This is so surprising.. I was actually thinking about posting a question about backstabbers few minutes ago and then I came across your question.
I was a very forgiving person when I was younger but after experiencing back to back cheating and betrayals, I've learnt one thing and that is to NEVER give a chance to backstabbers. They're just like cheats. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a backstabber, always a backstabber. They'll stab you in the back the moment you turn around if you give forgive them and give them another chance.
So, I don't forgive those kind of people anymore. I've had some backstabber friends and relatives with whom I no longer talk to. I just cut off all the contact. There is a guy on gag whom I used to trust a lot as a friend and respect a lot, but he turned out to be a rat.
Do I regret not forgiving him? No, because he backstabbed not just me but also my friends. So, I say Good Riddance!
Nvr been in that situation b4
I'm usually the backstabber🤷
Yes, absolutely... Forgiveness is for my benefit, not
there’s. To harbor disdain in one’s heart deteriorates
you and eats you from within. I’m not giving anyone
that much control over my mind.
But that doesn’t mean I have to deal with or trust
that individual again.
I wouldn't care about forgiving but I wouldn't forget that person (if he/she had nothing else to do other than backstabbing me lol). Even if I get to forgiving them, it would be like forgiving more than half of the people I know 😂 and yet, many I don't know in person.
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I would say it depends on how they act when shit hits the fan for them or for you. I had a buddy who definitely attempted what is called character assassination where he told his girlfriends I was this and that blah blah blah in an effort to make sure they wouldn't talk to me. course they ended up talking to me anyways and then all the lies came to light. but when things went to shit he knew who to call to fix things. reality was I was his only friend so he started changing likely not because he wanted to but because he had no friends and instead had very shitty people around him constantly dragging him down.
If they cut me off and I discovered it was because they were suffering with depression at the time, or they were going through a bad time in their life, I'd overlook what they did and forgive them.
If they betrayed my trust in someway , like talking shit behind my back... I'd cut all ties with them for good. Once my trust is broken it can never be rebuilt or regained.
Depends how bad.
If it's just trash talk i couldn't give a shit cause i probably do that aswell. And if i think all real friends do this.
But if they did something to try and hurt me on purpose. Well i am gonna hurt them or ingnore them forever.
I don’t know because I don’t think I’ve ever been or will ever be in such situation. I guess it would depend on if they even asked for forgiveness. If they do then I guess I would but the relationship would be much different to the point where there wouldn’t be a purpose for it. If they don’t then I would probably just tell them some mean things and say we’re even, then never talk to them again.
Yes. I think forgiveness is very important. But I’d only ever forgive someone if their apology was sincere and I knew they were being genuine about it. I’d probably not associate myself with them as often but I’d be polite if they said hello or tried to talk to me
Nope. they lie to you and think you give chance. I lot isuse with past relationship. Past ex boyfriend was never respect what I want into relationship. I do not care what people blame other people. Make sure you learn from you mistake. Never let any get away from it
Forgiveness? What kind of forgiveness.
There would be a price I would make that person pays.
Well personally I am the kind of person that once backstabbed I don't forget or forgive... I may act mature enough to be polite and say hello, good morning but I will not trust that person ever again...
There is a difference between forgiving, and letting that person back in your life, where they may do the same thing, or worse, again.
I can forgive people for most things, I just won’t forget and I’ll be more cautious when they come back.
If they want to get on my bad side and insult me, do it to my face. At least I will respect you as a nemesis. But do it behind my back and you worse than scum for me.
Depends what they were saying. I can forgive someone but still not fuck with them afterward.
No. If they are willing to abuse your trust once. There's nothing stopping them from doing again, only this time more adeptly.
Yes. You can forgive anybody for anything if you set your mind to it.
Withholding forgiveness from others will cause God not to forgive you. Remember that when your life review begins.
Nope. But I do thank them.
Because they prepared me to trust people on level in which I can very well predict them back stabbing me, so I have a counter for the possibility.
I believe in forgiveness, how ever not sure if could trust the person again.
never happened
and I pray that it won't...
but if it does I don't know if ill be able to honestly
No. Backstabbers never change, and they can fuck right off.
(They smile in your face)
All the time they want to take your place
The back stabbers (back stabbers)
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