
Boyfriend and I are done. I got 30 days. I’m gonna do OnlyFans for this month to get $ to move. But now he says no way in our home. Can he do that?

Oh boy. There is a lot to unpack here. It seems like you are just trolling us right now but here is my answer.
1) You are disrespecting your relationship. Your man is communicating values about what he is comfortable with and not comfortable with when it comes to respecting your relationship and what it means. And yet, you are saying "I will do it anyway". That is disrespecting your man. If you don't have an attitude of genuine respect for your man then you should not be in a relationship with him. I think a lot of guys would not be okay with their lady involved in pornography or posing nude for thousands of guys online. Money or not. Your body is a precious gift. He feels the fact that only he gets to see it brings value to what you two have.
2) This is about your narcissistic ego. It is clear in what you are saying and your tone that this project of yours is not about needing money. This really seems about boosting your ego and getting thirsty sexual attention from random horny men. You need to ask yourself why you need that type of validation outside a relationship. Do you have a sexual addiction? Do you suffer from depression or insecurity? Do you have a voyeuristic kink of some sort where you are sexually turned on by revealing yourself to other men and having them get off to you? Clearly this is about you getting attention and ego boost. Less about money.
3) The Relationship Needs Therapy. You have reached a point where you don't value your man or respect him. Your relationship is on the rocks and you are probably very close to dumping him. If you truly love this man and want to work this out you both need to start therapy. That may be the only chance of saving this. The issue is not that you are doing these pictures. The issue is that you don't even care what your man feels or thinks.
I am sorry. I misread the title. I didn't realize you guys broke up. In that case... do it when he is not at home. But I would again say that what you are doing is not right. It isn't about the money. What you are doing is revenge on your ex boyfriend. You are trying to hurt him and make him jealous. It is really shallow to be honest. You can do better and be more classy than that. THis is about narcessistic rage. It is about making him jealous. You dont really need the money. I would advice that you not do it at play it classy.
Just do it when he's not home.. he doesn't have to know.
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He can’t tell you what to do with your own image in the house you live in. Do it, he has no say in the matter.
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You don't have a partner but are alerting them to your intentions which are not safe or practical to your well being. After this raise the bar and your standards and you will be privy to offers options and opportunities that will enhance your life. Take care of yourself and do not allow people control over your life and decisions that will improve your life. Your partner is not looking out for your benefit but his. Do what is necessary without putting yourself in harm's way.
If you are paying rent there, really isn't shit he can say about it as long as his likeness is not being included in the photos/video.
Although personally I strongly discourage doing OF, because that sort of thing can come back to haunt you in the future.
Our house? You mean his house?
I don't know why he's giving you 30 days to move that seems awfully generous.
It's his house so it's his rules. If you don't like the rules you can go find a motel or something to take all your onlyfans crap.
Tf? No bitch I pay half and am on the lease and even if didn’t pay half I’d still be on the lease so sorry
You got 30 days, as in he is evicting you? So the place is his? If yes, you likely should not push him to just kick you out... and if he really wanted to he a dick about it, there are city and county ordinances which prohibit pornographic activities within city or county boundaries. Those laws can land you in a fair amount of trouble. Anyway, if you are part owner or are on the lease, do whatever the hell you want short of property damage...
As has been said, check the lease. That may cause issues if you get caught.
If no issues there, and you are on the lease, then he has 0 ability to do anything to prevent you from creating content.
If you are not on the lease, I am not sure but there may be stuff he can do if he wants to be a d&^%.
I’m on it
Are you on the lease? Many leases prohibit you from running a business from your apartment. If he’s the only one on the lease, I wouldn’t do something to anger him and get kicked out.
Get out of there as soon as you can- living with an ex is a very awkward situation.
I am
Well. If you are both cosignatories on the lease and the lease says nothing about "business" on the property, then he has jack shit say in the matter.
If he is the sole signatory on the lease and you're living there rent free, then you cannot do anything.
1. Yes, he can do that.
2. Considering your fake profile pic you're not nearly good looking enough for OnlyFans.
3. Only a whore would even consider that, although the pathetic losers who would pay for that are in fact the ones to blame.
4. This appears to be nothing but a hoax meant to recruit sime of the losers here as "fans".
1. No he can’t
2. wanna bet
3. what’s your point
4. baseless
5. Don’t blame your ex girlfriend fucking another guy on me.
1. Yes, he can, but tell yourself what you want.
2. Self-deceit is rather pathetic.
3. You're a whore and nothing more, so that's how the world treats you.
4. Aha, sure :)
5. Lmao, what a pathetic projection of your insecurities.
6. I'm done giving you attention, go whore out for money, it's all you're good for.
Lol no he can’t I’m on the lease dummy. Your probably fat or ugly or both and calling me a whore makes you sad and pathetic. Lmao as much as you want
Your obviously triggered
He doesn’t control you. So you can do whatever you want but he will probably make your life a living hell and make it hard for you to do it , Go to a friends house or find a private place in the woods somewhere where he can’t find you lol
It is odd your ex would be excited but besides that fact, it really depends on who owns the place you two are currently renting or live in, if it's in his name then he is allowed to tell you not to since technically it's his place, if in that circumstance you might need to try to set up a GoFund me to get the money
I feel I’m lacking sympathizers... completely
Sorry, I did not mean to sound unsympathetic, I have a hard time conveying feelings through text
Lol exactly I didn’t mean to sound disturbed. I wish they had sarcastic emoji. And I couldn’t possibly do a go fund me. Save that money for people with real problems lol.
Do it. Doesn't matter what he thinks.
He will probably wank in his room too, even if you tell him not to.
Grown people. If you don't show his face or any other things like that then it is your own business.
If only he pays the rent or you are in his house then you are just a guest.
I pay too
If you have a job I would suggest getting the app Dave or MoneyLion. You get cash advance immediately into your bank account just make sure to pay it back when your pay check gets in. If you prove to pay on time they increase how much you can burrow. No tricks or Gimmicks
I know it an emergency now and the verification of your information might take 2-3 days depending on your bank, but just for future reference
I was in hospitality so collect Edd
The guy is correct. Since it is his house and, because your relationship has ended, you are moving, he has the right to say what he wants and does not want happening in his house. It is his basic human rights, since it's his home. If you want to do what you are doing, you should first have found somewhere else to do it.
Who said it’s his house?
you won't make enough money doing only fans. it pays shit especially with all the competition out there and you don't have many if any followers and you have no ideas on how to market yourself or your only fans page. you have no audiance who will watch you. you better get a real job as well and a side hustle if you want to save up to move out in 30 days otherwise you'll be moving back in with your parents
Well see
It only takes one guy to make it worth it. And I’ve already got people asking without promoting it here. Your probably wrong but well and it’s not “common sense”
did you take into account that it costs minimum $950 or more for a one bedroom for the first month's rent plus security deposit which is another $950 plus the cost of movers which is $130 - 150 an hour for a 3 hour minimum? you're looking at over $2300 at least ballpark figure and that's not counting your other expenses like heat and hotwater if it's not included plus laundry plus food plus electricity if it's not included plus cellphone, plus internet, plus if you have a vehicle with those expenses. unless you have money set aside from many months ago you're dreaming if you think you can get together that kind of cash that fast unless you rob a bank or some shit
I’m not broke I just need to make a deposit. That’s Not impossible
And you act like I don’t get sugar daddy offers on the daily
And Rob how would you fucking know? It’s pretty obvious you wanna see
Crash and burn and I know woman fatter than your mom and uglier than your girlfriend that have them. I for the record I ain’t fucking no old dude for any amount of money.
i never said i want to see you crash and burn. i'm simply saying for you to be realistic. there's lots of competition out there and for you to get the security deposit and the first month's rent by doing only fans in as little time as you have and with very little followers is being quite unrealistic and if you don't believe me you can ask anyone who has an only fans account with little followers and see how much they pull in that is if they don't exaggerate their numbers.
If you love him don't loose him because us good ones are far and few between!!! So I'd go out and get a real job don't sell what's brought you together for a temporary thing...
Well only fans is for losers. So you want the low life scum to view ya go ahead.
Im sorry you have 30 days but only fans won't get you nearly enough cash in time. None of those porn sites are worth your time.
Who is paying rent and most of the expenses. You two broke up. And you may be still trying to use his place. He may have left you drive. But is he the only one at fault for you left dry. Mind it we are nit talking about relationship issues.
We pay half
Most relationships ends that way. First or second person do not want to do anything for other person. Even smallest favor. This seems to be huge thing and unethical too. As much I want to favor you. He is going to be liable for choices you make so I would appeal you to save you and him from all kind of problems till you move to some place else.
I suppose if you need too resort to doing that... do prostitution. I don't know what else to tell you.
Oh Danny... your just... stupid... really stupid. That thing you called a sentence has the grammar of a 5 year. I pity you and your self confessed below average weenie
And wtf? Stay outta my dms weirdo
Lol
Of a 5 year, what? “Old”? Haha yeah. Funny how you try to correct my grammar when it is actually you with shit grammar.
And wtf? I’ve never dm’d you bitch
Yeah I can correct my grammar but there’s nothing you can do about your little dinky
Bitch!!!😆😆😆😆
Lol love how you are talking about me like you know me cupcake.
Very cute
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I love that
yeah I would kick out the girl who's acting like a whore in my house too, no surprise there. Good thing he got rid of your disgusting ass, you wanna pay the rent? try working for a job insteas of whoring out your body.
You’ll never have your place let alone your own gf😂😂😂😂
Who are you Borat?
It’s so clever how you use my own confessions to insult and are too stupid and dull to come up with anything original
Why don't you just include him? It's only for a month. And it's just sex. It's not like you guys haven't fucked before.
He struggles
He struggles with what?
Giving me an orgasm duh
And? You're breaking up with him. So you'll be rid of him completely in 29 days or so. Then you can find a better man who knows how to make you cum. In the meantime, make some easy money. What's the harm?
I dunno ask all grown men that keep calling me a hoe 🤣
Well, you're already a hoe if you do OnlyFans, that's just a given. But that's your own personal choice to make.
I don't think it makes you any more of a hoe doing it with your boyfriend than you would be otherwise.
So what’s your issue with “hoes”
And how is that a given? A hoe is a girl that has sex with multiple men often. You don’t have to do that to be on Onlyfans. I’m confused by your logic.
I don't have an issue with hoes. They're just not my type. Not what I'm looking for.
Well, according to one definition, yes. But a hoe is also someone who acts sluttily. And showing your naked body to strangers for money pretty much fits that bill.
That was a guess and not a good one. Hoe is derived from whore. Saying she dresses like a hoe is saying she dresses like a Prostitute aka whore. And wether or not they are your type is kinda irrelevant. Why would we care?
This is all just my opinion. You don't have to agree with it.
But at least prostitutes are dressed (while they're out on the street). Whereas OnlyFans girls don't wear any clothes at all. So...
Ok lol just stop. Prostitutes wear clothes because you go to jail if you don’t and they barely wear any at that. And I actually have seen a girl standing naked waiting for a date to pull up. Actually one of the top Onlyfans girls never gets naked. But yeah I get it girls that take off their clothes so easily for anyone usually open their legs fairly easy too. Or you’d understandably think that being a guy. I know girls that are 20x worse than an Onlyfans model and you do to wether you know it or not
You're right; I probably do.
I don't know but sounds hot. Lol you should post your OF on here and see if you can get some people to throw some 💴 💰 your way.
I would love to but I think that will get me banned
He’s your boyfriend not your husband key word.
Heard that and he ain’t even that anymore
Go to a hotel and do it than, otherwise if it is his house than by all means he does have the right to tell not to do it
Well it's your boyfriend so think his feelings should matter
He’s not
Most likely won't happen. Do what you nedd to to have roof over your head.
It's hilarious how after 200 years of feminism women still have to whore themselves in order to be successful. Some things never change.
Wow this is a sticky situation but he does have some say over the house but not over you
No he doesn’t
So what are you gonna do?
I mean he can basically make it impossible to do, yes.
You seem to have grown weary of him. This is not about money 💰 or fans
a black guy needs to control a girls money. that's how it goes. he pimps you. you can't pimp yourself
Sure buddy
Why not go to your friends house? Or buy a bed? Or a Japanese bed (futon)? This way, you'll be free.
Do it I’ll be your fan😂
Haha ok
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you better just work instead of doing only fans thing
You share a house so yes
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Link for your only fans?
Lol 😆 k
If it's his house he has the right to say that.
wow.. If you share a house with him yes.
Get a job?
Wtf would I do that for? 😂😂😂
If he was smart they would do it together.
you're an idiot
Lol this guy thinks he’s clever
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