How long were you together for? Thanks
Most Helpful Guy
I realised that all of our disagreements stemmed from one simple thing - she always assumed the worst about me, and never once gave me the benefit of the doubt.
That was a hell of an eye opener, once I realised it.0
Most Helpful Girl
He had mental issues. And a drinking problem. Turns out he was also on probation for drug offences. Most people probably think he was some 'hot bad boy'. Uh no. Not at all. He was your typical nice guy and nerdy (which I Iike). He was fairly cute but nothing extreme. Not ripped or anything like that. If you met him you wouldn't think he was anything BUT a nice guy. He seemed really sweet. He was funny. He was also divorced and would tell people about his ex. Everyone felt sorry for him because she seemed awful. But then I noticed how his stories always changed when it was just him and me instead of a crowd. I would tell him "Wait you said she did THIS not THAT" and he would be all "Oh I did? Hmm. I don't remember... No no she didn't do that" He would totally exagerate and make the story way more dramatic when telling it to a group (he was into acting as well so he's good at that stuff). Then I ended up talking to some of their mutual friends and they all told me HE was the crazy one, NOT her. That he did all this bad crap during their marraige.0