Why do women dump their boyfriend, who treats them like a queen?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

SOME women wan to be treated like a queen, but. . . some guys who treat a woman like a queen are needy and clingy. Most women want a man who is confident, sure of himself and his worth as a man. You treat her like a queen, but do you also demand that she treat you like a king?

[Asker]

I don't ask for too much but yes.

[Dchrls78104]

@OlderAndWiser very good. Too often infatuated simps ignore this.

[Inbox]

@Asker I think you're not experienced enough with women. Women or humans are not binary. It's all about a balance. Too much of the bad boy and she'll start to feel for men who treat her well. Too nice and she'll go for bad boys because she's bored and looking for strong masculinity.

[Espresso-Grande]

It could be any number of reasons.

Maybe she's grown apart for you , and the relationship isn't fullfiling enough for her. Maybe you're too submissive for her. Or maybe you're too controlling , because you like to do everything for her

I ended a relationship with a guy because he was too submissive. He was a nice kind person , but he never had my back. I couldn't be with a guy who wouldn't have my back.

Nice , kind partners have their faults or flaws too. Treating someone like a long or queen doesn't automatically make you a great partner.

[Asker]

And so the bad boys emerge from the fallen prince.

[Espresso-Grande]

Not necessarily. A guy who is balanced (in between a "bad boy" and "prince") is more likely to have a lasting happy relationship.
Relationships fail for a variety of different reasons. I've ended a relationship because a guy was too submissive, but it because he didn't have my back. He'd allow people to talk shit about me to his face. He never defended me like I did him. But I've also ended one, because he was too dominant and controlling.

[Asker]

Can't win. May as well go the full route of a bad boy.

[Espresso-Grande]

Try it, see if it works out for you. Adapt your personality

[Hazelstar99]

I can ask the same for men. Why do men dump their girlfriend who treats them well?

But I wouldn't ask that. I wouldn't ask because guys who show this behavior are not the quality guys. Quality guys accept the kind of love they think they deserve.

[mobiusforniner]

Because they were insecure. They think they treat their girlfriend like a queen and should therefore be her worthy companion. But inside they lacked confidence. They are needy and clingy- thinking their niceness is a penultimate relationship quality. The lack of confidence is ultimately she observes.

[alice55]

Because they're not ready to fully commit and become afraid cause the guy is too perfect, it cause them stress cause they know they're far from being as good as the guy. I know plenty of women that left their perfect boyfriend for this reasons and the guy just end up hating them and women in general or keep trying to gain their ex back like a lost puppy.

[Yads_Is_Back]

It's not all about treatment. It's also about WHO YOU ARE. Just because a guy treats me well doesn't mean he's worthy of dating me. What kind of man is he? Has he taken advantage of other women? Is he worth my time? Is he worth getting to know?

[Anonymous]

In what way are you treating her as a Queen?

Are you treating her as a Queen, as a King would? Does she treat you like a King?

Or are you treating her like a Queen as if you're below her, like a servant?

Women aren't attracted to men who are below them.

[cjgsu]

Probably because they aren't interested in them.
Being nice 2 someone isn't enough 2 make someone want 2 be with someone.

[Nobleone]

That's weird. Why would anybody agree to date someone who they think is too nice if that's not enough for them?

[cjgsu]

@Nobleone If the only thing u got going 4 u is being nice but as i get 2 know u and u end up being boring or have nothing in common with me y would i stay with u?
Plenty of nice guys that don't bore me.

[Nobleone]

Nothing wrong with that. At least not in the way you explained it. I often see threads online about women complaining about their boyfriends being too nice and boring and it always made me wonder why she agreed to date him anyway.

[PushOrganic]

Because he's not giving her the emotions she's craving. Girls want to be taken on a roller coaster of unpredictable emotions, positive and negative. If a guy is predictable and boring, attraction gets killed

[Anonymous]

Not just woman are the bad ones you know. You man live us older mature smart woman for stupid young 18 year olds that don't know shit. Face it you man treat us line objects once we hit 30 you dumped us amd move on to the slutty 18 year old trash so do not complain when you got a hidden jem for a cheap nock off shit because that is what young 18 year old woman are cheap nocked off shit.

[CuriousCat123]

Well... maybe the guy was trying to hard and coming off as clingy. Sometimes though love just goes away. She may have been trying to protect him from getting super attached and from getting cheated on.

[Anonymous]

A guy came in trying to take me from my man by impersonating him to get my attention lol he was a bad boy and my man wasn’t. I’m not leaving my king for a bad boy. It ain’t worth taking the risk and losing trust.

[Hangry22]

Because they wanna be treated as trashy by fuckbois

[Anonymous]

Probably "too nice" for them and/or bored. Sometimes women don't know what's good for them. They'd rather chase after "excitement". Women seem to "get bored" easily I've noticed.

[Anonymous]

Because they treat them like a queen. Men need to stop being subservient lapdogs. It's perfectly fine to tell a woman "no" and to expect something in return for your time and effort

[Dchrls78104]

Shakespeare said it like this:
" Lust, though to a radiant angel link'dWill sate itself on a celestial bedAnd prey on garbage."

[FrontierMan]

They have no respect for him probably. You can give the world to some people and they'll hate you for it.

[jshm2]

Because he sure as hell isn't a king. Nor does she like to live the animal in captivity lifestyle. he is offering (usually forcing) on her.

[Mogtar]

Treat them like a queen as a king or treat them like a queen as a servant?

[Anonymous]

Maybe because these boys are labeled by girls as “Needy” .


Maybe treat girls like a queen after marriage

[Anonymous]

That's not sexy, women like hot men that dominate them sexually and don't love them.

[Simplismilez]

I've never had someone treat me like that.

[Alex_988_2]

Bc you don't let the one who genuinely wants to know you

[Killer-Queen]

Because they don't deserve it.

[Anonymous]

"Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore."