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It's not worth staying if you are afraid. If he is going to those lengths and not stopping when you say your safe word. Then there is no reason you should stay with him. If he doesn't make you feel special everyday and you dont get happy to be with him all the time then I would suggest leave him and find someone who will appreciate you, treat you right and not make you feel afraid to be with them.
If you used your safe word and he continued that's assault at least, possibly felony sexual assault because of the circumstances.
I suggest a restraining order and perhaps you should switch roles if you try bdsm again...
If he doesn't respect your wishes now it will likely get worse over time. You deserve to be treated with respect. You can stick it out and are strong enough.
When you feel completely done with him you will finally be, ‘done’. Till then you will more than likely remain the moth to a flame. Just the nature of how people can be...
Not adhering to safe word protocol is a major deal breaker.
You have to have trust. That's just really fucking mean what he did.
Dump him and stick to your guns.
Hannah, Hang in there sweetheart. You are a very special woman. Things may seem bad at the moment, but You will find a man. He will treat You with respect, not try to control You. This guy is not worth crying over.
Stick with the break up! Your will being is far more important than the moments of him being good. If he alternates back and forth, then the crappy dude if him if the real side. You deserve better!
Nice guy? You were dating an asshole and you should feel proud that you respected yourself enough to dump him. Stay strong and block him from contacting you.
Yes! Oh gosh girl please!! Do not get back together with him! He is straight up bad news and you really do deserve better and you are strong enough to stand for it!
So are you saying that you went back out with the guy that you broke up with? He is a toxic person. You have to stick to your guns this time. Stay away from him before he seriously hurts you.