For a guy, Family Court is one of the worse experiences a man will ever have, with about the only worse would be burying a child.
Most wives initiate divorce. Most wives broadside the news, giving the man a short time to properly defend himself. Many guys spend the first months, up to a year in denial that the marriage is even over. So instead of focusing on the divorce, they are trying turn it around.
Most guys don't want to do the work and spend incredible amounts of money on the proper legal representation. Most even opt to use his wife's attorney to save a buck. Huge mistake and highly unethical.
Most guys go into court trying to be fair. The wife will too, but her attorney who is paid to get all she can, goes to work to do precisely what she was hired for. They start at 50-50, but the wife will be able to negotiate a far better settlement. This is where the guy realizes he not just lost his money, his home he is still on the hook to pay the mortgage, half of his retirement, but also his kids. This is a serious blow to almost everything he identifies to being.
The other issue that a court in a city can hear 40-60 cases a day. If a Judge has to make any judgments, they will be based on a busy day of norms and standard operating procedures. He is not going to get into the weeds of details. Only what seems the most ideal under 5 minutes, and ultimately what is best for the children. The case manager can also push things along too quickly. Meaning if the couple has to make big decisions, it will be determined in less than 5 minutes.
Moral of the story, if you're the man, and dumb enough to get married, and have children with a woman, you best go along with procedure, and deal with it, or find the best attorney without regard to price, and stand up for what you want. Which can be the primary parent. It is possible, but not with cheap or no representation. In more than 92% of the cases, the mom gets the children. A great attorney you will pay through the nose will cost you tens to hundreds of thousands. Which sounds bad, but most divorce dad on standard possession will be paying on average of $150k for each kid under 5. There is nothing cheap in marriage and divorce.
because women see themselves as perpetually oppressed and function as a collective. Once you give them the right to vote they see you as a weak man and fuck you over any way they can. Marriage is just a legal way to turn men into slaves.
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u What is the source of your knowledge about divorce law?
The best thing you can do is just don't get married. Prroblem solved. No future problems and stress during your divorce process.
I believe marriage and divorce laws are corrupt and flawed in many Countries not only in the west, things happen the way they do
Women are destroying marriage, and the legal system is helping them do it.
Simple answer: It's profitable. $$$ $$$ $$$!
This is just like a business and it's working!
Welcome to capitalism. Money is everything!
I live in Europe and I actually know someone who works in divorce settlements. He says people have this stereotypical idea of what happens. Usually it is a fair separation.
s I don’t believe they can take what you previously owned. If that were to be the case it would be a disaster and she could clean you out from head to toe
Lmaooo complaining about what women do once again💀
Learn one word : prenup
Watch knowing better video on MRA
Feminism. Men get raped in divorce court.
Here we go again..😆
So? Don't marry then
Women do
Welcome to America
Dont get married
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