Yeah I understand what you mean. When I broken up with my first girlfriend a while back, it took me almost 2 years to fully get over the break-up and recover from all the mental and emotional abuse I was dealing within the relationship. Society seems to underestimate the fact that the person who does the break-up can also be affected. Unfortunately, society thinks that whomever got dumped is the one who suffers the most and undermines that those who do the dumping can be legitimately hurt from it.
Depending on the breakup and depending on cheating like if the girl cheated usually it’s the boy or if the guy cheated the girl can get upset too, so it’s hard to know depending on the situation.
I still think i'm right. I've heard women on here say when they dup a guy they're ober within a week. But if the guy dumps them it could take 6 months to get over.
Yes clearly that the normal experience and there was no underlying mental health issues that contributed that. Not invalidating your experience. Just questioning what your blaming your experience on.
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I can’t speak for everyone obviously but for me I feel like I’m always the one affected more. Regardless if I broke it off or not
Yeah I understand what you mean. When I broken up with my first girlfriend a while back, it took me almost 2 years to fully get over the break-up and recover from all the mental and emotional abuse I was dealing within the relationship. Society seems to underestimate the fact that the person who does the break-up can also be affected. Unfortunately, society thinks that whomever got dumped is the one who suffers the most and undermines that those who do the dumping can be legitimately hurt from it.
Exactly! Fuck societies outlook on that because they don’t know
Depending on the breakup and depending on cheating like if the girl cheated usually it’s the boy or if the guy cheated the girl can get upset too, so it’s hard to know depending on the situation.
All things about cheating😉
well it certainly isn't the one doing the breaking up.
Depends on who loved most and was most invested. In my case I'm never that invested so I'm good lol
You have boyfriend to wow
Jisko pyar ki jyada jarurat hoti hai wo jyada dukhi hota hai.
Emotional, sexual bond aur
Confidence level (breakup see pehle) bhi affect karta hai is chiz ko.
It depends on the person who love the other person more will be hurt more
The person who didn't want to break up is affected the most.
I personally never faced any drastic brrakups yet so for me it wasn't a big deal ig, dunno bout the other side.
I know that breakups used to really mess me up big time.
Lol, it really just depends on the people involved, whoever cared the most is the most hurt. Funny animation though, somewhat true.
I'd say whoever got dumped is affected more. Because the relationship didn't end on their terms.
I still think i'm right. I've heard women on here say when they dup a guy they're ober within a week. But if the guy dumps them it could take 6 months to get over.
I would rather not bring gender into this. It depends on who was more emotionally attached to the other.
Obviously the guy because the girl has like 10 guys lined up for her
Girls don't care a less who they hurt & most think its funny so there ya go
Most guys move on. Most guys already have a side chick on lineup.
Oh you would know because you're probably one of them. How about speak for yourself?
It depends. If the guy tends to be more emotional then definitely the guy, the other way around for girls
Whoever was the most invested.
Relation is not a investment Investment
Emotionally invested not necessarily financially lol
AAh investing in emotions what it will give in return?
Mutual feelings and emotional investment
Aww what if that will give u pain
2 years on.
3 suicide attempts.
Twice hospitalised.
Been on medication for 1.5 years
You tell me who's more affected.
Yes clearly that the normal experience and there was no underlying mental health issues that contributed that. Not invalidating your experience. Just questioning what your blaming your experience on.
When I needed her the most, she bailed on our relationship.
Close 3 years down the drain.
It's subjective. GAG has some of the dumbest post man. The gender doesn't matter man. You cannot through us all in a box
Lol great post, very inspiring!!! 🤣
Really kim