is worth is much unhappiness!
@Poppykate thank you, i really hope it will be some day soon. I suppose i do it because she is the only girl i have ever loved. I wish life was as good to me as i is for her. she's also extremely good looking so it makes sense everyone would want her.
Yeah... it's kinda weird. I was best friends with my ex before we dated, best friends with him while we dated (like seriously, it was a super platonic thing...), then we broke up because of it and yes. Still best friends xD
my ex and I try to stay friends because of the fact that we were friends before we were ever lovers or married so yes we are friends I wouldn't say best friends in the whole world but she is one of the better friends that I have in this world
Well... he apologized and all and did explicitly state he'd like to be friends. I didn't really take him up on that offer but we're civil to each other and all so not really 'friends' but not out to fuck each other over, either. ✌️
I have never because my ex and I just avoided talking all together. Before that I tried to talk to him to make sure there were no misunderstandings but end up failing. His friend gave me too much negativity so I just gave up. His friend and I tho are on ok terms tho there's still a lot of name calling and things between me and him. I don't talk to my ex's friends like that tho.
No, I'm not, with any of them.
Personally, I think when ex's are friends, its usually because one person either wants the other back orrr still wants to be important to him/her and still wants the other party to not move on and stay attached.
One ex I'm his friend. The other I absolutely tried to be but I fell in love so I haven't messaged him. If I have an ex I usually get them out of my life because the past is the past, no point dwelling on it.
You could be friends with
anybody! You are a friendly outgoing person!
Can you be a friend with your boyfriend's ex lover? If you don't feel the awkwardness then you guys probably never liked each other much.
When you break up, it's over. You are at best: rivals and worst: acquaintances. You can never be friends.
Sort of kind of. We don't hate each other or have bad feelings towards one another. But we also don't go out of our way to communicate or make sure the other is okay. I'd like to be closer, but my ex is very immature and acts dumb most of the time.
I helped many of my friends become friends with their ex's.
Tbh, it was crucial that I did try to help them reconcile something, they were both my friends after all and I couldn't bare our group become divided every time a relationship broke down.
I'm friends with my most recent ex. We've been friends for almost 8 years then we dated which obviously didn't work out but we are still pretty good friends.
I wouldn't say friends, I keep in contact with one ex for a certain reason. (not romantic) we just share something and the other I don't speak to at all.
In my experience, being "just friends" with an ex doesn't work. If I can even stand to be around them after the break up it's because I'm hoping that there's a chance of getting back together.
There's only one that I properly hate. One that I'm still really good friend's with and had a house with for a while a few years after we broke up. The rest I'm on speaking terms with but i wouldn't call any of them friends.
One cheated on me... When I went on vacation with my best friend so dropped them and the other guy was cry baby and we were still friends for a while before I moved
How often did this guy cry in front of you? I only did it once in front of one of my exes (for a good reason).
@somewheresomeway
sorry for that... i accidently kicked him instead of the soccor ball
Lol, seriously?
@somewheresomeway yes... but im happy now and have a boyfriend and just had a baby so im doing better from the exs
That's funny. I thought he cried over some relationship issue. It's okay for men to do that in very limited scenarios (I hope)
@somewheresomeway nope but i dumped him and i think im doing better now with my life
Mine is a special case. She turned out to be gay and is like a sister now. The only way for ex's to be friends is if the breakup is mutual and neither have interest in the other romantically.
Used to be, until her new boyfriend destroyed our friendship. After she dumped him she contacted me back, but things never where the same again. It was great while we lasted.
me and my ex are actually kind of good friends. long term she gets annoying af and she can't own up to mistakes which causes a lot if other problematic byproducts. but af friend I can not give a fuck and just have fun.
I'm FB friends with some of them lol but haven't talked in years.
I used to remain friends with them in school, though, but the friendship wasn't like it used to, obviously.