Afraid my boyfriend might dump me because I look underage and we get dirty looks and he got arrested?

[Anonymous]

I'm 4'10 and super skinny, I look much younger than I am and often have to shop in kids stores for clothes.
My boyfriend is a year older but because he's so tall and I'm so sort and skinny he feels like people think he's a peado.
Last week we went for a dirty weekend away in glasgow but someone at the hotel called the police late that night because they thought I was underage. The police were let into our room and by boyfriend was roughly arrested. I hadn't any ID with me so I had to call my parents to bring it up to me which meant my boyfriend spent the night in a jail cell and I at 19 years old was taken into care until my parents arrived the next day by train with my ID.
Now my boyfriend acts distant and won't hold my hand or kiss in public.

[jc_84]

Talk to him about it. Tell him you've noticed he's acting different. It's understandable why he is. I genuinely don't want to make the point you should change how you act based on other people because I don't think that.. but it's obviously bothering him. Maybe it's cool to keep things private then to avoid that situation again. He might be relieved you bought it up and want to set a 'game plan'. Better than letting it fester (that'll surely just lead to a breakup).. and it might make your private times together that much better.

[trabezorb]

I dont blame him for being timid with PDAs after an incident like that.. Hopefully you and him have repercussions to bring down on that Poilice Department... Enjoy looking young while you can. Hopefully your boyfriend can deal with it and its not a deal breaker for him...

[BikerGirl89]

It is not exactly anything you did wrong. He knows this and he knows you can't control the fact that you look way younger, that is why he is still with you. He's just afraid that, that'll happen to him again if he does show any form of PDA with you. If he wanted to dump you, he would have never came back to you when he got out.

[acooke-13]

Honestly that's so sad, you guys just need to fight through it, probably best to keep ID on you all the time to stop that from happening. I'd suggest talking to him and asking if its a huge problem for him or if he can get over it. At 19 its not likely you'll grow much more, if you do

[hellofrewns]

Ahh if he really loves u he definitely would'ent dump u hun. Since this was the first time he got arrested for it he may just be cautious and it's may not last for too long so don't worry too much about it and just bring your ID along next time kay

[Carley99]

I'm really small to at lot of people say I look like 12 and I can imagine going through that but always walk with an ID on you and talk to him and tell him that you'll be more careful next time because you will always have your ID

[thiagotf]

You should walk always with your ID. Or maybe a copy or something. And... give him sometime. You will be fine.

[Asker]

I know I just forgot it that one time

[thiagotf]

Bad luck. :/ Really... give him sometime. Don't push him. And after a while he will be normal again

[AustinTXGuy]

Yeah that probably was a pretty rough experience for him. I can't imagine! Lesson learned to always have your ID on you. You are pretty and attractive just the way you are so don't feel down about yourself. It will pass when you get older.

[Bellamyx]

girl you did nothing wrong, so many people look super young in this generation & that’s not your fault. If he breaks up w/ you over that, that’s his loss. You’ll love looking young when you’re older

[Anonymous]

Hilarious.
But still it's your fault for not getting your ID with you.

[Asker]

I know

[Opinion Owner]

Try to get some weight and use make up (a little bit).
And never go out with him without ID.

[Zendrya]

well no offense but I wouldn't want the drama of that either. If you guys haven't been dating long I'd probably break up

[Kuraj]

In what kind of a country is police allowed to do that?
He could easily sue the city, by the way.

[Anonymous]

He will leave you