Why didn't your last relationship work out?

[teamvic]

I've always been fascinated when people break up, so I just would like to know the reason why and if you were happy in the relationship and why or why not

Oh and how long were you dating them

[Izzy_3991]

I was dating my ex-boyfriend for two years.
He was/is a pathological liar and would SA me.
He took a lot from me. I broke up with him and have been single ever since (6 years later).

[teamvic]

Hmm and when did it go from the relationship being great to him lying? Was it like he always was from the beginning or did it take some time for him to start🤔

[Izzy_3991]

He started (lying) even before we started dating. There was a few good moments but that was in the very start. It started to go downhill very quickly.

[Rosexøxø]

He was depressed and self harming. He refused to listen to my advice to get out and do stuff.

He lacked respect for me and possibly himself at that rate.

[Rosexøxø]

We never officially asked out and stuff. We were an “item” for hmm just a few months.

Maybe 2 at most.

[teamvic]

Out of curiosity, let's say he wasn't depressed and self harming, would you say you'd still be with him now or you just overall weren't happy?🤔

[Rosexøxø]

Maybe- I don't know how he would have interacted with me in a healthy form. What would healthy look like for him? What would he choose to do with his life?

We’re talking about an entirely different person. Two different people.

The yes, attractive guy I saw in him and his display was evident and clear, yet he wasn’t operational/ functioning as a healthy person

That meant I wasn’t heard/ seen/ and our conversations had a lot of manipulation intertwined. I refused to keep that up.

I can’t make a decision and an assumption on what could’ve been and who he could have been, and may choose to be so forth.

His attraction to me was certainly not for me, but from his own need and weakness.

[Rosexøxø]

I’ll leave it in the void. Could’ve gone either way. He was decently attractive, though.

[teamvic]

I suppose that's a good point🤔

Thank you for answering😌

[Rosexøxø]

Thanks 😂😄👌

[ArrowheadSW]

It was long distance. We only lived two hours apart but our schedules conflicted to where we couldn't see each other all that often.

[teamvic]

And if you guys were close or the distance was a problem would you say you'd still be happy with them?

[teamvic]

wasn't*

[Alwayreckles93]

If only guys weren't such momma's boy this wouldn't be a problem.

[teamvic]

What do you mean

[Alwayreckles93]

Lest just say that my ex husband put his mother first before me and left me for a much younger woman.

[teamvic]

Much younger? But you're only 21! That mu fuckin child predator

[Alwayreckles93]

I'm actually 29 I will be 30 in two months sorry just don't tell anyone my real age.

[teamvic]

O, well I am sorry to hear that nevertheless I hope he goes broke

[Alwayreckles93]

You are very kind Sir.

[teamvic]

😆 thank you ma'am

[anon1903]

He was an alpha. I thought I could tolerate him.

[teamvic]

Guessing he wanted everything his way?🤔

[anon1903]

Yeah, he also had omega stories to back him up

[teamvic]

If he wasn't tryna have everything way was that the only problem with him?🤔

[anon1903]

He had a lot of stories on toxic women, and it was kinda dragging me down

[Nikki1989]

He was boring.

[teamvic]

And how long did you know him or talk to him before getting into the relationship 🤔

[Nikki1989]

A few weeks.

[BarryLiverstone]

She had to move