How Would You Feel If Someone Broke Up With You By A Post It Note?

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Walt832 · Accepted Answer

I don't know lol but I'll be like well🤷‍♂️. Maybe she has issues or can't handle mines.

Post it 🤣. I never done that. Last relationship was good but then declined bc her parents were getting involved and started to get cold like a grave yard. She felt one day was coming but she change to toxic female. I decided to go to her parents house where she was living. I straight up told her we are done.

I honestly i am a person that doesn't do pass the message. I am at front speaking to you and I expect as well from you. Yeah it may hurt. 🤷‍♂️Hey a good girlfriend or good best friend that corrects with valid grounds is someone you want to have in your life. But if is someone sees the issue never tells you, fk off.

So the post it thing it varies 🤣. Some either gal or guy knows their partners how they will react, they want to avoid it. OR both genders don't have the guts to tell them.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

That would be chickenshit. But I'd be bummed it someone broke up with me, no matter how it was done.
It partially depends on what kind of relationship we had and how long we had been together. Were we having troubles? Did I suspect that she was dissatisfied or did it come out of the blue?
When I think about it, I can see why someone wouldn't want to have a hurtful discussion, dump a bunch of negative shit on me, and subject themselves to my reactions. Hearing it in person might even make me feel worse. I don't know.

If I got dumped via a message, I might be left to wonder why. I would probably be angry with them for not having broken up amicably. I might wish they had done it to my face so that I could try to understand and repair the problem the were having.

Either way, breakups are painful and messy. I don't really know a good way to do it.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

So basically how people used to break up before texting and the internet?

It's childish, immature, and I certainly don't agree with it. With that being said, I'd treat them like they treated me: write a note back saying, "Okay, your loss!" as I put all his possessions in a trash bag and throw them out, LOL

kidvid80 · Accepted Answer

that they were a coward and can't deal with being an adult so shouldn't be in a relationship anyway. i would be hurt of course but thinking whatta pill and someone elses headache. the "C" work would come to mind as soon as I saw the note and fast and I don't mean cookie, rhymes with punt?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If we have at least three dates, I break up in person, with a full explanation.

coachTanthony · Answer

Ha Ha Ha such a classic scene. There used to be an app for that not sure if it still exists.

Screenwriter · Answer

I'd feel grateful they broke up with me, no matter how weak a breakup it was.

You don't want to be with someone whose idea of being honest and straightforward is doing anything but making a grocery list via post it.

You dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Bricealan · Answer

Well... my wife left me by leaving an envelope hanging in he garage where I parked my car, and it was hanging in front of my windshield when I came home from work. She needed the shit slapped out of her for doing such a low class thing ! Don't you think? She had been fucking this guy on the nights I was attending classes at the Sheriffs Academy.

Starrisunset · Answer

While getting broken up with is usually a bad experience no matter what. I'd actually prefer it not to be in person. Even if it seems more respectful. I'd hate to have a potential breakdown in front of them. I wouldn't want to give them that "power". I know that's not really the right word for this but I wouldn't want them to see me cry. It would make things pretty awkward for everyone and I'd prefer they didn't know I thought they were worth crying over.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I'd fine them & flip my shit! You wanna dump me, cool, that's fine, it didn't work out, but at LEAST have the fucking balls to do it to my fucking face! Goddamn coward...

Purplemonkey242 · Answer

Pissed. Dont be a wuss you asked me out in person you can ask me out in person you can break up with me in person. I hate when I get asked out over text

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I would be devastated of course but at the same time i would recover faster knowing that person is not worth my time. I do communicate a lot and that is the exact opposite

JosyJosy · Answer

Pathetic and funny at the same time, I work at an office. I'd throw all his stuff outside, and put a "don't forget to take these with you :* " post it note

tupacs_only_wife · Answer

Feel? Bruh im sending somebody's balls to heaven. If you ever wanna break up with someone just tell them face to face and not like a coward.

adamp98 · Answer

I'd be annoyed it just shows that that person hasn't got the respect to tell you to ylur face and give a reason. If anything its just being petty.

exitseven · Answer

It would be better than if your girlfriend brought her new boyfriend into a bar she knew you would be at and just sat in a booth with him to let you know she was dumping you.

pjf1958 · Answer

I'd send her a post it note informing her that I'm having a bachelor party tonight at the house, celebrating my new found freedom.

IAMNathanael · Answer

What "we"?  More like... I'm out of milk lol But seriously, not much of a goodbye is it?

Prettygurl12 · Answer

*Writes own post-it*: No. 😂 Hubby can't get rid of me that easily.

MTC29 · Answer

Inconsiderate, to say the least. After all, she could have left without drinking all of the milk.

Interstate · Answer

Disgusted that I allowed myself to be involved with someone with such little moral fiber.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I'd be ok providing it was a blue post it note.. I like the blue ones.

fonduegirl · Answer

"I'm gonna kick some ass!"

Leavesbound · Answer

That would be an improvement on the last time a girl broke up with me.

sensogal · Answer

He must be a dinosaur.. Who uses postit notes and have a pen? 😂😂

Nik1hil · Answer

I would be furious ..  She could have texted me..  🤔 Why did she waste paper? We are already loosing so many trees..

NathanDavis · Answer

I would feel she really is trying to hurt me... as she would know how much I hate sticky adhesive residue (any amount) on my stuff and it could drive me insane, why do it like that... have some consideration.

belle_kai · Answer

Like burger did to carrie in SATC. I wouldn’t give him the time of day again as he clearly has no respect.

Anonymous · Answer

think she's a golddigger because she couldnt afford to replace the milk and expects me to get it all time. Id then splash her car with 2 bottles of milk (2 because she has 2 breasts that she could have used to feed herself like wtf).

SaoirseS · Answer

Irritated. But at least it’s in his handwriting and more personal than a text message or e-mail.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I'll take it, piss on it and turn this song out loud 😌, don't need such trash in my life!

Avicenna · Answer

Disgusted. But it’s functionally the same as a breakup via text.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Fuck well at least the bitch told me. Last one didn't say shit then she wrecked my truck.

MaelE · Answer

I would probably laugh.  And burn every post-it I would find next.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Pretty pissed!!! How much of a coward can you be if you can't FACE the person to break up with them?

Jenngirl00 · Answer

That is just screwed up. I would spread the news of them being a coward

Nazgol · Answer

I would definitely not think highly of them, and I'd make sure they know it. Then be glad for an idiot breaking up with me 😉

Prideful · Answer

Could have discussed it a bit more? lol If she wants to break, that's okay but I don't believe I would such a girlfriend, she would respect me more than that.

hellacray · Answer

Lol that's really dumb.  I think I dodged a bullet if that happened.

ChiTown33 · Answer

What I love about that note. That milk takes the lead. Lmao!

Massageman · Answer

almost - got a dear john letter, but it wasn't sticky - - - - -

FatherJack · Answer

OK then , don't let the door hit your arse on the way out...

douride2 · Answer

It was close. He just left me a short note saying he was leaving & not coming back.

StunningANDbrave · Answer

I'd tell them that my secretary lost it and to send me an email.

The_Outlaw · Answer

Like shit. But while cowardly, it's still more honest than ghosting can ever be.

blondfrog · Answer

Lol still beats being breaking up with over text or ghosted lol.

Surely · Answer

Do people still know how to use pencils and paper? Would have to be an electronic post it note!

Citizenkirk · Answer

They used to call them"Dear John" letters. It's a cowardly way to dump a guy.  Same goes for "Dear Jane" letters.

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

Very cowardly because it shows that they can't have enough strength to talk to a person to fix a relationship

Anonymous · Answer

You know what? I wouldn’t take that note serious and go straight up to my partner‘s house, so he can tell it to my face! I am worthy enough to be let down at least RESPECTFULLY and not with through such a crappy note.

NightHawk99 · Answer

So be it. I won't even respond to her. I'll just screenshot evidence I may need, then delete her number, and delete her off my friends list on all my social media accounts. And if we live together, kick her out or move out myself.

princeofromance · Answer

How cowardly is that? That just shows me, that they are a coward.

msc545 · Answer

Marginally better than a text, the favorite method of women.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Send a post it note to their house with “FUCK YOU” on it 😂

JackSmy · Answer

I think there would be some "Writing on the Wall" that I would notice, before that!!

zeus2021 · Answer

It’d honestly be pretty messed up and I’d feel like I wasn’t important enough to at least deserve to be told face to face.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Depends on the person. Usually that's a crappy thing to do, but just occasionally, it may be the rightest possible thing to do.

Marhaban-1 · Answer

I wouldn't for the reason I'm braking up with them we probably would have had to have a fall out in the first place

rounddablock · Answer

Pathetic. But hey that’s better then one ex i had do to me.

invalid1 · Answer

I would feel the same as if it was a text in my phone.

TylerL89 · Answer

Pretty shitty if that's what happened to you my heart goes out to you darling

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

This is so terrible I would assume I was the only thing wrong in their life

loveslongnails · Answer

I'd feel like I was a poor judge of character to be dating her in the first place.

MrJMM · Answer

I would think of at least 180 scenarios of how to get revenge.

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