Most Helpful Guy
young people want everything to be easy. Relationships are not easy and being married is a lot harder then just dating someone or even just living with someone. As soon as they hit trouble, and you will hit trouble, they get divorced instead of fighting. For many it was because that is what they learned in their family. I was taught that if you can fall in love, you can work it out. My family had exactly 2 people my mom and dad's age that were divorced. My uncle after 30 years of marriage. My ex wife, everyone in her small family except 1 uncle was divorced. her mom was divorced 2x. We never had a chance. She barely gave anything to trying to fix it. I would have never asked for a divorce.
Unless one of the two people have said " I refuse to do anything else", then there is always a way to fix it. unfortunately, she just refused to try. And she was bringing up shit from out wedding 20 years before. If you hold on to ridiculous shit that long, there is no hope. Esp when I had nothing to do with the wedding, that was her, her mom and my mom. I just did what they told me to do... all I wanted was her.4
Most Helpful Girl
Because love nowadays is superficial. It's ego based, everyone wants to date someone that fulfills their ego. A guy wants to date a hot girl to show her off, or a rich guy loves it when a girl validates him for his status and money. We forgot about genuine soul connections, so when we do come across that it scares us off, and we run to supericiality because it doesn't hurt as much, and doesn't require work or effort.6