Hi, I got pregnant, and had to do an abortion because of medical problems and also my boyfriend didn't wanted to be a father. He told me he wasn't prepared. But because of having so much problems because of my health and a father that didn't wanted the baby, we took the hard decision of having an abortion, also I already was having signs of miscarriage. Before the abortion my boyfriend told me he will be supportive and will be there for me, and that we where going to keep sharing in our relationship after several days of my abortion, my boyfriend call me rarely, 2 days past and he didn't call me or answer me,then he called, and told me he was having a lot of problems, I told him that I understand him, but I needed the directions to my visit to the doctor to see if I was doing OK. I told him I will call him next day and he threw me a kiss and said it was OK. Then I called him, he yell at me what do you want and hang up the phone. The I text him, that I needed the directions, he send me the direction by text. He also send me a text telling me we should not see each other again,That he was sorry for the things that we went. I called him, but he send me another message telling me not to write him or call him, because he was not going to read or answer, and if I did I was going to loose my time. I feel so bad, I saw him online the 2 next day, I was offline, he had me blocked but he the unblocked me, but I was offline in the messenger. I needed to express him how he let me feel and think about him, so I send him a e-mail, telling him that he was a coward and a liar, that he promised me he was going to keep sharing with me and be supportive, and he did not. That he was hiding behind his cellular sending me those cruel message. But also, I told him that I wished him the best on life, because I really did everything to keep sharing with him after all we went and all his promises. I needed to write to him, because I needed to express my feelings. I told him that he hurt me, because I didn't do anything to him to deserve the way he treated me, knowing of my situation. After that e mail, he just deleted me from his profile on messenger and went offline. I feel so bad, I don't know if I did wrong on sending him that email? But I think I didn't deserve the way he treated me. I need some advice of what do you think of these situation, thanks..
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I had a very similar situation as far as my girlfriend having an abortion for medical reasons however she didn't tell me until the procedure was over, she told me over the phone. I had never been happier than when she told me she was pregnant even so I would have supported her decision because of her medical state. I was so p*ssed about how everything went down but I didn't take it out on her. Our relationship only lasted another four months. You don't deserve this put it behind you as best you can and find someone that will treat you right. Take care0