I honestly wish my ex thought like this. He got mad when I tried to talk about the problems in our relationship and hung up on me or stop replying to my texts. I in no way was trying to argue it was just a communication thing and he totally shut me out which really fucked with my emotions..
@Lilbbg Yeah, some guys just hate talking. My parents for example never communicated and if they did they would just argue and as a child that bothered me, my parents still act that way even now when I am in my early 30s. But that life experience also taught me if I get married one day, communicate with your wife properly, don't repeat the past by acting the same thing my parents did. When people say "women/girls are picky" because they want certain traits from a guy, I can't get mad about that because I want to be with a girl who I find attractive, who has a sense of humour and enjoys doing things like going to a sporting event, watching the fireworks on a long weekend or doing something spontaneous like going downtown on a Saturday night around 10 pm to grab some food.
Good qualities in a girl :) I hope you find what you're looking for :)
@Lilbbg Thanks, same to you, finding someone is not easy. I thought dating apps would work but I am not a fan of dating apps.
Dating apps aren't genuine enough. Try to find someone organically. It'll happen if it's meant to.
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Holy shit this same thing literally just happened to me not even two months ago, and we're the same age (my age is wrong on here).. Guys at this age are shitty, huh? My guy was 20 now 21 but acted like a child
@Burnette01 yeah, my ex acted like a child too. And he was also in his early twenties, age of consent over here is 16 so it was legal, but looking at it now I can understand, what a fucking creepy self-centred loser to do that to a 16 year old girl who had never had a boyfriend! Knowing he was completely head fucking me and breaking my heart, lying that he loved me just so he could get what he wanted whilst telling his friends that he had no interest.Ugh!! It still makes me feel a twinge of anger. But it makes me laugh because the girl I heard he's with now honestly has a face like a dropped pie, so 🤷♀️But yeah, guys at this age really can be shitty, but not all of them. I now have a great boyfriend who've I've been with for a year and he's 23, there's not a scrap of evil user qualities in him, he's on another level to my ex 😊So don't worry, there's plenty more out there. But be cautious next time, because now we know that some "men" can be real manipulative assholes
Yes this is definitely one of those things that I wish didn't happen to me but if it didn't happen now then it could've happened later, and now we both know what to watch out for in guys. These are just learning lessons in life to make us stronger
whoa, props to you for getting through that
Im contrary im very introverted and i love introvert girls. Specially becaus ei like let them embarassed (sometimes of course) and with red cheeks.But in case contrary can be boring the guy be.
*Im ver extroverted i mean.
@didigo182 Yeh works for some people being opposites but not for others like me
What was the middle name?
Up for an*
Hopefully you don't mean pedophile!
I've been with my current boyfriend 3 years and 4 months.
Yes I do. But I was using the English spelling, being English and all.
Apologies I missed a d. But we spell it pae at the start.
So he was into small children?
More like early teens... it was enough to gross me out and run far. He wants to be a pop star. #NextIanWatkins
We were talking and hanging out heavy
What a bitch.. you're better off without her.
"2 Years. She said her feelings changed, she needs a break, "its not you, its me"It seems like it's standard on all relationships. LOL
@didigo182 It's alright, her relationship with that dude didn't last, after 1 year she emailed to ask "how I was doing", I wasn't receptive, so she did what she knows best, found herself another boyfriend within a week. That relationship also lasted a year and now she's already on a new one again, so basically she has had 3 relationships after me, basically 1 new boyfriend per year. Well my ship has sailed now, good luck to the chumps she's with.
Here is the same. The best thing to do is "aham, hum... okay... goodbye".
My last one after 1 year was "idk what who i am... i need to find myself" i said "okay so go find yourself without me" (of course she wanted that). And i and a week later I found myself laughing at such cynicism."The problem it's me not you" it's a Classic too... to common, but we need to move on and don't look back.
@didigo182 Thats exactly what I did, I said "I am doing fine thank you, what do you wish to achieve by getting in contact with me now?" Her miserable reply to that was "didn't watch to achieve anything, just wanted to see how you are thats all" ... I guess she realised she wasn't gonna go far with me or just wanted to test the waters ;D
What's that mean
@mildom it means it ended for a lot of reasons.
That is so cute xx😂😂
Why did yours not work out?
Lasted 3 months.
So why date him
@mildom He was a nice guy and he was into me. I wanted to see where it goes.
Why didn't they like you?
Her friends and family were really religious and we slept together a lot and thought we were having a baby, so she told them. Big mistake! They grilled her non stop about my being a bad influence. So that was that.
Aggh! How terrible. Finding out you've been cheated on is the worst! .. Especially when you've invested so much time.
I know :( shit feeling but i got over him fast. I hate cheaters
Take advantage how?
Trying to take advantage of my generosity