The guy may be less successful, but I think most women would find him very attractive. And the thing about very attractive men is that a lot of women DO find them very attractive - and because they want to be with a very attractive man, they'll let him bang her even knowing he's married. And a lot of very attractive men take advantage of this (which, yes, makes them douchebag assholes).
Tiger Woods was married to a Swedish model, and he still cheated. Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie (and probably every woman he'd ever been with). Virtually every really attractive man has cheated - because they COULD - they had endless opportunity to do so, and very few guys can resist that temptation indefinitely (and many don't even bother to try).
So for all of those people who ask "why is that hot girl going out with that ugly dude?", the answer is often "because he actually respects her and isn't going to cheat on her."
Giggity! Even ugly men cheat when the occasion comes up, bruh! Jay Z is ugly af but he cheated on Beyonce who looked like a goddess. Matt Damon is attractive and he married a waitress who is less attractive than him ( and below average) and yet they are still happily married. If a guy is only faithful because he’s ugly then he is not truly faithful. In fact ugly men cheat more when they can because they crave women a lot, so they wouldn’t say no to experience something new behind their gf’s back if they can. But a lot of good looking men when they are in their mid and late 30’s, start to feel bored and would want to settle down, and since they fucked a lot of girls in their youth, nothing impress them. Candice was able to date a guy a wayyyyy better than her ex, and there are a lot of women less attractive than her that wouldn’t look at him twice. So he isn’t in Candice’s league. Agree?
Jay-Z is a billionaire and a celebrity - he doesn't have to be good-looking to get women. His wealth and status puts him solidly in the Top 10 Percent of men, and such men have women throwing themselves at them, and most men with that much temptation are going to give into it eventually, no matter what the currently have or what the risk.
This is a failing of men, and it's totally men's fault, but women should be aware of this and not be naive enough to believe that such men will remain loyal. It's just that simple.
Beyonce was also rich! And yet she stayed loyal! So why are men always throwing shades over women?
Who is throwing shade? I'm saying that men have a weakness, and that when you combine tons of opportunity with this particular weakness, most men can't keep their commitments.
Women have other weaknesses, but this usually isn't one of them. That's why women need to understand that, for men, it IS!
I mean I get what you're getting at, this model is perfect in YOUR EYE so you imagine how could others not see her as perfect and treat her as so. But what you see isn't always what you get you know, and she's human like any other person on planet earth, which means she has flaws. Flaws that obviously somewhere got to her boyfriend and made him cheat. Doesn't make what she did justifiable but just means she wasn't what he thought and that potentially lead to him cheating.
he's a jerk and she just didn't choose as great a guy as she thought, simple as that.
doesn't make what *he did justifiable.
lol no idea why it added the s.
And how do u know She didn't choose the good man? Man literally fakes their entire personality. If he didn't show her enough appreciation she would never let him in. No Women ever lets a man who treats them bad. Men knows it. & this is why In abusive relationship you would often see The man Was so devoted during the first year lol
Years*
Beyonce got cheated on. Lots of gorgeous women get cheated on. It's not her fault, it had nothing to do with her. If a man is unhappy in a relationship and feels something missing, if he is a decent honest man he will do one of the 2 things, either work on a relationship and try to fix it or respect her enought to breakup before hooking up with other girls. the one who choose to cheat is more of a dog than a man. no self control. whether a man cheats shows the quality of the man, not of the woman.
Cheating has nothing to do with how good looking a person is, or how well off they are doing.
Yeah but that’s truly annoying when you see this.. especially when it’s the less attractive and successful one that cheat
Why is it annoying? It has no affect in your life, so maybe sad but I’m confused on why it would annoy you.
I think all cheating is detestable regardless of the physical or monetary attributes of the human
@Justacatlady 100% agree with you 😊
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It may seem outrageous, but you never know. I don't plan on cheating. I hate the idea all around. I doubt I'd do it, even if I had access to all kinds of gorgeous, beautiful women.
But you never know WHAT goes on in a relationship. Still more of a reason to break up than cheat, but you never know. She could be abusive. She could just be vindictive. She could be vengeful. She could shriek at him constantly, or constantly be screaming at him because he didn't fold the bedding the way she does it, or he leaves his dishes out for five minutes before taking them to the sink, or he left the toilet seat up by accident... He could want to spend time with her, while they have to jet off to all kinds of places constantly and they only see each other a few times a month. She SEEMS kinda nice and she's gorgeous, but we never know.
I've had friends who have so badly wanted the association of "being engaged" that they get engaged to someone that makes them absolutely miserable. Doesn't make much sense to me, but people still do it.
And with newfound fame, sudden (fake?) confidence, being surrounded by gorgeous women, some probably throwing themselves at him... while the money might be nice, and some aspects of the fame... I wouldn't want that constant temptation, even assuming I'm mentally strong enough not to succumb.
There's a lot more to life and relationships than looking good. Sure in the beginning it is great, to find someone so attractive.
First, I don't condone cheating. Just break up if you can't be faithful but after people have been together awhile there are so many layers, treating each other bad, growing tired of each other, grudges, annoyances, bitterness that can form. You take each other for granted and don't make each other a priority. Her being a model she is probably always traveling and away and with other men, half naked around them half the time.
Looking hot will make those first few months great... especially when you are crazy about each other, make each other your first priority and court each other and try your best to woo each other. After years though, you aren't each others priority, you get on each others nerves, you don't court each other, you treat strangers nicer... tons of cracks can form.
This is an angry post. You’re mad because men cheat. Guess what? Women cheat too, and more often, and with far more partners than men do.
The only men who cheat more than women, are exactly those men who you are most attracted to. And guess what? For us men? The most attractive women are also the ones who do all the worst shit we hate.
Can’t you see that you’re hating on all men for the crimes of the top 1% of desired people? We are all crying, wishing we could have them. Acting as if every person of the opposite sex is just the same as those most desired people. Acting as if their lives are representative of everyone else’s lives.
Nah, that’s stupid.
You are just projecting your problems onto here. While what happend to u was wrong but also what happend to her was equally wrong. No vile act justfies the other vile act.
Of course I believe it.
Being attractive is no guarantee that your partner will stay loyal.
There are never any guarantees that your partner will stay loyal.
If your partner WANTS to cheat, he or she will cheat, no matter what you look like.
As Clea Lewi's character replies to Halle Berry's character, in the movie, Perfect Stranger:
Ro : [on hearing Mr Hill is cheating on his wife] I don't get it. Mrs Hill is pretty. I mean, she's really pretty.
Gina : Show me a beautiful woman, I'll show you a man who's tired of fucking her.
1.) real men don’t want a woman’s money so her being ‘successful’ is useless to him.
2.) super model you say? I can go to the local mall and find 10 women who look better than her in 15 minutes or less. Women who wear less makeup and don’t use photoshop so eh!
3.) if a woman is smart & wants to keep a man she’ll have a great personality because he can easily find everything else down the street.
That said, he may not be what I consider a ‘real man’. She was foolish to support a dude and then get surprised when he is swimming in a bed full of thots. There’s not some law that says if you treat a guy like a female (in a traditional relationship) he will love it and be loyal.
Lol. Then your local mall is very rare. Candice is a real natural beauty, she is tall and her body is amazing
But your answer is as if you were saying that it was Candice’s fault if he cheated on her
Come on. A lot of men would kill to be In this dude’s shoes
Natural beauty? Most celebs have had plastic surgery (even Adriana Lima has had her nose done) and have a team of hairstylists, makeup artists, personal trainers and professional photographers.
Also chill OP, you sound obsessed. Are you her sister or friend?
@asker, she could be wrong AND he could be too at the same time. I’m not surprised if a guy gets with a more successful woman and cheats on her. It’s nothing new. Acting like it’s weird is like having gold bars in your hands and walking down the street at night... then getting surprised when you get mugged. If you want to keep a man: 1.) pick one who cares about more than looks. 2.) have a better personality than average. It’s super simple. But.. but... but... it’s harder to have a good personality than to put on a short skirt and makeup
Hahahmm lol. You’re talking as if men only care about personality. A lot of men ( even the ugliest) are shallow af, so if a solid 10 girl date she must perfect for them on the outside and on the inside? Candice is one of the most gorgeous women in the world, so staying loyal to her man, and being an amazing mother is more than a guy could ever ask from a woman like her. So what does pretty successful women must do to deserve a faithful dick? Finding a way to read her partner’s mind and having a fart that smell like strawberry?
You are not a real man. You are just an insecure man who lacks positive self-esteem, resents impressive women, and D gets his kick from belitling and humbling women who are secure and grounded in their existence.
You are used to women in your circle and life being small, quiet, apologetic, and in the background. You consciously think women should be the watchers of wonderfulness, power, and success, not the ones who experience it. You are used to seeing women shrink themselves and are now thrown off after coming across a woman who stands in her power. What you are saying is she should have tonned down her beauty her tone for that guy. Holy fragility. She already tonned down herself down by dating Him, she reached down to earth's core. His Fragile ego still needed to feel bigger that's why cheated. there's no other reason. He resented her and wanted to embarrass her. I love how she is dating Handsome men who are worthy & deserving of her.
Because his mentality is exactly like candice's ex. This man hates Beautiful woman. They will go out Their way To impregnate the beautiful woman have them only to treat her like garbage and embarrass her. They want women to be small quiet. Candice Just got free, more hotter, She lost nothing. She has a big career.
Fame, looks and money don't protect people from getting cheated on. I don't know where you got that idea. There are other celebreties that got cheated on by their husbands with lower tier women. Beyonce got cheated on, in my country on really hot actress Claudia Vieira was cheated on too, etc. Being hot and rich doesn't prevent cheating. Love and a loyal partner prevent cheating. This doesn't surprise me I can totally believe it. I find it harder to believe how could he do that since they have kids together, but oh well he is just that kind of guy.
It's never okay to cheat on someone, but I am sure they were having problems with there relationship way before he cheated, and instead of him being a man and trying to work things out or breaking up and moving on, he decide to be a little boy about it and cheated. I just hope she dumped him and is now with someone more deserving of her.
Men cheat a lot when they feel inferior. It’s a way to feel validated. And who knows what she has been doing on the sidelines? I sincerely doubt after 11 years with guys throwing themselves at her who have money and looks that she hasn’t at least entertained the idea. You don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors.
Yes. I don't really find her super attractive, even if she were super attractive when she was 17, it's been more than 1 decade, looks fade, and it's conceivable that the guy she chose when she was 17 would turn out to be a shitty choice. Generally I believe if you're a model or an actress and you date someone in this business, your relationship will end earlier than the normal people.
Well models celebs get cheated on all the time. Their relationships are not bullet proof. If temptation gets ahold of you your going to cheat.
doesn't make it right.
But models and celebs are not exempt.
Some people are never grateful for what they have. There is no reason to cheat if you aren't happy in a relationship, you just leave.
Ok, then i guess those who disliked my comment are cheaters themselves
Why did she want to be with him in the first place?
Because he's good looking.
That's not a good basis for a relationship, sorry.
THIS
@Syrian_survivor Women create this situation for themselves with their own mating strategies, then they only blame men when their strategy bites them in the ass, it's all the fault of inferior men that she can't get the superior man she wants, somehow.
They judge men by the exact same criteria they judge dildos.
They fuck themselves up, ignore all prior warnings and red flags claiming it's "true love"
Little do they know that it's their hormones kicking in and controlling their brains to self-destructive behaviour masked with pleasure and "love"
Then they come complaining and saying "all men are trash cheaters" instead of saying the truth for themselves "I'm an absolute childish idiot like many other women"
@Syrian_survivor That's the real reason they mature faster than boys. They don't have as far to go.
Huh.. but she’s good looking too lol. She’s a way better looking than him. A lot of women less attractive than Candice won’t even give him the time of the day. She could’ve get a way more attractive guy, not to mention that she’s richer than him. So you mean that women should only date ugly losers? Lol. Too bad cause even the ugly losers cheat. Her boyfriend was just an ungrateful jerk, and so are many guys
How is this related to what we were talking about? If anything you said was related then you're pretty much agreeing in a way
Men cheats on woman if they feel inferior. They would find someone who want to rely on them. Men would want someone who treats him like a savior, or someone who can't live without him. And based on Candice's status, she basically wore the pants in their relationship. Its better to separate ways than stay in this kind of relationship. Always remember girls, its not your job to make him feel like a man; you can't make him what he is not.
So? I get you're girl crushing, but I doubt she's all that.
And so what if he's less successful? You're less successful than 10% of the world, same as me, but success doesn't equal happiness.
Cheating is not about looks. And I bet the girl he cheated on with is less attractive
Being good looking isn’t going to stop someone from cheating on you
"Show me a beautiful woman & I'll show you a man that's tired of fucking her"
It's not surprising at all... Being with a beautiful woman doesn't stop men from cheating as it has more to do with self-confidence, ego and insecurities than anything else
While he is a jerk if he cheated, the facts about her do not change the simplest fact of all:
No matter how desirable someone might seem, somebody, somewhere, is sick of that person's B. S.
He is asshole who can't respect the girl who gave him everything in life
Could not care about her life. Why do I need to care about her?
Yes. Cheating isn't about looks most of the time. It is about how the person makes you feel. Beautiful people get cheated on all the time. Perhaps she didn't give him enough attention and whomever he cheated with made him feel a lot better.
What do u means he "Stole" she got what she wanted out of thokse 11 years. She choose to have thoose kids and to stay in the relationship.
Stop babying that girl
Maybe she's a complete bitch, physically or emotionally abuses him, how do you know, you don't know this girl whoever she is
Beyonce got cheated on the truth is no matter how beautiful you are or no matter how much money you have guys will always be guys they will cheat regardless even if you where Oprah
Why wouldn’t I? Many guys are unfaithful. What makes him any different?
Would you believe that men are capable of being attracted to two women simultaneously?
being attracted to and cheating is two different things. one you can't control, the other you can.
that’s how men are. they get bored of the same one woman even though she’s beautiful and hot
Well because He was jealous of her, her beauty, her success and went out of his way to humble her. Men does thing out of their ego.
@Justacatlady 100% agree with you :-)
Thanks ☺️
No problem!
Always go for perfect looking , model like bad boys and then complain why they are cheating 😒
Because life is not all about looks and money..
cheaters will always cheat on anyone
Who is Candice swanepoel?
A Victoria Secret Model lol :-)
It happens 😕
I feel bad for her
Could not care less.
Why should I care?
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