Guy won’t leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

This guy I broke off last year keeps harassing me. I blocked his number but keeps trying to find me on Facebook and stuff and I told him to leave me alone. he has financial issues and try to put me in it and keeps asking me for money all the time. I’m not a selfish person but when you keep asking me for money for food and Uber and stuff it gets annoying because YOU should have that money if your going to work out your home area instead of asking people for it. he says he wants a relationship but if you have so much problem in your life why would you want a relationship if you can’t even take care of yourself at 30 years old? at least respect yourself not to get involved if your not ready for that. he is not done with college (he is a dropout) . he keeps trying to use me for money because he only contacts me when he needs something a ride of money to get weed or food or to get to work that he should pay for himself. I’m not his wife or his mother. plus he is a sex offender for 6 years and he is on probation now he is paying a lawyer to get it off his record based on his behavior I think he is guilty even though he says he didn’t do it. this has been going on for months and I want it to stop. he keeps calling me through anonymous calls. I don’t want the police to get involved because my parents will find out I am 23 years old. I keep telling him I don’t want nothing to do with him for months but don’t get the message.

[btbc92]

You have no choice but to call the police. Just because your 23 that doesn't mean you can just do anything you want, like that. When people have premarital sex, that's exactly what happens to people like this guy. If he had sex with somebody, be it legal or not, a
sex offender is bound to be on somebody's record as is watching pornography and getting caught for a 12-year-old. It's perversive living. So even if he didn't do anything, the problem is people choose to have premarital sex and this is the consequence. It blurs the lines and creates "grey areas" of what is a sexual crime and isn't. Either way, if you want nothing to do with that guy, you have to call the police. Your parent will find out, but guess what? That is on you and that was your choice. If your the scared somebody will find out, that means your either doing something you shouldn't, or that should be a wake-up call for you to start moving out and living your own life as an adult. The truth is how can you judge him? Are you in your own home? No. Do you make enough to move out? The things you judge others for judge yourself just as harshly. You scared of your parents at 23, what does that say? Neither you nor he is an adult at your respective ages. Worse, you didn't even know this guy is just scamming you out of money and resoruces. Plenty of those people online. Until then, your not ready for a serious relationship either. You want him to leave you alone call authorities or expect him to God forbid make it worse and endanger your life and somebody will find out and cause even more problems because instead of handling it, you're permitting it. That is my advice.

[Anonymous]

it's because you are weak and gave him money before. never do that. especially with his history. he will also never pay you back. not sure why you even bothered in the first place?

your logic also makes no sense... your parents don't HAVE to find out. like you said, you are 23 YEARS OLD. not under 18... your parents have no say.

you need a restraining order or you're going to have to change your phone number. pick one.

[CallMeDave]

That must be really annoying. It seems like you've been clear that you want him to leave you alone and he won't so I'm not sure there's anything else you can do other than get a different phone number and keep the new one private enough that he can't find it or report him to the police and/or try to get a restraining order against him so that it would be illegal for him to contact you.