Waited for marriage
Weren't hyper sexualized
Had stable fiscal security (Not gambling, spending on unnecessary items or luxury like fast cars, or expensive clothes, jewelry, etc. and instead of spending the money they would be saving the money. A lot of divorce are from money problems. Don't spend money and you will be fine.
Both had control of their impulses, desires, and emotions. Were constructive as a team besides trying to do things on their own.
Took their relationship seriously and not as a lifetime movie, didn't make rash choices like getting married in vegas. Were mature enough to get married in the first place.
Didn't have addictions like porn, alcohol, drugs, gambling, etc.
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Communicate. Trust isn't an issue, you already married them. Love isn't an issue you already married them. The one thing I've seen that kills relationships of any kind, marriage or otherwise, is lack of communication. Why? Because it invites imagination to step in; and imagination will whisper all kinds of negative things to you. It's a wedge that gets bigger quickly and must be dealt with fast to avoid serious problems.
Wouldn't get married "on a whim". I know a few couples that have gotten married after knowing each other for only two years or so. I think people get married too soon and don't think it to be as binding as I think it is. Divorce isn't thought to be as shameful as it was before, so I feel like people rush to get married and the first bump they hit, they want a divorce. If course, I shouldn't generalize, a lot of people also still think that marriage is for life. But I do think a lot of people take it lightly and just hop into it. I wouldn't imagine getting married for at least three more years, we have been together for almost two years now. I really don't think you get to know a person completely in just a few years.
waited and married at an older age say 30. it truly helps because you have had chance to experience things and learn and grow from mistakes and something that you may have thought to be ok when less mature you find out that you grow and the person you were or possibly with wouldn't be together
Weren't lazy little shits who looked at a breakup as the quick and easy fix to their relationship troubles rather than actually putting in a bit of time and effort to actually try and resolve them.
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Didn't get married so soon. Though honestly, I don't think people 50 years ago did it better than us, because back then there was a lot more spousal abuse and arranged marriages. Sure, couples stayed together for a long time, but I'm not sure if they were all happy. I think the difference is today if people aren't happy they leave, but the married couples that sick together get along really well and do it out of choice, not societal pressure.
There would be fewer divorces in this country if only people open their eyes big before marriage and continue to wear their rose-tinted glasses after marriage.
And also if people with personalities not suitable for marriage don't get married.... would communicate more. I think this is the biggest problem, lack of honesty/communication. Take this site for example, all the questions people are asking about their partners when they should be asking and talking to THEM.
if people understand what love really is and what marriage really means...
One, if they waited years to get married, if they are patient with eachother, if they have handled finances better, and if they are able to be agreeable with the other's family.
Didn't get married in the first place
media.tenor.co/.../tenor.gifpoint blank and blunt, were loyal and honest on both sides
Weren't so promiscuous, immoral, selfish, lustful, and would stop using alcohol as an excuse to cheat.
there is a number of things I could say to this
but if people knew the truth less divorce would happen but since people reject the truth there stupidwere loyal, honest, and more cared about fixing things in their relationship. rather than ending their current one
If people waited for marriage to have sex.
... didn't get married in the first place.
There would be fewer divorces in this country if people truly loved the person they were marrying, and loved them enough to know it all and not care. Crazy, never-ending love, not puppy love.
do not get married. duh
don't get married.
Marriage is the main cause of divorce 😎"discovered that they were thoroughly compatible prior to marriage"
I'm sure this has already been said, but didn't get married?
were loyal, honest, patient and marry the one that they love
Prepare for marriage rather than preparing for wedding
Would not try to change each other an meet who they can except
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