What's the fastest way to get over a breakup?

[whineaddict]

I recently got out of a year long relationship and I'm torn up about it. I'd say it's the first time I've ever felt this genuinely sad about losing a relationship. I hate feeling this way, how do you get over this feeling the fastest?

[TaniaUncensored]

Many will say the fastest way is to jump into bed or a relationship with someone else and I can tell you this IS NOT the way to do it. Go out with your girlfriends on NO GUYS NIGHTS. Engage in activities and hobbies you love to keep yourself feeling great about yourself as well as too busy to think about him. You still will but going on with your life is the best medicine as you will soon see you don't need him to live. A partner should not be a crutch or life support they should be just an addition to your life.

You got this sister.

[whineaddict]

Thank you so much, I'll do that! Honestly I was thinking of jumping back into another relationship to dull the pain, but I know that it will cause me more pain.

[Mysterygirl11137]

Shift to another city or country, do sthng extremely new but I just wanna say dat breakup never heals quickly it definitely takes time - depending on d time u guys were together it’ll take time. And post breakup memories wid ur ex dey all will come anytime in ur head just deal with it.

[Asker385]

there is no fast way when you care about someone and they leave it hurts. if you scrape your knee its not gonna heal instantly it takes time, so dont just jump into something instantly you won't be able to care for that person the way you should because your heart will still belong to the other person. so take your time and be single and enjoy life instead of spending your money on gifts for your partner spend it on yourself and just have fun work on your future.

[Amanda2]

Get a new hobby and channel that energy into it

[whineaddict]

Definitely will! Thanks for your reply