Has anyone gotten their ex back? (ppl who are in a relationship only)

[Anonymous]

Now what I am asking are the people who are in a relationship right now with the ex that they wanted back and somehow got he/she back. How did you get them back? What is your story?

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I saw my ex kissing another girl in front of me I think that was him but now not sure and now I had a final with his roommate and his other roommate's girlfriend so I finished my final to get out quickly but wen I got out I ended up being walking right behind him and I tried to walk past him but he turned around and saw me and then I finally walked past him but when I finally got past him I almost got ran over by a car

[question_girl]

i got him back. we broke up December last year bcoz v were fighting a lot over stupid things. so he broke up with me one night when we hd this horrible fight...i walked out of his house at 1 am in the night and he had to run after me and then beg me to come back inside and go in the morning. that was the last straw for him I guess. anyways so I tried calling him twice but he was very cold. then I stopped calling him... after almost 15 days of NC he called me and talk very casually "how are u..etc"..i thot he wanted to get back. so like a total fool I called him back the very next day and asked him to get back...and he said NO! embarrassing! so I just hardened myself and didn't call him ...then he called me many times when drunk or something...asked me to meet him like friends...i said its not possible as I can't c him as a friend... so like this went on for 3-4 months...in which we talked very rarely. then one day he called and he said that he wanted to get back..that he missed me... blah blah...so like we decided to give it a shot and its working. haven't fought ever since. sorry for the long story...but the gist is... let him miss u... don't harass him into getting back...dont show him tht you are still waiting for him... and if he cares he will come running back. mae him feel that the ball is in his court and that you tried enough so now its his turn...and don't try to make him jealous by flirting or nething... it may backfire!

[question_girl]

but this case works well only for recently broken up couple...

[Asker]

he and I broke up 3 months ago, I kept begging him back and so now I haven't contacted him for like 1 week and a half

[Asker]

I know I messed up by messaging him everyday for like three months well I started Nc and its been a week and three days and he has been watching me like for instance yesterday I had a performance for our theater class final. I had dress up in a black dress and heels and he was watching me the whole time and just kept looking at me plus it didn't help that my guy friend told me I looked pretty and that he was hugging me and flirting with me. Then that night my ex came out watching me talk to anot

[question_girl]

alrite so he knows the ball is in his court... well 3 months is not very long. try to look as pretty as ever...work out may be...join salsa class (and let him know somehow). don't ignore male attention... but don't get too carried away too. show him that guys desire u. and don't talk to him even if he stares at you all day long. let him approach you this time! act cool and confident

[Asker]

so what happened esterday was a good thing like last night I looked pretty and five guys were talking to me!

[question_girl]

yes! its a good thing to make him realize that you are not waiting for him... that if he has to act he has to act fast!

[Asker]

so you think I have a good chance of getting him back? what does it mean wen he watches me? he was awatching me in class and he and his roomies come out of the dorm and they all look at me while I am dancing

[Asker]

how long were you guys together and how long did you guys break up for til he came running and did you beg in the beggiinning

[question_girl]

we were together for almost 4 years before this break up happened. and no I never begged him. I just called him twice and asked him what his thoughts were about me and about our relationship... I told him that I wan to get back...and when he said No..i never called him again. he came back after 4 months

[goflipaburger]

I was going to get back with my ex back in January. He initiated the break up, but I'm the one who ended it. We ended on 'good terms' because he felt like I was too good for him, and he mentioned that he wasn't even sure if he actually liked me and we were well into a serious relationship, like 6 months.

It wasn't over for me, it really wasn't. I got over it really fast though, within days. But by mid January he came running back to me. I considered it. I figured we could just click again, we could be the way we were before.

But I realized that getting back with him wouldn't change that he didn't even really want me. All it did was show me that he was lonely. He didn't miss me, he missed having someone. I was nothing but a comfort to him. Nothing will ever change the fact that he was only with me because it was convenient for him.

And no one should have to settle for me. I want someone who loves me, not someone whose afraid of finding someone they actually love.

My best advice about exes is that you don't take rotten milk out of the fridge and put it back in hopes that it will be better tomorrow. Because it wont. It won't ever be the same. Unless you know how to make cheese from the top of your head, its not going to work out.

[Asker]

how long were you guys together and how long did you guys break up for til he came running and did you beg in the beggiinning

[goflipaburger]

We were together for 6 months, and he came back in 15 days. I didn't beg but he did. I kind of thought about it and we talked like we were together for a week, but I realized we could never the same.

[Asker]

oh OK thanks

[Anonymous]

We broke up after 7 months because he wasn't having the right feeling for me and was a little confused. He broke up with me.

He realized his mistake about 2 weeks later, but I thought he didn't want me back for the right reasons. And I was kind of seeing someone.

Then I wanted him back... and he was seeing someone else.

Then we were both single and some mutual friends set us up, with my knowledge but not his, after he told them he wished he'd never done it. This was 3 months later.

He knew what he'd been missing, I wanted him back. But we'd both had time to mature and realize what it was that we wanted.

We've been back together for 5 months now.

[Asker]

when he was with this other girl hdid you see him kissing this other girl?

[Opinion Owner]

no. It was AFTER we broke up that he got together with her. I've only ever seen pics of her on Facebook, I've never seen her in person or met her or seen her with him.

[Asker]

no I meant after and lucky I just witnessed it last night and he knew I was outside before he even kissed her in front of me

[Opinion Owner]

nope. Never seen her in real life. Never seen her with him :) but like I said. We're back together :)

[Asker]

well I messed up for good. I think he has a girl...and I am hurt and heartbroken because he said he loved me and wanted to marry me for ten months straight

[Opinion Owner]

You messed up? Hun, he doesn't realize what he's missing!

[Asker]

i kept begging him for months to get him back...all I did wrong was go at 9 at night to his parents house because my aunt died and needed support and somehow I got hysterical and now he won't talk to me again

[Opinion Owner]

thats ridiculous... This is his fault, and he's making you feel bad about it, when you're vulnerable. If he can't handle you at your worst... he doesn't deserve you at your best!

[Asker]

u really think so?

[Opinion Owner]

I really do.

[Asker]

thank you but something weird just happened...I had a final with his roommate and his other roommate's girlfriend so I finished my final to get out quickly but wen I got out I ended up being walking right behind him and I tried to walk past him but he turned around and saw me and then I finally walked past him but when I finally got past him I almost got ran over by a car then I was walking around the building for my meditation and my ex kept passing me like ten times and I had to brush by him

[Manolis]

Well, my story starts like this.

A girl liked me 8 months ago. I decided to meet her in person, at first I didn't really like her but then I just adored her. We started talking, texting and dating. We where a couple for less than a month. One day she decided that she can't take the distance and she had some "personal" issues so... we broke up.

I wanted her so much, I've started dating other girls and found a new girlfriend but I still wanted my ex. The funny part is that my ex wanted me too but I didn't know that, I thought she was dating someone else.

We didn't speak to each other even though we both stalked each others Facebook and we both envied our "mates". One day I decided to talk to her and we started fighting but in the end we decided to see each other again. I really have no idea how that happened it just happened.

That happened 2 weeks ago and I feel just so damn happy...

Sometimes you have to give people some time alone. If you pressure them and show them that you need them they will get scared.

Let him think about it on his own.

Let him miss you... make him miss you ;)

[Asker]

know I messed up by messaging him everyday for like three months well I started Nc and its been a week and three days and he has been watching me but last night I thought I heard something so I went outside and I saw him I know he saw me and he was kissing another girl

[Anonymous]

well I started talking to my boyfriend like 8 months ago, we talked for about 3 months prior, we dated, after about 4 months of dating I got confused and for some reason I felt like I wanted to be single, he kept telling me how he wanted me back and how me missed me but I wanted nothing to do with him and after about 1 and a half months of being broken up I missed him a lot and saw that he was flirting with other girls and I knew that if that bothered me I still had feelings for him so we started talking and we decided to get back with each other and I haven't been happier :))

[Asker]

thanks for the stories