Just curious how to handle backstabbers and traitorous "buddies".
Most Helpful Girls
This is so surprising.. I was actually thinking about posting a question about backstabbers few minutes ago and then I came across your question.
I was a very forgiving person when I was younger but after experiencing back to back cheating and betrayals, I've learnt one thing and that is to NEVER give a chance to backstabbers. They're just like cheats. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a backstabber, always a backstabber. They'll stab you in the back the moment you turn around if you give forgive them and give them another chance.
So, I don't forgive those kind of people anymore. I've had some backstabber friends and relatives with whom I no longer talk to. I just cut off all the contact. There is a guy on gag whom I used to trust a lot as a friend and respect a lot, but he turned out to be a rat.
Do I regret not forgiving him? No, because he backstabbed not just me but also my friends. So, I say Good Riddance!
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Most Helpful Guys
Yes, absolutely... Forgiveness is for my benefit, not
there’s. To harbor disdain in one’s heart deteriorates
you and eats you from within. I’m not giving anyone
that much control over my mind.
But that doesn’t mean I have to deal with or trust
that individual again.
I wouldn't care about forgiving but I wouldn't forget that person (if he/she had nothing else to do other than backstabbing me lol). Even if I get to forgiving them, it would be like forgiving more than half of the people I know 😂 and yet, many I don't know in person.