Should I leave him alone or should I try and show him that I'm sorry? He lives out of state and we have been apart for almost a year. When he found out, he told me he has been saving to buy me a ring. I don't know what to do next. I've been cheating for almost three months and feel like I don't deserve a second chance.
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Usually I would just tear into you for cheating on someone. It's quite possibly the worst thing you can do to your partner and nobody deserves to be left with that kind of baggage.
The reason I'm not is because you have admited that you don't deserve another chance and you don't deserve him. Most people who cheat won't admit that and will just say "ooooh I want him back so badly, what can I do?" without even owning up to how badly they have behaved.
Just ask yourself why you cheated on him in the first place? did you think the grass was greener on the other side? were you getting bored of your relationship?
At the end of the day its up to him if he wants to give you another chance but you need to figure out why you cheated on him to make sure it doesn't happen again. and if you think there is even the slightest chance of it happening again then don't try and get back with him as you'll just hurt him even more.
For the time being just work on yourself. Try and be a better person in general so that when you do see him, he will notice it. Also if your really serious about wanting to get back with your ex then you can't really be sleeping around in the mean time.
The decision is yours but I can't tell you what the outcome will be as that is up to your ex.1