He wanted me to stay in his apartment while he left for work?

[rsrunner00]

Been seeing this guy about 8 months... we are not "official" so to speak, says he is only seeing me, and I am only seeing him. Usually when I spend the night, he wakes me up in the morning and has me get ready to leave with him when he leaves for work. The other day he got up and was getting ready, so I get up, and he's like, "You don't have to leave yet, go ahead and go back to sleep, leave when you need to" and I just kinda stared at him, and said "No, I'll leave now" and I got ready and we left ... What has to be going through a guys mind to leave her in his apartment alone? How would he have to feel? AND I'm wondering now what message I sent him by not staying?

[awaken03]

he is testing his trust with you..but you did probably went a little crud with your response..probably he is thinking if your worth it to live in together

[Anonymous]

Well I don't know but what you did wasn't good, probably made him feel like you wasn't interested.

[rsrunner00]

=( I really like him, but I was jus shocked because he hasn't made us official or anything.

[lananoel]

It sounds like a higher level of trust. When you rejected him you may have given off the " I'm not interested vibe..

[sylar]

He trusts you enough to leave you in his house. That's a pretty big move for a guy especially if he has a lot of expensive stuff in his house. You should appreciate that. I would hope he would assume that you only left out of habit.