We're together for 3 years and we lived in the same apartment. Everything was perfect but one day I learned that she cheated on me with a guy ... It hurts, I used to love her, maybe too much.
I can not believe I spent three years of my life with her, I gave all my love to her... and now she makes me puke.
Since that day I left our apartment and I live with my parents, she leaves messages to apologize and say she still loves me but I do not respond.
How to forget her and move on (we have a lot of friends in common so it won't be easy to just make her disappear)?
Also how can she stop talking to me? because she tries all the time to see me and I do not think I could control myself if I see her again, I'll probably hit her end up in jail.
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First of all, stay away from her. I know you have some strong emotions that you are dealing with but they aren't worth causing more trouble over. If you don't want to reconcile with her, then cut contact and make sure she knows that. If someone cheated on me, I'd do the exact same thing. You can find things to do that will distract you from the feelings you have, but I think you will just have to wait and let time do it's thing. Over time, you will begin to calm down and move on from the situation. Just don't associate with her or that will prolong it.1