Most Helpful Guy
Waited for marriage
Weren't hyper sexualized
Had stable fiscal security (Not gambling, spending on unnecessary items or luxury like fast cars, or expensive clothes, jewelry, etc. and instead of spending the money they would be saving the money. A lot of divorce are from money problems. Don't spend money and you will be fine.
Both had control of their impulses, desires, and emotions. Were constructive as a team besides trying to do things on their own.
Took their relationship seriously and not as a lifetime movie, didn't make rash choices like getting married in vegas. Were mature enough to get married in the first place.
Didn't have addictions like porn, alcohol, drugs, gambling, etc.
Most Helpful Girl
Wouldn't get married "on a whim". I know a few couples that have gotten married after knowing each other for only two years or so. I think people get married too soon and don't think it to be as binding as I think it is. Divorce isn't thought to be as shameful as it was before, so I feel like people rush to get married and the first bump they hit, they want a divorce. If course, I shouldn't generalize, a lot of people also still think that marriage is for life. But I do think a lot of people take it lightly and just hop into it. I wouldn't imagine getting married for at least three more years, we have been together for almost two years now. I really don't think you get to know a person completely in just a few years.