It sound like for whatever reason, once she made the break with you that was it. At this point, I am sorry to say, your things could already be history, ie trashed. I have always been a returner of things, so I cannot understand this mindset. I have heard of people holding onto the possessions of exes as remembrances, or in the case of a vicious break up, for revenge. Your ex does not seem to be either of those scenarios, so I am guessing that when she gave up on the relationship, she let all your things go as well. Not a happy scenario, and I am sorry. I think, you may have to accept not seeing your belongings ever again. Perhaps, you had a shared friend that you could ask to either collect the things or put in a kind word on your behalf for their return. Best wishes!
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I would think she didn't see that those stuffs are anything substantial. She thought that the "asking for things" meant to just be a topic for talking or meeting that may drag things longer and longer.
I ignored this when my ex tried to discuss it with me also. I didn't buy the gag. He lives on without those stuff though.
She trashed them. And you screwed up by not making her return them in a timely manner, I.E. if you tried to take her to court now to reimburse you, she'd say that she gave you reasonable time to get them and then threw them away.
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