Why do so many modern relationships fail today?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well there is one big reason (and many other reasons) it’s sex…. Many relationships are sexually based that’s about it. That’s how they start and many times it’s how the end.

It’s not a deep emotional, romantic, spiritual, etc connection. It’s not just learning everything about somebody and genuinely loving someone for who they are while also pushing one another to be better. It’s just that people wanna fuck around until sex means nothing anymore eventually they need more and more weird kinks/fetishes to get off to. I know it’s gross but it’s true.

When a relationship is just based on sex and frankly both people have slept with so many people cheating is like nothing to them. It’s just another encounter they got bored and wanted to try something else. They got “horny” obviously they pretend to feel bad when caught.

This is really what causes a lot of it plus many people play Russian roulette with sex by just marrying the first person they either knock up or get knocked up by (depending on gender/sex) that’s really what happens and then many years later it’s a nasty divorce.

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

Many people fail to do their vetting process and think loving a partner means fantasizing about them 24/7 and that the ''falling in love (infatuation)'' stage will last for decades. They think love is enough without even knowing if they're even have similar goals and values, if they're even capable. They want all the free benefits of a relationship (romance and sex) but not the real responsibilities and work it takes to maintain a healthy relationship as well as accept your partner isn't Mr/Mrs perfect.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I believe it's because people try to commercialize love and it's seen as a job and a market commodity and not as a tight knit family with loyal members who love each other. One example is that an enemy of mine has said at least 8,000 times that I don't deserve a good man because I am less educated than her. She now has a brain injury and I don't believe she is qualified for any job at all, whether it's a factory assembly line, or a janitor. She might be able to work as a dish washer, but not sure.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, love is always in the air, yet sometimes it slips through our fingers like sand, right? 🥰 Well, in this fast-paced world we're living in, love sometimes hits the speed bumps of modern life. We've got ghosting, where one minute you're everything and the next, poof, they've disappeared. Then there's lovebombing, where it's all roses and chocolates until it suddenly isn't. Plus, don't forget the classic misunderstanding of commitment because, let's face it, swiping right is sometimes easier than working things out.

Communication, or the lack thereof, plays a huge part too. We're more connected than ever but somehow fail to truly understand each other. We fall for the perfect online image, not the perfectly imperfect person in front of us. 😅 And, ah, expectations! We dream of a Hollywood romance, forgetting that real love is about sharing a pizza on a Friday night, not just grand gestures.

All in all, it's a mix of digital age dilemmas, old-fashioned fears, and forgetting that love, my friends, needs patience, understanding, and a sprinkle of humor to truly flourish. Keep it real, keep it funny, and keep the love alive! 💘

Finchie40 · Answer

Mainly because people have become more selfish and social media played a big part of contributing to it. Most people aren’t content with their lives anymore , they constantly think grass is greener on the other side instead of watering the grass they are already standing on. Most people want, but they don’t know how to give in return , it’s only about what is best for themselves , if they don’t get their way , they run to the highway or to someone else thinking that someone else is going to save them instead of fixing what is broken in their current relationship. Casual Sex is like the new norm these days , fuck relationships , let’s just fuck and go do our own things , it seems relationships are becoming a thing from the past , most relationships fail because of selfish mindsets

HawkPerception · Answer

Social media is a huge factor. Back in the day without social media, it was much harder to communicate with people. You only had a few people which you invested time in. You would take the time to call or visit them in person. I remember when I was 16 or 17 years old and I had a phone plan that was 20 text messages a month and pay per minute of calling. Social media was only just starting to get big. Because of that, our attention wasn't divided anywhere near as much. Nowadays your attention is divided by the many people you're in communication with online, even the likes and little interactions you have. You'll realize that once you get off of social media, you'll feel more connected in your relationships because you rely on your partner more, which is a good thing.

Miristheiss · Answer

Birth control pill and premarital and casual sex.

People are raised to be self absorbed and entitled. Selfish beyond all compare.

People are raised, not to be husbands and wives but to be me, me, me, me.

People naturally fall hard for their early love, their first love. The bond is often very strong. The modern world teaches, oh you are too young, you don't know yourself or what you like so you need to sleep with 5, 10, 20 people. Then you learn what you like. Then it will work when you are 30 and you are set in your ways and you cannot grow together as well because you are too set. "YOU CAN'T TEACH AN OLD DOG NEW TRICKS."

Sleeping around so much, so much porn, people can't bond as well and easily can just get bored and leave.

GlitteringWorld · Answer

Modern relationships often struggle due to the rise of hookup culture and the abundance of options available through dating apps and social media. With so many choices at our fingertips, people tend to rush into relationships without taking the time to truly understand their compatibility with their partner. The ease of starting something new can sometimes lead to shallow connections that lack the foundation needed for long-term success.

Additionally, the pressure to keep up with others’ seemingly perfect relationships online can cause people to overlook the importance of real communication and emotional intimacy. As a result, relationships may become more focused on instant gratification rather than genuine connection, leading to misunderstandings, unmet expectations, and eventual breakdowns. Without the patience and commitment to work through challenges, many modern relationships fail to stand the test of time.

HighValue · Answer

There are plenty of reasons that relationships fail. Lack of communication skills, one partner stops putting as much effort as the other, but still expects the same level of effort from their partner, people that aren't loyal, people that follow bad advice from immoral people that want them to suffer too, etc., and most of those reasons have been around for a few generations now, but the most recent thing to contribute to relationships failing is social media. People that want to post revealing pictures online for attention (women), or people that give sexual attention to others online that post videos/pictures (men) are both harming their relationships.

dragoblack · Answer

Because people don't go into dating looking for a best friend with romantic benefits. they go into dating looking to use eachother until the spark runs out or there's nothing left to give and then abuse and cheating are involved. There's also the major lack of communication, manipulation, mind games, major issue with being entitled, women refusing to acknowledge their toxic & abusive habits, men not working on their insecurities, too much acceptance of abuse just being part of relationships, lack of men being treated as people, lack of accepting their partners have hobbies...

simply put... too much abuse, toxic behavior, not enough emotional intelligence, wisdom, & maturity, too much reliance on convenience, and too much drama causing for entertainment.

RubyFrench · Answer

Social Media. Apps for cheating (I mean come on, Ashley Madison you can't go much lower than) whats the world come too. Women are trying to act like men, men are dressing as women, there's too many options, nothing sacred anymore, domestic violence and control has plummeted. The dating worlds been destroyed. I thank god im married and met somebody early in life.. because my mates go through hell

fioricet-online · Answer

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BadApple69 · Answer

Too many options today…. The internet has made it easy to meet people from around the world. Before Internet you had to go out and meet people. Let’s say you meet someone at a concert. You are starting off having a similar interest in music.
Go back before cars and you were lucky when you found someone in your village to marry, and you never knew there was better out there.

Yep, today there are just too many choices and no one is happy with what they have.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

People have just gotten used to instant gratification and they hate putting in effort. They want (and think they deserve) to be able to get as much as they can, in return for as little investment as possible.

Also, a lot of people are under the hilarious impression that they have tons of options, so they cut relationships off really quickly.

rienna888 · Answer

I feel because people are always giving the advice “what’s meant to be will come and find you” so therefore everybody become lazy and give up, because they think the person of their dreams will eventually pursue them. And I feel some women are playing hard to get too much and the man thinks they aren’t interested and also give up.

martian13 · Answer

A severe lack of tenacity and devotion people aren't supposed to be married and then change their minds because they are curious about what it would be like elsewhere they need to put other laws in place in order to be married it is a legal bounding contract and often there isn't much effort in trying to work it out before separating I understand some people are just too different to co exist but if you have co existed then decide you want out that's stubborn and weak socializing skills as we

Anonymous · Answer

liberalism has brainwashed the individual to put their self-interests above those of their significant other. nowadays everyone in the dating market is disposable and even those who don't wanna follow this trend will have no choice but to follow suit

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with @LazerBean. Most people are hoes today, and they don't take relationships seriously. Look at marriages... half end in divorce, women file the vast majority of them, and studies show lack of commitment is the #1 reason for divorce. I'm not saying it's all women's fault, because it's not. But there is a serious lack of commitment today.

Simslover92 · Answer

Lack of communication. People don't want to communicate anymore. They just want to have sex and think that will keep the relationship going but that's only temporary.

jahaims · Answer

Poor cultural and societal values. Most people are stupid as well. With proper cultural and societal values it doesn't matter as much that most people are stupid because they will just follow the leader.

mobiusforniner · Answer

The same reason relationships fail since the dawn of human existence- an inability to communicate and compromise.

LazerBean · Answer

Basically because most men and women are hoes, and hoes make poor spouses.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You only hear about the ones that fail, never the millions that succeed.

blueonblack22 · Answer

You answered it yourself. It’s because they are “modern”.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Oh. Maybe because they were not allowed to fail before? 😏😏😏

paledreams · Answer

Poor choice and poor quality out there - societal factors - other pressures - and unlucky design (luck)

LiamJHayden · Answer

Too many options. In the old days, people only met those whom they saw in person or were introduced to by friends. Now we can find people 50 miles or more away who want to go on dates.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Lack of compromising for one another n lack of trust

Dargil · Answer

Parenting has been replaced by porn and mass media.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Because everyone became a baby. It’s because childish Asian coming over by internet and black mama’s boy singing and dancing on TV.

Anonymous · Answer

You really don't want to hear the answer to that.

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s the battle of the sexes, the battle of whose in charge

morganherrel · Answer

I think people are generally less attractive and less competent mentally/emotionally on both sides.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Many people don't take time to shore up their partnership.

msc545 · Answer

Relationships between men and women tend to be purely transactional.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Same as always. Most people are difficult to put with.

MemeSupreme · Answer

they didn't study hard enough

SugarSugarplum · Answer

unreasonable expectations. Porn.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because everyone is self-centered.

ehatsham_hussain · Answer

That's why marriage is best option for couples

noohair · Answer

Lacking values that match.

OddBeMe · Answer

Women have more options.

bubblegunnn · Answer

No love

Anonymous · Answer

Women don't respect men.

Maybeyoutoo · Answer

Who told you this?

Anonymous · Answer

Money and sex

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